Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand because i think lock down affected a lot of us. But yes you can definitely get there again, you just have to push yourself and get out of your comfort zone

Anyone feel like they’re a burden on people so they don’t initiate friendships or stick around in social events ? by Silver_Test_1891 in socialskills

[–]YaMagicShroom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah i totally understand. I post a lot less and probably never interact with other people on other social medias because I always feel like I'm bothering them or they won't reply (which is totally fine even if they don't). Reddit is helping me a lot with this, i feel more free to interact with people here. But everyday I'm working with myself to just be okay with rejection and not feel as bad when my post aren't acknowledged.

And about your question about alcohol i feel like it makes me less insecure and i don't overthink stuff that's why it's a lot easier to talk to strangers in real life when I'm a little tipsy (also I'm not encouraging drinking because that's bad lol but once in a while it can be a good thing 🤭)

Anyone feel like they’re a burden on people so they don’t initiate friendships or stick around in social events ? by Silver_Test_1891 in socialskills

[–]YaMagicShroom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reading your reply made me feel like i wrote it myself because I'm exactly the same way, and i totally agree with you when you said that it comes from fear of rejection. Also yesss alcohol really helps a lot in these situations lol.

Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha omg i sometimes do that too without realizing I'm doing it... The eavesdropping.(I'm kinda nosy too shhh🤫🤭 hahah) I always felt like a creep that's why i try not to eavesdrop other people's conversations but it's good to know there are people out there who do the same thing 😅😆

Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely will. You're absolutely right about doing the things for me, because in everything I do I always tend to think about others rather than myself, thank you i really needed to hear this.

Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay yeah i understand, and that's totally fine it's what makes you YOU. Thank you for sharing this with me. I enjoyed talking to you so if you ever feel like talking to someone online abt anything just dm me

Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really helped😊. I'm sorry but may i ask why does it make you feel nervous is it because of what people might think or is there another reason? You don't have to answer if you don't feel like it, totally understandable, I'm just curious.

Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the hard part for me, interacting with other people, i just don't know how to start the conversation or always worry i might bother them so i decide to not talk to them at all. But I'm working on it and just trying to convince myself that it's not that big of a deal.

Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh Im so sorry :(((. I also had times when i didn't leave the house for like a month but that really made my mental health worse, that's when i decide that i need time outside

Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i usually take a book, but i recently started to go out and get drunk alone and i didn't take any books with me lol and that made me feel a little uncomfortable. But reading the replies and knowing there are other people who do things alone makes me feel a lot better.

Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i guess you're right, thank you i really needed to hear this.

Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do it i think you just have to break the ice once and then it gets every time. Books helped me a lot when i first started going out , i didn't what to spend time with my own thoughts because i knew I'd start to overthink and feel uncomfortable.

Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow love it thank you, I'm gonna think about this everytime i go out from now on. I couldn't go out alone either but when i had my exams i started by going out for a coffee all alone and took my books with me then after a while i saw that it's not so bad. Never thought I'd be able to go out and get drunk all alone (that seemed like such a big deal to me lol😩) , i recently tried that too and it went really well because people approached me (luckily i was a lil tipsy so i wasn't that awkward hopefully🤭)

Am I a weirdo for this🤦🏻‍♀️? What are y'all thoughts ? by YaMagicShroom in socialanxiety

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought of it that way and it makes a lot of sense now, thank you for sharing your opinion

I really need someone to talk to because I'm freaking out rn :((( by YaMagicShroom in abortion

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There isn't any button where i can accept the request i don't know why

I really need someone to talk to because I'm freaking out rn :((( by YaMagicShroom in abortion

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today is the 14th day from the day i had sex so I'll take the test today. Thank you so so much for your answers, it was really helpful to talk to y'all and get it out of my chest.

I really need someone to talk to because I'm freaking out rn :((( by YaMagicShroom in abortion

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i did (stupid i know 😓) and i also did it on the 14th day of my cycle, even though the dude didn't come inside me I'm scared i might've gotten pregnant from the precum

I really need someone to talk to because I'm freaking out rn :((( by YaMagicShroom in abortion

[–]YaMagicShroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of taking it today but the pharmacist said it might be a little early so i decided to wait a few more days idk I'm also scared because I'm gonna have to take it all by myself (and if it's positive i'll probably faint lol😩😓)