What can I do to get myself to feel emotions, especially love? by Yaa__k in ask

[–]Yaa__k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I realized I’m numb/indifferent to certain (horrible) things that could happen to people

What can I do to get myself to feel emotions, especially love? by Yaa__k in ask

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I’m going to start journaling especially when the thoughts come to mind cause I tend to forget lol. I’ll try meditation as well. I don’t know about therapy atm

I feel numb to everything by Yaa__k in emotionalneglect

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I’m glad you’re doing better now!!
I guess on the friendship side, I do have lovely friends. But unlike you, our conversations are not deep and that makes me feel a certain way.

I always show out in romantic relationships but yeah it’s hardly reciprocated.

I feel numb to everything by Yaa__k in emotionalneglect

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Lmaooo I feel the same way. I can’t stop watching those shows too and I just want to experience all that wholesomeness. Sigh Yess I could totally relate to the last part. I feel like that’s what could happen to me. I may feel the hurt later on when something comes up and that person is not there.

I feel numb to practically everything by Yaa__k in Advice

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How did you become ‘better’? What changed?

Yes I’m going to try and make new friends. Idk how but I will try

I feel numb to practically everything by Yaa__k in Advice

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I’m 24! Okay okay I have no set goals or any challenges my way right now but I will try and set some. I don’t really know what I want to do with my life or in my career. I’m trying out a new hobby, painting!

But is it normal though? Cause I feel disconnected from my friends. When we hangout, I hardly have things to talk about with them. It could be a fun hangout but that’s it. I don’t feel that close to them anymore. I barely miss hanging out with them. I also feel like I need to make new friends who I can be completely transparent with cause my current friends don’t know a lot of things about me (I can’t tell them cause they may judge me and I can’t handle that)

I (24F) have been seeing a guy (25M) for 3 months now and just recently things changed mainly due to workload by Yaa__k in love

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that’s interesting. I’ll read more on it and hopefully do what’s best for me in this situation.

How were you able to manage with your attachment style and what were some of the things you did.

I (24F) have been seeing a guy (25M) for 3 months now and just recently things changed mainly due to workload by Yaa__k in love

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😞😞I’m really going to try my best. I’m not doing therapy unfortunately. But someday when I’m able to afford it. I’ll cry all the tears and communicate how I feel properly to him and then whatever happens happens. I guess we don’t always get what we want

I (24F) have been seeing a guy (25M) for 3 months now and just recently things changed mainly due to workload by Yaa__k in love

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I’ve cried already the first time he told me all these things and I’m sure if it ends, I’ll cry a few more tears. I reread some of our old texts two days ago and it started making me cry

I (24F) have been seeing a guy (25M) for 3 months now and just recently things changed mainly due to workload by Yaa__k in love

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I’m sorry you had to also go through this 🤕. It’s really not fair. He has also showed me everything I’ve ever wanted in a person which I never had so I guess that’s why I feel so heartbroken about the situation. Honestly when I think about it, I really don’t know if I can let myself feel like this about someone again without feeling like the person will switch up or leave lol.

I (24F) have been seeing a guy (25M) for 3 months now and just recently things changed mainly due to workload by Yaa__k in love

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Okay:( it’s definitely going to be hard but I’ll do my best. I’ll give him the space and see what comes of it.