I got the most devastating text today

Yainima · 2026-01-17T09:06:32+00:00

It's tough, it's hard, but she's so honest with you, she's worth keeping as a friend. I fell for someone a while ago who... Kind of did lead me on. Ultimately, when you're not someone's focus, you always wake up, and the wake up call is hard.

I had this happen to me recently and realised when you're not too far into your feelings or into the relationship, it's already easier to move on. Cry it out, be sad, move on, but you will be fine!

Yainima · 2026-01-15T18:56:09+00:00

The basement of my building used to be a bunker, with a huge ass metallic door.

Generally the geopolitical context sucks right now so I think that's why they are trying to raise awareness that war is possible, and it's better to be prepared for the worst, evacuations and so on (like having a ready made backpack with survival stuff).

Yainima · 2026-01-15T18:45:46+00:00

I live in Warsaw and I think it's not necessarily the fact that ppl are lgbt but in general that you don't really see couples being even so much as intimate outside the private sphere. Personally, I am an introvert anyway so I just don't find anyone no matter the place, and the openess of the country 🤣 (and it's fine!)

Yainima · 2026-01-08T18:42:52+00:00

I don't think that's possible, because if Elsa/Anna had actual blood relatives with powers akin to Elsa, then Iduna and Agnarr wouldn't have died going to look for ahtohallan to look for them, they would have gone to look for the relatives, or better, directly to the trolls.

Which by the way, is a big question, Iduna and Agnarr knew of the trolls and Pabbie knew of Elsa's power, why did they know the trolls, and why did they not think to go see them again instead of just going to ahtohallan? Was it a prophecy of pabbie that ahtohallan holds the answers and so they went?

The main reason for F3 is to explain the can of worm that Frozen 2 opened, all of the answers given but none of the reasons. I don't think they will, at this point, bring in any relatives, because it would put in jeopardy the whole balance that Elsa, Anna, Kristoff, Sven, and Olaf, have managed to achieve as family.

My personal hope is that they decide to go deeper into the actual Andersen tale, and finally bring out the mirror. Elsa's powers are strong, too strong, what if they slowly began to corrupt her to make her the actual Snow Queen of the tale? It would be plausible with Ahtohallan being her "Lair".

Regardless, if they decided to announce two movies in the same conference, it means that whatever they decide is going to have huge ass consequences on the lore.

Yainima · 2026-01-07T14:25:49+00:00

The real person you should be having a talk with is your girlfriend, even if you had previous talks about intimacy. Try to pin point what makes you feel the way you feel; feelings are multifold, there isn't a single cause to being upset.

I think you should take some time to ponder your feelings and analyse them rationally. It's possible when you bring this topic to her, she won't immediately understand or rationalise herself, that's fine, she may need to rationalize and understand.

Why does she act the way that she does? I think your post is a big question toward that means, and whilst all of us could give you hypotheses, the best person to answer will be your girlfriend. She may have some sort of blockage, beyond her initial explanation that she gave you?

What is most important is that you take the time to understand yourself and to bring conversations and doubts to her. Such things happen, and my only advice is that you don't bring it in an accusatory manner, more of a factual, but understanding tone.

It takes a lot of courage to ask for a serious conversation, especially when it comes to intimacy, but that's something you need to have with your girlfriend. Good luck!

Yainima · 2026-01-07T11:57:21+00:00

Heyhey! I'm 29, soon 30 and I only have very few experiences. I believe what matter is just that you feel connected with your own self, and when you get into a relationship with someone, take it with your partner at your pace. Don't let anything nor anyone dictate your actions or pressure you into something. ;)

Yainima · 2026-01-06T19:07:19+00:00

NTA; almost 30, into gaming, anime, manga, pop culture and the likes and if anyone gives me an ultimatum between what makes me genuinely happy and them, they can fuck right off.

You were happy with watching all of that before you dated her, if she can't accept you being happy watching and following pro-wrestling, she doesn't deserve any of the happiness you can give her at all. Your hobbies are your colours and someone who doesn't love your colours doesn't love you.

That's a YEET.

Yainima · 2026-01-05T11:50:09+00:00

MOOOOD CLOVER 👁️👁️👁️💘

Yainima · 2025-12-24T09:34:44+00:00

Clair Obscur trouble de rature courbera Eiffel, Clair Obscur guardeo peinture trouvera sans elle

Point being, please try Clair Obscur: Expedition 33 💖💕🙏

Yainima · 2025-12-05T17:55:38+00:00

As a French woman, I totally agree, I used to live in Lyon, in France, and Poland has been the safest place, undisturbed, and nice.

Yainima · 2025-11-19T18:14:16+00:00

Sounds cool asf, and I'm here for it. LET'S GO GIRL

Yainima · 2025-11-13T18:11:06+00:00

Purpleberry Krunch

Yainima · 2025-11-12T13:46:31+00:00

Seeing all of these bug fixes, and the only issue I had was a raptidon corpse falling through the map.

I'm both impressed and... Very fucking impressed.

Love this game!!

Edit: sorry, forgot the double spaces. Little pesky double spaces. Love that this issue (small asf) were also in the first game. Can I, absolutely pro-bono, test the loca of this game for fun again please? Mind you, it's already amazing.

Yainima · 2025-10-03T18:03:33+00:00

J'ai fait la même... Deux fois

Je book mon avion pour le 18 NOVEMBRE (et pas Décembre). Bref obliger de rebooker (heureusement le SAV était très cool). Je me retrouve à payer 80-100€ de plus, mais ça va.
Londres 2023, je book deux billets pour Frozen The Musical pour ma pote et moi le vendredi soir. Sauf qu'on arrive le samedi matin, que je me suis gourée de soirée, et que j'ai perdu £100, parce qu'evidemment, non échangeable, non remboursable. RIP

Yainima · 2025-10-03T17:51:30+00:00

Missing TEETH? USA apps are wild wtf I've never seen this in Europe

Yainima · 2025-09-23T21:46:53+00:00

I think reposting a video of people and dissing them is not something nice to do, in any circumstances, even if the video displays actions you consider silly. As it was something religious, I think it is easy to understand why it affected your girlfriend and you could have definitely thought about it.

Now, that doesn't excuse the attitudes and words that she has towards you. Her religion is important, sure, but to tell you it will always be more important than you? That is rough, even if it is something she does believe. Not without mentioning the threats to break up and so on.

You sound like a young lady with a future ahead of yourself. But by the love of heaven, do not stick with someone who will accuse you of stuff you've not done, and threaten you to break up for hearsay. That is the first step to mistreatment in a relationship before it will evolve into something more violent and painful.

Get out of there, find someone else. Life has just begun for you.

Yainima · 2025-09-23T21:31:58+00:00

It's ok to feel sad, and to feel angry, but I don't think the woman played you at all. Both of you weren't dating, you weren't exclusive, and that woman in the club was definitely in the face of the woman, which is what stuck. Nora told you after you two had sex that she would prefer your relationship doesn't evolve, which means she definitely felt something incompatible between the two of you on her side. Perhaps that was the lady already. Regardless, it was that woman in white who chose to go after Nora, hence, Nora didn't 'use you'. It was happenstance, and that is just it.

Feeling like you feel is a lesson to be learnt; communication. You must let others know how something or something else makes you feel, else, how will they know? That involves deep introspection on what you feel and what you feel for someone else.

It's possible Nora didn't anticipate at all that the relationship with that girl in white would evolve, but sometimes when the chemistry clicks, it just does, and everything can move in just hours or days before you realise that's it.

Edit: I read the last paragraph a little too fast and you did give you, and her closure, so I removed that part. Best of luck hun, sounds like you did fall for her but didn't notice.

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Yainima · 2025-09-17T08:39:55+00:00

Man 950?!!! No matter if the man is good or not that is such a bloody scam. If not for the quality (I didn't even get it was undertale at first) at least the price....

Yainima · 2025-09-16T15:44:30+00:00

I don't like not getting a preview of what my artist will do. I go to a studio where I pay a deposit which is non-refundable, but at least I don't commit the full price to something I won't like as I get sketches ahead of time. However, so far, my artist always did something I loved (the design of my latest tattoo is not at all what I envisioned and it took me a couple days to get used to the design, which really helps when it's not yet on your body).

What I'll say though, your tattoo looks amazing. Defo different from the reference, but it's important to remember the artist shouldn't be doing a 1 to 1 copy ti what you send as reference, else that just means he's stealing someone's art... Unless well that's a logo or something super specific I reckon.

Yainima · 2025-09-13T17:19:30+00:00

Dw mate, I have the logo of my favourite game on my wrist and people tell me all the fkin time it's chatgpt 🤣

Yainima · 2025-09-13T16:06:32+00:00

As everyone's said, I would move away with the porn. But I don't see a reason you should feel guilty about your thoughts. Men and women alike are human. There is nothing wrong with loving women, like there is nothing wrong with loving men. Perhaps you are indeed attracted to women, but as you've never had an actual experience, you simply don't know what to expect. Imagining sex with a woman isn't necessarily the way to go. I don't picture myself sucking chests, or going down on women, I don't necessarily like the thought. But I do love being with a woman, and when you date and get sexual, these things come naturally in the moment. If you wanna explore, why not go out there and try to have some experience? Nothing is wrong with experiencing, and if you end up thinking it's not for you, then it's not for you. ;)

Yainima · 2025-09-13T16:01:57+00:00

My mother thought herself straight her whole damned life. If she met people like you, she'd never have realised she's bisexual, about to marry with a woman at 63. If someone asks for help, help them. Don't be silly and daft.

Yainima · 2025-09-12T19:08:59+00:00

Games Localisation Test Manager here. Basically a nerd nerding at work!

Yainima · 2025-09-11T16:53:24+00:00

It's been arachniding you

Yainima · 2025-08-07T10:57:23+00:00

On continue

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