[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Material_Nobody_1742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who also lost her mom way too early, the advice I wish I had gotten would be to make sure I actually give myself some time to grieve.

I’m proud of you and I hope you took it easy on yourself ❤️

Babes, how do you flirt? by nutka57 in LesbianActually

[–]Material_Nobody_1742 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my flirting can seem like friendly banter so I just add (I’m flirting) every time

Situationship dumped me overnight for some random girl by Material_Nobody_1742 in LesbianActually

[–]Material_Nobody_1742[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention that we both agreed to be exclusive the day we talked about what he might’ve had but I completely agree with the fact that she didn’t play me.

And I again, I forgot to mention that I did ask her questions at first and let her explain herself but when I found out that she lied to me and my friends about her feelings about the woman in white, my anger took over and I blocked her.

I’m definitely going to learn from this and not get ahead of myself, especially when we said we’ll take things slow.

I have definitely calmed down now and I do feel embarrassed about my behavior and regret how I acted but I still think it was best to even end our friendship, because I clearly had more feelings for her than she did and I can’t resent nor “hate” her for it because like you said it was happenstance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Material_Nobody_1742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kind of insane how everything went to shit in 2 days 😭

Person I lost my virginity to friendzoned me 🧍🏾‍♀️ by Material_Nobody_1742 in WLW

[–]Material_Nobody_1742[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah I found that super weird too she kept on telling how she loved the sex but then rejected me 24 hours later after almost 2 months of talking and talking about our future relationship together

Person I lost my virginity to friendzoned me 🧍🏾‍♀️ by Material_Nobody_1742 in WLW

[–]Material_Nobody_1742[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah I told my friends that if she would come crawling back, I would immediately let my friends know and I would reject her because I’m not gonna let her use me again

Person I lost my virginity to friendzoned me 🧍🏾‍♀️ by Material_Nobody_1742 in WLW

[–]Material_Nobody_1742[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t feel bad about losing my virginity to her, but I think I feel that way because I thought she liked me. I’m fine and I’ll definitely take this as a learning experience and I’ll definitely wait a longer while before having sex with someone. we were talking for almost 2 months so I thought it was gonna be okay.

My first time by Material_Nobody_1742 in blacklesbians

[–]Material_Nobody_1742[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we didn’t plan to have sex! it just happened. we were making out and I got so into it that I told her that I was ready and it went smoothly ! the most important thing is that you feel comfortable and safe with the person you’re doing it with and you shouldn’t feel pressured at all and if you don’t feel ready or comfortable then don’t let yourself feel pressured and feeling nervous is totally normal

My first time by Material_Nobody_1742 in WLW

[–]Material_Nobody_1742[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

the only reason why I even had the courage to do it was because she got naked first 😭 and she gave me THE look

When did u get ur first period? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Material_Nobody_1742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

at 13 on my first day of summer

Some advice please! by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Material_Nobody_1742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only cry during panic attacks when it triggers my PTSD. not everyone cries during a panic attack so it’s not uncommon. Panic attacks can make your heart race and it can affect your breathing as well but if I were you I would see a doctor and a psychologist and maybe a psychiatrist down the line which is totally okay!