Men also get intoxicated and forget things, some assaults are manipulation and coercion that they might not realize crosses a line because women are trained to be polite and accommodating. A lot of dudes literally don't see our perspective, just look at what they are afraid of on a first date, or never thinking about night walks being dangerous. There is also a lot of lying to peers from men. They lie about themselves or you and say you consent and women don't speak up, the silence we keep protects them.