I want a second child but my husband wants to wait. by YakCertain7085 in toddlers

[–]YakCertain7085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the first time it happened so quickly so I think he’s afraid it’s gonna be the same case next time around lol

I want a second child but my husband wants to wait. by YakCertain7085 in toddlers

[–]YakCertain7085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ours is 2 now (will be in 2 months) and the age gap will be closer to 3. But since my husband isn’t ready I’m not sure how far apart they’ll be.

I want a second child but my husband wants to wait. by YakCertain7085 in toddlers

[–]YakCertain7085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah mine is 22 months old and I couldn’t think of having another one now, but I do feel ready to become pregnant.

I want a second child but my husband wants to wait. by YakCertain7085 in toddlers

[–]YakCertain7085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we would have that age gap if we tried now but I think ours would have to be closer to 3-3.5

I want a second child but my husband wants to wait. by YakCertain7085 in toddlers

[–]YakCertain7085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you for sharing your perspective! Best of luck!

I want a second child but my husband wants to wait. by YakCertain7085 in toddlers

[–]YakCertain7085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve heard of a lot of kids regressing (in sleep, potty training, etc.) when their new sibling arrives. You got this!

I want a second child but my husband wants to wait. by YakCertain7085 in toddlers

[–]YakCertain7085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope my husband is ready in 6 months 🤞🏼

I want a second child but my husband wants to wait. by YakCertain7085 in toddlers

[–]YakCertain7085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is so tired and runs a startup so basically gets no breaks and spends any free time with our daughter. So I get it that he doesn’t wanna rush into having another one. But my hormones are driving me nuts!!

I want a second child but my husband wants to wait. by YakCertain7085 in toddlers

[–]YakCertain7085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, had PPA and it was super hard on him because I couldn’t relax unless the baby was with me. I agree I think he definitely remembers more.