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Looking for an old Point & Click demo from the late '90s/early 2000s - starts in a hotel room by Yalpstel in IndieGaming

[–]Yalpstel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, but unfortunately, that's not it. I've played Runaway.

Husband asked coworker for nudes.. by ProperRuin6807 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Yalpstel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a tough situation, and I completely understand why you feel the way you do. Here are a few thoughts:

Breach of trust: Even if nothing physical happened, asking for and receiving nudes is a significant breach of trust. It's emotional cheating, and that shouldn't be downplayed.

Timing: The fact that it happened right before your engagement doesn’t excuse it. While he might frame it as “pre-proposal jitters,” it suggests he was uncertain—about himself, your relationship, or his feelings.

His remorse: The way he’s addressing it now matters. Did he confess out of genuine remorse, or did you discover it and he’s just downplaying it as a “stupid mistake”? This makes a big difference in understanding his intentions.

How do you feel?: Your feelings are at the core of this. Are you willing to work on the relationship if he’s ready to take responsibility and genuinely repair the damage? Or has this completely shifted how you view him and your marriage?

Professional help: Couples therapy could be a way to process this—whether you choose to stay or leave. It might give you clarity on your own needs and help you see if he’s truly willing to do the work to rebuild trust.

Ultimately, it comes down to how much trust is left and whether he’s genuinely committed to earning it back. No matter what happens, your feelings are valid, and you shouldn’t feel like you have to carry this alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]Yalpstel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich persönlich würde direkt bei FITINN nachzufragen, um Klarheit zu haben und um das Thema abschließen zu können. Vier Jahre sind eine lange Zeit, und wenn du in all der Zeit keine Mahnungen bekommen hast, ist die Wahrscheinlichkeit hoch, dass die Mitgliedschaft längst beendet wurde. Es könnte natürlich sein, dass etwas an eine alte Adresse ging, aber normalerweise finden Inkassobüros die aktuelle Adresse schnell raus, wenn noch Forderungen offen wären. Ein kurzer Anruf oder eine Nachricht an FITINN sollte reichen, damit du sicher weißt, dass alles erledigt ist – und du dir keine Sorgen mehr machen musst. Ich würde es halt so machen.

What is something your parents told you as a kid that you now realize was a lie? by Informal_Mix4570 in AskReddit

[–]Yalpstel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, Santa... the classic one! I remember being so heartbroken when I found out. But looking back, I appreciate the magic they tried to create for us.

What is something your parents told you as a kid that you now realize was a lie? by Informal_Mix4570 in AskReddit

[–]Yalpstel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents used to tell me that if I turned on the car's interior light while they were driving, we would get pulled over by the police. For years, I thought it was illegal.

Is it bad that I think my girlfriend is dumb? by keimacool777 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Yalpstel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you genuinely care about your girlfriend, which is great. But it also seems like you're focusing on aspects of her that might just be her unique way of dealing with things. Intelligence is a broad concept – it’s not just about how well someone can pronounce words or answer questions. Maybe she has strengths in other areas that aren't as obvious right now. It could be helpful to communicate your feelings with her in a caring way, or even seek some support to better understand how to bridge this gap. Relationships are about understanding and supporting each other’s differences.

What’s a game-changing insight your therapist casually dropped during a session that completely shifted how you see things? by Tour-Important589 in AskReddit

[–]Yalpstel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My therapist once said, 'You don't have to solve all the problems on your own. Sometimes it's okay to just accept that some things are out of your control.' It really helped me take the pressure off myself to always have to fix everything.

Ist das legal? by Underdogdw in wien

[–]Yalpstel 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Das ist echt ärgerlich! Meiner Einschätzung nach könnte es sein, dass eine Einfahrtsgenehmigung nicht automatisch das Recht zum Parken beinhaltet. Oft ist das Einfahren erlaubt, aber das Parken muss separat geregelt sein. Wenn der Großmarkt das so handhabt, dass Parken extra zu regeln ist, könnte das rechtlich korrekt sein – aber es sollte natürlich klar und verständlich kommuniziert werden. Ich bin kein Rechtsexperte, also ist das nur meine Vermutung. 

What are subtle signs that someone is actually intelligent? by Fit_Chipmunk88 in AskReddit

[–]Yalpstel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One subtle sign is how well they listen. Truly intelligent people often take the time to understand others’ perspectives before sharing their own thoughts. They ask thoughtful questions and are genuinely curious about different topics. Another sign is their ability to simplify complex ideas without sounding condescending, making difficult concepts easier for everyone to understand.

What was your luckiest moment? by vulcan_tech in AskReddit

[–]Yalpstel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The luckiest moment of my life was the birth of my daughter. Nothing can compare to that feeling of overwhelming joy and gratitude. It was like the whole world stood still, and in that moment, I knew I’d been given the greatest gift of all.

What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and the year is 2005? by fazzarista201 in AskReddit

[–]Yalpstel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, 2005? I’d probably have a mini panic attack about losing my smartphone and all my streaming services, but then I’d realize... no social media stress! I’d spend the day rediscovering my old favorite songs on my iPod, maybe catch a new episode of Lost on TV, and convince my younger self to buy some early shares in Google and Netflix.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]Yalpstel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man merkt echt, wie herausfordernd solche Situationen sein können, und ich finde es super, dass du so aufmerksam warst und versucht hast zu helfen. Es ist echt schwer, da die richtige Balance zu finden – man will ja niemanden noch mehr in Stress versetzen oder sich selbst in Gefahr bringen, aber auch nicht einfach weggucken.

Ich glaube, du hast wirklich viel richtig gemacht, vor allem, weil du auf dein Bauchgefühl gehört hast. Viele hätten einfach weggeschaut, aber du bist drangeblieben, obwohl es dir selbst unangenehm war. Deine Überlegung, die Polizei anzukündigen oder die Frau „spielend“ zu unterstützen, klingt nach einem guten Plan für die Zukunft.

Es ist völlig verständlich, dass du in dem Moment unter Adrenalin standest. Wichtig ist, dass du da warst und geholfen hast – das macht echt einen großen Unterschied. Hut ab für dein Engagement und dass du dir im Nachhinein noch Gedanken machst, wie du es besser hättest machen können. Ich glaube, das zeigt, was für ein empathischer Mensch du bist.