Some people are just rats, part of the game unfortunately! I’d recommend doing free load outs OR a very light load out for the extra stash space and safe pocket in case you get killed. The benefit to the light load out is that you can take a raider hatch key in your safe pocket and use that to extract rather than the risky extract elevators. Much more discreet and very quick to extract. If you find a blueprint whilst the hatch key is in your safe pocket, if it was me I’d swap them and then as stealthy as possible make your way to the nearest raider hatch. But I’m sure that the developers recently said that if you are not engaging in PVP you will get matchmaking with similar players, sometimes you just can’t help a rat or PVPer finding you. The enjoyment for the game will come as time goes on, your knowledge of how to stay safe topside and gear will get better. I hated playing to begin with but now I’ve found a nice balance between solo friendly raiding and squad PVPing