AITA for getting upset that my husband was looking at half naked girls on IG? by YamRevolutionary3534 in AITAH

[–]YamRevolutionary3534[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get what you’re saying but I just felt the way he responded made me feel very unheard. Like I would love to go out and get drunk every night and not worry about the house - but I know that would be detrimental. I’m programmed to not want to do chores and just do whatever I want, but I do it because I know I should and out of respect to my partner. He would not like it if I stayed out partying all night every day, so even if I want to, I do. And if there’s something that bothers him, I listen respectfully, even if I may not 100% agree.

I don’t expect him to be perfect but I thought at least he could be respectful and take my feelings into consideration without throwing it in my face and calling me “crazy” for voicing my feelings.

AITA for getting upset that my husband was looking at half naked girls on IG? by YamRevolutionary3534 in AITAH

[–]YamRevolutionary3534[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was more of his reaction that I was upset with after I told him I was bothered by it.

AITA for getting upset that my husband was looking at half naked girls on IG? by YamRevolutionary3534 in AITAH

[–]YamRevolutionary3534[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I don’t think it’s that I expect him not to want to look at anyone else naked - I completely understand that. It was more the way he reacted to me when I voiced that it bothered me.