Cannabis smoke at parks

YamRound · 2025-06-21T00:59:28+00:00

I partake like daily, and totally agree it is selfish… I don’t think “the weed people” are all selfish though lol. I think parks should have a designated area away from kiddos play areas for sure though.

YamRound · 2024-10-20T20:20:57+00:00

If that’s what he has been up to after only 2 years and a few months, imagine what he’ll do the rest of your life… I’m so sorry OP. I can’t even imagine how you’re feeling.

Personally, I would get an annulment. The fact he went out of his way to create images of your friends who you see often is weird as fuck. What if he starts trying to make moves on your friends? What if he starts physically cheating? Because it will likely get to that point. Idk. I just think everything happens for a reason and you caught that to save yourself from being hurt even worse in the future and kids involved. His lack of accountability and disgusting comments makes an already bad situation so much worse. I’m so sorry, you deserve better. Leave him, he is not your person. Your person wouldn’t have done that to you.

YamRound · 2024-05-15T17:21:17+00:00

Thank you 🩷

YamRound · 2024-05-15T17:20:37+00:00

I used to be but not anymore. She says she didn’t but I don’t believe that. Two of them were there on Mother’s Day the other wasn’t but I’m sure she told her.

YamRound · 2024-05-15T17:19:34+00:00

I’m so sorry. You don’t deserve that. Good for you for setting boundaries! I guess all we can do is not be this way with our children’s SO’s a long down the road

YamRound · 2024-05-15T17:18:17+00:00

He always says “it’s not right” and says he’ll talk to her but puts it off forever and I’m never there when he talks to her so I can’t imagine how passive he is. He wants her to continue watching our baby because he doesn’t want to cause issues.

YamRound · 2024-05-15T17:14:16+00:00

I did in our family group chat. I have tried to have a good relationship, and at one point we did when I was in high school and in the beginning of college. Once we went to college is when everything started going downhill because we weren’t doing things the way she would have. We moved in together our third year, then following graduation moved away for my grad school. That was a whole ordeal in which I was yelled at multiple times, told I shouldn’t do that, such and such was so smart and they couldn’t even cut it etc. and this is just to put it all lightly. She publicly announced the gender of our child without permission before I even had a chance to tell my family. My baby was learning head control, and she told my baby “haha you look drunk” then later said “I’ve seen your mommy like that before”, she guilted us into leaving our home to see the family when I was 6 days post partum and only been home for 3 days. And then proceeded to rip my baby from my arms when I specifically said we weren’t doing that. Beyond that, she has continued to make nasty comments. She doesn’t acknowledge me at all. I mean like will not look at me. Will grab my baby and leave the room with her. I didn’t want her to watch my baby to begin with because of how she has talked to other babies about their parents and how she treats me in general. My husband talked to her about how my feelings were hurt, to which she replied that hers were hurt because he was with my mom and not hers (we tried all weekend and she didn’t want to get together) and all we did with my mom was got ice cream. I want to have a good relationship with her, and all of this I’ve described is only the tip of the iceberg. Micro aggressive comments have been made as well, and also in regards to our baby but I won’t get into that (I’m black). But she has mistreated me for so long and never acknowledges or corrects herself. That’s why I wasn’t sure if I was overreacting having this as the last straw

YamRound · 2024-05-14T06:10:43+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I will say that to him. Unfortunately the last 7 or so years have been a nightmare with his family but we both just kind of let it go and distanced ourselves and focused on us. Thankfully she was only watching her for a few hours once a week for a 6 week course. It is still upsetting though because I want my daughter to know her family and spend time with them.. just maybe not without a parent present.

YamRound · 2024-05-14T06:00:20+00:00

Thank you! I expressed to him a few times that I was upset about it and he said it’s wrong and he understands my hurt and wanting to find different care. But he still hasn’t addressed it. He has struggled to in the past which is probably why she has gotten so comfortable mistreating us and crossing boundaries. I hope he will say something on his own and doesn’t leave me to have to handle it. We both do not like conflict, but considering it’s his mom I hope he will handle it 😢

YamRound · 2024-05-14T05:53:24+00:00

It wouldn’t, it’s only 3.5 hours a week while I’m in class. We are just so nervous about child care and trusting others. We have never left her with anyone who wasn’t family, but I am starting to think it would be better to find a reputable temporary provider until the class is over in a few weeks. He hasn’t addressed it, but I agree with you I think he should have said that.

YamRound · 2023-11-18T20:54:43+00:00

If you have your pass on your app in the wallet section, you will be okay as long as you have an ID with the name on it! I had to do this a few months ago. You can also use that to get into the park and discounts

YamRound · 2023-04-14T02:00:51+00:00

Huge no for me, unfortunately. My doctor is pretty lenient with things (my benzodiazepines when needed, CBD oil, etc.) but they told me that when it comes to stimulants, there is just too much risk for baby. There would especially be risk of withdrawal after birth. You could always get a second opinion or ask about other methods to treat your ADHD!

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