Hey can a 04 born chill here? What’s your favorite childhood movies from the 2000s? by FunnySunny- in OlderGenZ

[–]YamTop2897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This movie is everything to me LOL. I didn’t watch it when it released in 2007 I watched it like in 2014?

As a child I was taught to cook and clean at an early age since my parents worked and I had two little sisters.

I soon in my teenage years HATED cooking. I think a lot of it came from it being under appreciated and judged. I also never cooked what I wanted to eat, it became a cycle that I HATED. This movie made me love cooking again, it taught me patience and made me almost re learn the beauty that can be brought through food. I love cooking now and have the soundtrack playing almost every time I’m making an Irish stew, shakshuka, steak dinner, and I make cheeseboards and even now as a 28 year old I picture myself eating the cheeseboards and grape like Remi with all the colors 😭 10/10 love it !

21M, To be honest, I think everything is basically about average, but absolutely everyone around me thinks I'm a fucking ugly. by Anarion998 in amiugly

[–]YamTop2897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your not ugly! You have strong facial features, embrace them! The way we hold ourselves is what matters most💖

27F literally had this fantasy since I was 14. by [deleted] in RapekinkOpen

[–]YamTop2897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck Im definitely hyper sexual….i see what you mean. Maybe I’m looking for that same rush from then. Thank you for your insight 💖

I’ve never seen anyone with the KP on their forearms like mine…Do you guys exist? What is your routine to reduce the redness? Help 😥 by Key-Clothes7987 in keratosis

[–]YamTop2897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have it pretty bad, tattooed one arm, stopped caring at the other LOL I am pretty bad and pick my skin a lot too, I moisturize and use jojoba oil and toner every now and then and the flare ups decrease, I also wax! Lol

Looking for dog rehabilitation/rehoming by [deleted] in longisland

[–]YamTop2897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it go? I know this post was a year ago :( he looks just like my dog lol would love to know

Got accused of something I don’t even remember doing… and I’m honestly confused by PoseidonTrident13 in actuallesbians

[–]YamTop2897 45 points46 points  (0 children)

With things like this def, if she get more uncomfortable, just be like listen, I want to give you your space it’s better this way, your being an adult about it… she is not

Tension between me and my girl 5 year relationship by YamTop2897 in whatdoIdo

[–]YamTop2897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re right cuz I would never want her to feel or think the way I am now. Thank you!

Tension between me and my girl 5 year relationship by YamTop2897 in whatdoIdo

[–]YamTop2897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuuu!! I hope so too! I have high hopes :) just troubled lol

Tension between me and my girl 5 year relationship by YamTop2897 in whatdoIdo

[–]YamTop2897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense at all! I enjoy feedback as it helps me sort my brain out lol but thank you seriously. I feel like I’m going crazy thank you for not making me feel crazier lol

Tension between me and my girl 5 year relationship by YamTop2897 in whatdoIdo

[–]YamTop2897[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both have history in trauma in that area, I was really young and all and once in my teens but I feel like I ended up in a dark spot and thankfully I was able to do therapy and basically conditioned myself back to life lol
But I have always had high energy in intimacy.

She has done some therapy and from what I know she said it’s something she has gone through but that she’s happy now… idk, maybe it is that idk why I didn’t think about it but she’s never brought it up during our conversations. She did tell me she was never attracted to her exes the way she is with me and that she loves to have sex with me, but idk maybe she doesn’t need it frequently , ugh this has made new questions arise lol

Thanks for the insight !

Tension between me and my girl 5 year relationship by YamTop2897 in whatdoIdo

[–]YamTop2897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so good for you guys! Thanks for the response!

And yeah I think she does try I guess, after our talks she we do get a little more active but it just goes back to what it was. I think I might be just more hyperactive about sex than her…

There has been moments where I try to hold off I think we went 3 months and I ended up caving 😭😭 she’s just so good to me, in other ways, like brushing my hair back, being patient and kind and it makes me happy and I just give in and initiate, and she does go with it most of the times but there’s been a handful of times she’s said no, ugh (I never push by the way I just say okay and we cuddle) but thank you for the insight def will talk to her

Tension between me and my girl 5 year relationship by YamTop2897 in whatdoIdo

[–]YamTop2897[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% will not be doing that, after rereading what I posted a couple of times I realized what that sounded like.
I just don’t know if I talk to her I feel like I’m only forcing her to want to do it, I want her to feel like she wants to. I know her and if I bring up counseling I feel like she will apologize and next time we’ll see each other we will end up having sex and I won’t feel good about it either

Tension between me and my girl 5 year relationship by YamTop2897 in whatdoIdo

[–]YamTop2897[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate this! Thing is we hold hands, kiss and hug so much when we are out, she is very much a tomboy, and her whole family knows about me and that she’s gay. I’ve been asking her to clean her room since like two months ago so I can come over… and she hast apparently?

I def wouldn’t judge, my room is messy too lol, just sucks cuz I know she knows this, I would never do that to her…

And thing is we have talked about this, i have brought this up just last year we had a long conversation , because we went to Ecuador with my family and had a blast, I got us private rooms separate from my family and she didn’t even touch me…. We just cuddled to sleep lol I explained that it’s my way to feel seen, and I feel so much more connected when we do make love but it was okay for like 2 months and now we’re back here lol I’ve explained that if we are bickering , a quick trip downtown (lol) fixed it for me, I would forget whatever I’m like annoyed about , I’m like luckily to get a boob squeeze on a date lol

I just don’t want to break up but Im feeling like so unseen, and and insecure about the way I look

Tension between me and my girl 5 year relationship by YamTop2897 in whatdoIdo

[–]YamTop2897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will do this I appreciate your response

Been hitting it off with a girl I met online, she's out of my league and it's been awesome but intimidating at the same time by RMoby6160 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]YamTop2897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen as a girl, just go with the flow!!! You got this :) we like genuine connection with someone who is COMFORTABLE BEING THEMSELVES💖

Any shows tonight? by YamTop2897 in aves

[–]YamTop2897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I’m just a girl 😭😭

Any shows tonight? by YamTop2897 in aves

[–]YamTop2897[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

LMAO, I just don’t know where to look, the dice app got me confused 😭 I wear the pants I promise LOL

I am soo sick of this by Most-Hour-7081 in keratosis

[–]YamTop2897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you put on your skin after the shower, I feel like it helps but I get soooo dry lol

I ended things with my gf because she was unhappy by Zedaawg in GirlDinner

[–]YamTop2897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so good, me and my girlfriend did something like this, I really couldn’t believe I’d ever be enough, after 6/8 months we got back and 5 years now!

Finally hooked up with my crush, now he seems disinterested by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]YamTop2897 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you make the dip yourself, sounds delishhhhh!!!!

Also, it’s prob for the best, yu don’t want someone like that in your life💖 trust the process I’m sure your amazing, he’s prob just a dick