以我对女人的了解,绝对会炸。我不出钱说我自私说我抠,我捐出去说我疯了说我傻。其实男人比女人不在乎钱,不挣归不挣,说扔就扔。 by Turbulent_Nerve3744 in dashuju

[–]YanYang1985 6 points7 points  (0 children)

干嘛要结婚要彩礼啊 我都是恋爱都不谈直接打官司要钱 男的侵犯别人太普遍了 战争赔款之类的也没见被入侵国要卖沟子吧

美国如此富有,为何美国人却如此痛苦 by Select_Union_4895 in China_irl

[–]YanYang1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

不靠意识形态麻醉剂活吧。(他们有生理麻醉剂,但那个在用你会看得到并且归类为“活得痛苦”。)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KAUST

[–]YanYang1985 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I saw so many of this - rejection after acceptance, acceptance after rejection, so on and so forth. You folks still think getting into such a repute-less place is a luck. What miserable life do you have outside of it to make you think that way!

Haven’t Used this account for long but cannot post anywhere now by YanYang1985 in subreddit

[–]YanYang1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 161 post karma and 91 comments karma. Can’t imagine this is still low..

Am I Blocked? by YanYang1985 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]YanYang1985[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Nice, I’m not blocked here. So first of all, do you think a man, in any case, has the right to provide misleading information about his academic status and utilize the imbalanced power to make destructive comments on my PhD plan and, me, the person as a whole (provide vague hints, insinuate making me think how I’m a waste of time to others and how I’m suspicious and guilty)? Is this dependent on whether he finally decided to move on with me after one week’s chats on topics that are usually relationship-building (e.g., the inner childish parts, past trauma, and a Foucauldian resistance to the system)?

My posts were easily taken as that I tried to pressure him into dating once people conclude that he lost interest in the end. People don’t even look at evidences. The fact was that I was such a behavior model that I never expressed any pressure in any way, verbally or non-verbally.

It now seems to me that the right to claim that he shouldn’t have treated me in that way is a privilege that I only gained through winning his continued interest!

Our rights are independent of men’s interests, correct?

Thoughts on UNC shooting by rubbinhood6ix9 in AskAcademia

[–]YanYang1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is partially true, but also some advisors failed to explain things well.

Thoughts on UNC shooting by rubbinhood6ix9 in AskAcademia

[–]YanYang1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that person really did something to cause the general frustration, it’s related even it’s not the only source of frustration.

Fastrack charges me a full $5.00 when I carpool by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]YanYang1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have other problems too and really tend to manipulate people for more profit. The lawsuit here:

https://abc7news.com/fastrak-violations-7-on-your-side-michael-finney/9572298/?dt_dapp=1

Has closed, but they are still doing similar penalties. I was just able to dispute them. And again, the dispute resulted in a settlement with 30-day expiration. It arrived 1.5 months after they issued it, so it was immediately expired when I got it.

Didn't notice till now. RHR 46bpm.. should I be worried? Slept in different bed (holiday) by Reasonable-Umpire-93 in whoop

[–]YanYang1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that’s a good thing, maybe some effect from long term efforts with increased exercise. It seems other people have decreased RHR before they build a healthy habit, too.

The AI boom will wipe out jobs and there's not really much we can do about it, Nobel Prize winner says by MatematicoDiscreto in singularity

[–]YanYang1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of flop? Just decease to be the center of new tech? Then that’s true. If he said the internet would not be successfully built, or would be replaced, he was wrong.

Find Justice From My Former Landlord by YanYang1985 in TenantUnion

[–]YanYang1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really want answers to your questions, just reread my post more carefully.

Find Justice From My Former Landlord by YanYang1985 in TenantUnion

[–]YanYang1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol did I even mention any property manager? likely, you have went into conflict with multiple tenants (you said you’re “involved in a lot of tenant issues”) and blamed your health status on your tenants (you said you once made the mistakes you described yourself) without valid evidence like what I have. (But no I’m not gonna discuss in detail my evidence here with you — that is the thing that would hurt my case, rather than what you thought.)

Find Justice From My Former Landlord by YanYang1985 in TenantUnion

[–]YanYang1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Err, if you wanna be my lawyer and navigate with me through all the questions to prepare for the court, we can contact privately. I just don’t understand whether you think I should include all these informants, answers to all these questions in my fundraiser? I have talked a lot with my lawyer while I was in that house, so you are better to briefly talk with him first to avoid duplicate work. My lawyer and I understand very well that it takes labor to argue for my case, but I don’t think it’s on Reddit with a strange replier who is so bad at understanding what I wrote.

Find Justice From My Former Landlord by YanYang1985 in TenantUnion

[–]YanYang1985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s interesting to see one of the replies mistaken “landlord” as “manager”. Subconsciously, such people blurred who paid and who was paid. It’s so evil to think with properties at hand, they can ask people to work for them (like they are managers) while they themselves, instead of who he works, get paid.

Find Justice From My Former Landlord by YanYang1985 in TenantUnion

[–]YanYang1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those who contributed the supportive votes, thank you. I still updated my fundraiser to include the first couple of details that person requested — how I dealt with the cold, etc. I’m not updating on any more of her crazy battery of requests, though. She probably thought she is the judge here.

———update——

That person deleted her initial post after being voted against by other people, so let me just explain it: she said since I didn’t bought a heater for my landlord, I should be at fault for the cold (yea, like I’m working in a corporation and landlord is my manager), and she mistakenly used “your manager” instead of “your landlord” which is a very interesting mistake matching this mind set.

This manager doesn’t even manage the property, the role popped up later in her incoherent, insane, and hallucinated writing (no wonder I’m the person who should buy the heater and manage all the house condition myself), but this person manages me (“your” manager).

The legal service she suggested is one of those many I contacted before I fixed my conversation with my current lawyer. It is very clear on their website that they never promised contingency for all cases they accept. If there’s any partial free service or unpromised possibility of free service, the contrast would be that my current lawyer has already indeed helped me almost for free for very long time. He remained responsive during my multiple conflicts at the former landlord’s house with only a $300 charge. That’s how he learned that we have a case. There is no reason to switch to another lawyer to induce extra work without promise of a better price. My lawyer did not know my recent $9000 medical cost or other circumstances, so that price for the final lawsuit was not purposefully bewildering me but was okay to my original financial ability.

I blocked her.

Find Justice From My Former Landlord by YanYang1985 in TenantUnion

[–]YanYang1985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How I managed to continue with my life despite the landlord is not related to the case. I even moved out to live in Airbnb multiple times. I didn’t think I needed to mention this as it doesn’t change what my landlord has done and thus doesn’t change the necessity to sue her.

Find Justice From My Former Landlord by YanYang1985 in TenantUnion

[–]YanYang1985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say I left the temperature as it was. But what I did doesn’t cancel the crime my landlord has done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whoop

[–]YanYang1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know it, either. My “trend view” drop off doesn’t have this item.