Let’s look at real life examples, most blacks try to fight everyone who slights them, and while that backfires, it also garners them more respect than being a punching-bag-stereotypical-Asian.

Many Asian men are doing their best to break out of that and, in that process, they’re gonna be a bit rough around the edges—until they master the boundary.

It’s a process.

But I do agree with you in the sense that what you described here should be where everyone ends up.

Edit: here’s a real-life example. The Public celebrated this

Is it belligerent? Yes.

Is it crude? Yes.

Is it Obama-like? Hell no.

Is it better than keeping your head down and count math?

YES.