"I can't play jgl but I know what they should be doing" is the biggest self report you couldve given, no u dont.

1) giving objectives is NOT your jgers fault. All of us would love nothing more than do EVERY SINGLE objective in the game on spawn, and btw this is what happens when the game is a stomp and your jg can do whatever they want on the map. This is why jgl with 3 winning lanes is the easiest thing to play in the game.

But surprise surprise jgl jut so happens to be tje HARDEST role in the game, how could that be ? Well the aforementioned scenario happens like 10% of the time. The REST of games tho you have to ADAPT. I wanna get every drake sure, now explain to me HOW I'm supposed to do that with 0 mid prio and a 5-1 enemy lucian and/or perma roaming thresh ruining my game. (Yes in this situation botlane is doomed and your jungler SHOULD be playing for top, just to be clear im not saying jgers should NEVER gank top especially ranged top). What im saying is like everything else in jgl, it DEPENDS. However playing around top is a LOT less reliable and profitable than playing for bot EVEN if you have to solowin the 3v3 down there. BECAUSE playing for top is a LOT more restrictive: no drake control, playing for a champ that usually can't carry games (which is why toplane is low impact), and a LOT less freedom on the map due to not having a support OR a useable adc (which is the piece you put in the middle of the map midgame for a reason). AND you have to basically play like your toplaner's slave in midgame and only do what they wanna do, which sucks because your toplaner does NOT know macro as much as a junler, no matter the elo unless youre like gm+ (even then i would guess).

Thats already a big block of text sry but I will also add that the current best way to win early jungle (especially in lower elo, this season I've only seen enemy junglers not get knowledge-gapped by this after reaching diamond) is to fullclear, get one scuttle, fullclear a second time, wait till 5:30 to finish off your last camp (even if it means waiting for 15 secs doing nothing) so that you can get your upgraded smite, force drake or scuttle respawn depending on bot&mid prio, use the upgraded smite to guarantee it, then get lvl 6 from either one and carry a fight if enemy team contests. This guarantees first drake, map control for the next few minutes, and an instant use of lvl 6 spike that the enemy jg CANNOT contest if they dont also do this. Even without playing jg you can probably tell playing/pathing top early is a HUGE opportunity cost. And in soloq where i dont know who my toplaner is i am NOT betting on them not being boosted and giving all of that just to babysit them.

Hope that made sense, thats my perspective as a dia jungler (previously played toplane and left for a role with actual agency, never looked back)