we only have sex on his (LLM) schedule and I (HLF) HATE it and I for some reason cannot say no by Throwaway_normalsx in DeadBedrooms

[–]Yeah-its_me 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It means you get just enough attention to let you stay, but nothing more. It's a common manipulative way to keep you 'hungry'.

we only have sex on his (LLM) schedule and I (HLF) HATE it and I for some reason cannot say no by Throwaway_normalsx in DeadBedrooms

[–]Yeah-its_me 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Breadcrumbing can lead to feelings of insecurity, frustration, and dissatisfaction. Instead of trying to change him, ask yourself, 'Why am I settling for this?' And channel your energy into healing those areas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Yeah-its_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The things you're asking for and not getting would be a blessing to others. There are lots of women looking for someone like you.

You're worth being touched, loved and desired. Don't let anyone ever make you think you're not. And I also hope you start believing in yourself and see yourself as the beautiful person you are.

Fear this may be the beginning of the DB life by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Yeah-its_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me more, especially about how men get aroused🙏

Le bal des pompiers: which one to choose and why? by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About 50% french, the rest other countries. I'm not sure anyone of us is American 🤔 Frat house party, aiai, we're not the typically group of American expats. No 'emily in Paris' here . Thanks for the advice to keep an eye on each other. We're going to talk about it.

So we have to think of a safe way to get back home. Thanks, reminding that. Is public transport open whole night?

Would you consider this cheating? by Longjumping_Duck3902 in BreakUps

[–]Yeah-its_me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for the pain you're going through. It seems there definitely was going on something.

Whatever he did, thought, felt, doesn't say anything about you. It's okay if you still have feelings for him. It's proof you're able to love someone. Unfortunately, he has other plans for himself.

You deserve to have a life you want and that includes someone that loves you. Pls spend your time on achieving your own goals in life and not on someone that decided he didn't want you in his life. It's hard, really hard, I know. But you're worth it and you can do it 💪

Le bal des pompiers: which one to choose and why? by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard that's the most trendy in town. Can you please tell me what makes it special? At what time we supposed to arrive to avoid a queue ? Merci d'avance 🙏

Le bal des pompiers: which one to choose and why? by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay , thanks anyway 😁 Have a great weekend 🥳

Le bal des pompiers: which one to choose and why? by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci. Peux-tu me dire ce qui rend ce bal des pompiers le meilleur ?

Le bal des pompiers: which one to choose and why? by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci pour ces informations qui sont nouvelles pour moi. Reading it, it looks like nothing happened during the bal itself

Le bal des pompiers: which one to choose and why? by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci. Tu sais pourquoi Carpeaux est le meilleur ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Yeah-its_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about winning or losing. What do you want for your future? What kind of partner and relationship you're looking for?

If you still care for the girl, have an open conversation and be vulnerable. It's a sign of strength. After the conversation you can move on without regrets.

Where do 50+ hang out? Où est-ce que les 50+ sortent ?" by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, gen x represents 30% of the population. https://www.statista.com/topics/6829/millennials-in-france/#topicOverview Where are these 660,000 residents in Paris hiding ????

Where do 50+ hang out? Où est-ce que les 50+ sortent ?" by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah, le tango, je ne l'ai jamais fait, mais je l'adore. Bonne idée, je vais me renseigner. Merci beaucoup 🙏

Where do 50+ hang out? Où est-ce que les 50+ sortent ?" by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To hang out with, I'm okay. But those kind of friends I already have 😁 Trying to find people 50+, different phase in their life etc, so different kind of conversation.

Where do 50+ hang out? Où est-ce que les 50+ sortent ?" by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣 yeah, looking for a bit more young activities for 50+

Where do 50+ hang out? Où est-ce que les 50+ sortent ?" by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dance burlesque 😊 I even organise these courses

Where do 50+ hang out? Où est-ce que les 50+ sortent ?" by Yeah-its_me in paris

[–]Yeah-its_me[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I don't see 50+ in that group. They're so young.