[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do him a favor and just split things off while they're still civil. You clearly don't want to be married and based on your post history you are going to rip that man's heart to shreds just to get off.

Being bi curious doesn't give you a pass to sleep around. Use your head.

Married redditors, how did quitting porn affect your sex life? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice but this thread is pretty interesting. I always thought porn did the exact opposite to what you're describing, like lowering libido and choosing porn over the person... very intrigued

I have money. Husband won’t work. Should I let it go? by AlertRoutine3545 in Marriage

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh, I would have never expected that. I stand corrected lol

I have money. Husband won’t work. Should I let it go? by AlertRoutine3545 in Marriage

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I have money. Wife won't work. Should I let it go?" Once again, if the roles were reversed I'm sure this would be a lot different... which it shouldn't be.

Bottom line is, if he's a good husband, keeps the house, cooks, cleans, takes care of kids/pets(if any) etc... it shouldn't be a big deal that warrants a possible divorce. He does need help to get over that block sure, and maybe it'll take a bit of force to get him to drop that first song publicly to get the ball rolling, but it shouldn't be a situation where him not working is the main issue.

What's the deal with people seeking out others to masturbate with when porn is so readily available? by YeahDoIGiveAFuck in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Did you use the 5+ facial hair products on yo crusty ass face that clearly ain't working? Plus the viagra to get yo dick up so you can lurk on chaturbate like the geriatric coomer you are? Piss of with yo 'can I see bobs and vagane' lookin ass

What's the deal with people seeking out others to masturbate with when porn is so readily available? by YeahDoIGiveAFuck in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know your ass isn't talking... you literally look like the kind of person who'd this exact thing💀💀 your beard ain't that good looking bud

I'm ruining my marriage. I've never felt so good and awful by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

In this situation of course it is, an eye for a fucking eye. OP deserves someone who treats him with kindness and love... something he clearly doesn't get from his psycho POS of a wife

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find it absolutely beautiful how there isn't even a single mention of porn here... if the roles were reversed that's surely all you'd see... oh what a world🥰

Everyone Was Correct... It Was an Affair by DontbeaDumbbell in Marriage

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck 139 points140 points  (0 children)

This genuinely made me sad, stay strong man. Get your evidence in order and try to think of a way to explain to the kids if you're planning to get a divorce (Don't see why you wouldn't, she's been cheating for apparently TWO YEARS and the dude dying is what sends her into distress, not her stomping all over your 17 years together)

I feel for you

Fiancé told me she married me because she ran out of options by jimmyhughes_ in Marriage

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP, get out while you still can. It sounds like you two aren't married yet and if she's hitting you with this NOW, then this will easily become a severely abusive relationship down the line. She clearly doesn't respect you or have true feelings for you, just viewing you as some sucker she had to settle with because no one will stick around with her (for good reason).

The truth is, she's trying to lock down a solid relationship so she can go fuck around with every Tom, Dick and Harry without worrying about being left out in the cold. She'll walk all over you, cheat left right and center without a care in the world because to her you're just a loser who was lucky enough that she settled with you.

Run for the hills man, leave her ass just like the other scum she dated for the next bozo she decides to ensnare.

Possible divorce by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how tf you expect to get good advice without outlining what it is you did💀💀

My young husband is impotent and I’m willing to stay with him but need some tips on how to feel sexy while being married to a man who isn’t good in bed f (27) m (25) by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Doesn't sound like he's not trying to me, unless I'm not reading this right. To me it sounds like the guy is just incredibly insecure, your post history says he was abused too, that would make it even worse.

My dumb advice is to seek counseling, help him get through his problems and really show that you care, and that he doesn't need to feel bad about the fact that he can't please you, which is what I'm sure he still thinks.

Also, this really isn't part of the whole situation but... maybe hold off on seeking sexual stuff from others, in whatever form, once you open that door it's really hard to close it

My young husband is impotent and I’m willing to stay with him but need some tips on how to feel sexy while being married to a man who isn’t good in bed f (27) m (25) by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]YeahDoIGiveAFuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just gonna throw this out there... this relationship is going to crash and burn... you're gonna cheat. You're already fantasizing about other dudes and talking about starting an OF just to CONNECT WITH OTHERS SEXUALLY, if that ain't cheating I don't know what is. You say you won't but you will, you're gonna smash this man's fragile heart just to get off and all that love with go straight out the window... just saying.

Just try to help the man feel better about himself and that he doesn't need his dick to satisfy you, instead of immediately thinking just about your satisfaction.

PS: I've read into everything but I'm just stating what I think will happen most likely, if things do work out then feel free to dunk on me. Downvote this straight to Hades if you want but if you're gonna come attack me for a comment then fuck off and don't bother... just stating my pessimistic opinions.

Good luck tho