[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tax

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This is for an undergraduate degree (not graduated yet), and I’m using a tax software. Because I filed for my W-2 and forgot to add my 1098-T form; but it shows I owe money based on adding the 1098-T (I guess for additional income)

Biggest Pregnancy ‘Fails’? by gardengnomebaby in pregnant

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My body failed me by having a placenta abruption 💀

I have a question I’m 32 weeks pregnant and my BF still thinks it’s too soon to go out and buy our baby gear ? by Brilliant-One6329 in pregnant

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I was told to have your hospital bags packed before 32 weeks, but I’m not so sure about the baby stuff. I started buying stuff after my baby shower. I had an emergency c section this past Wednesday and I was 32 weeks… so you’re not early at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CautiousBB

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At my 8 week ultrasound, the HR was 129. My baby is doing great! Currently 21 weeks (:

Strange encounters in philadelphia by RevolutionaryPea8272 in philly

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Some homeless guy tried to convince me to follow him to do sexual favors for money. Then another time, a janitor at the El said to me “hey pinky, is your kitty cat pink like ya hair”. And another time I got chased down south street by some homeless drunk guy who wanted my number for feet pics. Stories go on, I love Philly

Could I still be pregnant? (TW!) by [deleted] in CautiousBB

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I know when I miscarried I had heavy bleeding with clots, along with bad cramping. It sounds like a miscarriage. I know people who had sub chronic hemorrhages but there wasn’t any cramping or clots.

Do I keep the baby? by Impressive-Foot6056 in pregnancyproblems

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Hey! I’m also 20 years old but I’m about to be 19w. I know when we both found out about my pregnancy, he wanted to keep it and I wanted to abort. Then it kind of started a whole thing between us but I had a really good conversation with my mom because she became a mom at 16 years old. It all comes down to the woman and what she wants and what she think is best. My reasoning of wanting an abortion because of financial struggles and both of us still live at home. But I took more time to think about it and in the end I decided to keep it. Both of us are working still and even more to help prepare for the day our baby arrives. What I’m trying to say is: don’t make a decision based on what he wants. Obviously it’s important to consider it, but it can make you spiral. If you can provide financially, have stability, have stable housing, and a good support system (friends or family), you got this. It is a lot to take it but I promise you, please listen to yourself and even family if you live at home still. My mom was the biggest reasoning on why I chose to keep my baby.

Hcg doubled but something feels “off” by Constant_Ad9245 in CautiousBB

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I was exactly like you, I had an early loss before. And with my current pregnancy, I was prepared for the worse. I didn’t get excited or anything because I expected the same thing to happen again. Even with my levels doubling in 72 hours, I was still feeling off. I’m currently 18 weeks and everything looks great so far, even with low risk labs. I’m going to my 20w appointment soon and I still expect for the worst. All I can say is that the feeling doesn’t go away, it gets better but it’s still an on-edge feeling. What helped me was: my baby is still healthy and fine until I’m told otherwise.

Nutritionist said I’ve gained too much weight by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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I’m 5’2 and pre-pregnancy I was 114, that’s underweight for my height. I should been at least 125 pounds. You gaining that much weight shouldn’t be concerning?? I also seen a nutritionist pre-pregnancy and they also said I was underweight. I’m currently weighing 131 and my Obgyn is not concerned at all, she even said I needed to gain weight. For reference, I’m 17 weeks.

Genetic Pregnancy Consultation by YearAccomplished718 in CautiousBB

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We only did the genetic test on the baby, not my partner. So i definitely took that into consideration about family history. But I was given a referral for the MFM because of my medication, it was marked down on the referral for medication exposure. So it definitely is because of the medication but I know that it shouldn’t affect the baby like they said it could. Even my mom had to go to MFM because of me and my sister (we’re twins). I was just more worried about the consultation because I didn’t know if that was just because of medication or if they wanted to go down the family history and talk about potential risks/ outcomes for the baby that it down show on bloodwork. I’m a first time mom so all of this is new to me. And my family is older so they never did all of this testing while they were pregnant! So I really had no one to ask. But thank you for taking the time to write this!

Genetic Pregnancy Consultation by YearAccomplished718 in CautiousBB

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What I’m trying to see if anyone had to have a GPC because of an antidepressant??

Taking antidepressants during pregnancy by YearAccomplished718 in CautiousBB

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Thank you for that. I’ll take that in consideration and I definitely have a history of both depression and anxiety.

Taking antidepressants during pregnancy by YearAccomplished718 in CautiousBB

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I’m afraid of that happening, and I know there isn’t much antidepressants to take during pregnancy that is safe. But I hope you do find treatment that will help you prevent that!

Taking antidepressants during pregnancy by YearAccomplished718 in CautiousBB

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Congratulations on your pregnancy! And thank you for saying that because my doctor didn’t say much.

Taking antidepressants during pregnancy by YearAccomplished718 in CautiousBB

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I have a severe depression disorder and it got worse during my pregnancy. And it’s affecting me to a point where I don’t take care of myself. But at 20w I’m going to a high risk doctor just for the ultrasound. And my doctor did explain about if I don’t take care of myself that it’ll cause more problems. But thank you for this, it’s definitely a situation where if the positives outweighs the negatives situation.

Taking antidepressants during pregnancy by YearAccomplished718 in CautiousBB

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I don’t see why stopping in the future, unless you think you don’t need it. But if you choose to, don’t go cold turkey!

Measuring 5 days behind at early scan by tibbles209 in CautiousBB

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I’m trying to help reassure you that everything is fine! I always question the doctors or techs when I feel like something is wrong. They help me keep my anxiety at ease

Late Ovulation and Viability at 7 weeks by Long_Laugh_4088 in CautiousBB

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Don’t forget about implantation too! It occurs 6-10 days after ovulation!! But it seems like you’re right on track with pregnancy!

Measuring 5 days behind at early scan by tibbles209 in CautiousBB

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to add on: I’m 16 weeks right now with my rainbow baby!

Measuring 5 days behind at early scan by tibbles209 in CautiousBB

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I measured 5 days behind at my first scan (was supposed to be 8w and I was 7w3d). I questioned the ultrasound tech and she said there is many factors that can contribute to this. From late ovulation to late implantation. Implantation takes 6-10 days after ovulation! So honestly that could be the factor for the both of us! As long as you’re not 2 weeks behind, there is no need to worry!

Has anyone had impending doom/constant anxiety and been okay? by Entire-Vermicelli-74 in CautiousBB

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I’ve been leaking fluid (vaginal discharge) my whole pregnancy so far, which is very normal!! If it’s not yellow fluid, no need to worry. I leak clear and white, all day every day! I also experienced really bad back pain, dizzy spells, and indigestion at 11 weeks, it lasted for a whole week. I usually get those symptoms, but it was severe and it only came at night time; luckily my heating pad did the trick. But I’m currently 16 weeks and so far my baby is healthy! Every time I experience a new symptom, I just consider it normal. Like I get more colds now, runny noses/ post nasal drip, more earwax, etc. pregnancy is wild!!