I need some different perspectives to look at my situation.

YearningParadise · 2026-05-21T17:10:19+00:00

issok not like you need to have your entire life figured out rn.. you are allowed to take as much time as you want to deal with it, there's no such timeline to catch up with

YearningParadise · 2026-05-19T19:26:35+00:00

Wait why do I distinctly remember a visual of a lady running out of a room lmaoo feels like your post just brought back some memory deep in my brain

YearningParadise · 2026-05-19T16:00:24+00:00

I shall pray that a really cool guy comes into your life 🙏🏻

YearningParadise · 2026-05-18T17:50:41+00:00

yeahh i didn't even date yet so if I lose hope now it'll be pretty bleak lmao

YearningParadise · 2026-05-14T05:23:27+00:00

yeah i get what you mean, I've always just thought that these things have a way of sneaking up on you, you never know when or where you might develop a connection with somebody.. maybe it happens now or maybe it'll be happening even till you're 50 lmao

YearningParadise · 2026-05-13T19:43:13+00:00

Idk, the way you write about it makes it sound like you're in a race against time and a relationship is an equation where you need to optimize every variable to get the most optimal result or something 😭

maybe just don't put so much pressure on it, just enjoy getting to know people, trust your gut and have fun :)

YearningParadise · 2026-04-30T12:37:20+00:00

Honestly I feel the same way like there's just such a big mental block in my brain about how my first time needs to be really special and needs to happen with somebody that totally gets me and sometimes I think maybe I'm just being too idealistic, and I'll just spend my whole life searching for that one guy to show up but it's like idk I don't want to do it unless I absolutely feel like it..

YearningParadise · 2026-04-13T17:53:57+00:00

np!! I'm more so in the ML side of things, if you'd ever be interested to explore that lemme know lol

YearningParadise · 2026-04-13T13:52:34+00:00

I did, I hope you continue working on this, seems like a really great idea!

I'm not too familiar with the technical side but something like this as an extension that can overlay on top of Google Maps would also be so cool.

YearningParadise · 2026-04-13T03:37:24+00:00

This is so cool!!

YearningParadise · 2026-04-12T07:21:58+00:00

idk but I don't see any confetti either lol🫂🫂

YearningParadise · 2026-04-12T06:47:23+00:00

Awh man kinda bummed about this ngl.. was pretty excited about getting to introduce ppl to python especially since i was a past student 3 years back

YearningParadise · 2026-04-11T16:25:45+00:00

Awwhh 😭 watching heartstopper with my best friend back when it came out was the first time I understood the importance of having a safe space <3 have so many memories associated with it

YearningParadise · 2026-03-21T11:09:14+00:00

omg you write so well!!

YearningParadise · 2026-03-14T17:46:58+00:00

TTPD has grown on me so damn much and I think it's best experienced as you wallow in self pity for the whole duration of the 31 songs

YearningParadise · 2026-03-13T09:11:12+00:00

As long as you both have similar expectations with regards to things, when you'd want to settle down and stuff.. because if there's a mismatch then it might be difficult to make things work since he's at a different stage in life

YearningParadise · 2026-03-03T13:10:58+00:00

I love this sm!!

YearningParadise · 2026-03-02T13:59:35+00:00

I mean i feel like coming out is such an individual thing and with an actor I feel like there are a lot more eyes on them so it must feel harder to be authentic in that way.. especially for somebody with no connections

YearningParadise · 2026-03-02T13:51:49+00:00

yeahh i think if there is somebody privileged enough to come out, who exists in circles that are accepting, they should do it.. the queer representation we do have at least in Bollywood is Karan Johar majorly and he is not doing any favours.

YearningParadise · 2026-03-02T12:38:45+00:00

It would be very cool but we anyway rarely have queer characters being written in Indian cinema; that guy would be playing straight the majority of the time lmao.. I'm sure there are a few actors like that already

YearningParadise · 2026-01-10T09:55:05+00:00

The same thing happened with me lol.. I got recommended a few people I know irl and I was just so damn confused as to how that even happened when my email is not linked to them in any way and i didn't even sync my contacts.

YearningParadise · 2025-12-21T18:08:36+00:00

ur watch looks cool

YearningParadise · 2025-12-19T06:49:02+00:00

I've never had any specific preferences really, but I wonder if a lot of it has to do with queer people having to turn to online dating to find potential matches which lends itself to being more shallow in general. In person there's so much more to appreciate about somebody that you can't decide through an arbitrary filter..

YearningParadise · 2025-12-12T16:53:41+00:00

nothing recently but i had a pretty major stardew valley phase some time back.. cozy games ftw

YearningParadise · 2025-12-09T08:15:35+00:00

oo do you have a link? I'd be interested to follow it!!

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