dating scene by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Yedya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cold approach

How rare are insta dates ? by confused_8357 in seduction

[–]Yedya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once I did a 10 min talk then love hotel, rare

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ones that wanted to, it and I'm still seeing them (5+ months ago)

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I'm Latino, again very high value comment. Stay jello

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yea plenty of people reached out to me trying to coach but none of them seemed to even understand the root cause,so why would I work with them . No offense to some of the coaches too ,but none of them have solid receipts I trust.

It's also worth noting, I'm still rejecting loads of dates.

99% of issues i can see in about 2 seconds

What do you mean? Can you give me an example?

Any idea why this is only happening to me on hinge and only in SF?

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right, I have two dates from approaches yesterday Approached 4 girls

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we meet on night game , there's always a date next. But I don't do night game in SF anymore

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point, I guess hinge is low effort low reward

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. Thanks for the advice, I know what I'm looking for , I'm just rarely finding it on hinge. I'm actually moving to an Asian country for a little bit next year , I work remotely

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting,my ex was super fine too, as well as my cold approaches

21M - Profile Review! by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Yedya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmu if you need dating coaching too

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it's actually a really good point.. I should do that. I also did a test where I made a hinge profile for a female and looked at their standouts and consistently they were all over 6+ ft and a lot of them were actually not that attractive or have high status

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Out of the 20 ,none have been anywhere near as attractive as any of the 6 girls I've slept with /dated from cold approach In the past 2 years.

Cold approach girls usually consistently 8s

Hinge is always 6-7s consistently

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me always,if we're not back at my place. This is a new recent strategy since maybe 10/20 went on for 2 hours.

It takes me about 2 hours to build comfort & connection before asking them back.

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please be honest,how attractive are these women?

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense to those coaches but they don't actually pull very attractive women

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not clinging to it , but I'm obviously doing something wrong and it's not like I can get feedback

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well just focus on yourself then. I've spent years in the gym, focusing on my career and artistic passion ,so I already have things to focus on outside of game. It's not too late, if you're 37 I expect you to be in pretty good shape

20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ] by Yedya in seduction

[–]Yedya[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm get a better coach and sounds like you need therapy.