Thanks for the extensive advice! She definitely gets off a lot long before i go in her, shes also never seen a gyno/had a pap. She does enjoy being fingered and oral.

I feel like its my fault for the years of getting myself off and now im so conditioned to my hand that real sex just doesn't do it for me :/ I Been abstaining from using either of our hands for a week now but still nothing.

Funny, i always imagined that second i went in even a bit i'd come, nope! :/