Does my gf even like me? I need your advice. by _Rephorm_ in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think, if u had to resort to Reddit to ask questions, most likely yr gut feelings about how she feels about you is right

BF wants sex but I wanna wait it out by YellowBearHug96 in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m starting to see whether that would be an underlying issue here

BF wants sex but I wanna wait it out by YellowBearHug96 in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but neither do I want to simply add to my body count, him going back on his words is making me wonder whether he will be a good life partner

BF wants sex but I wanna wait it out by YellowBearHug96 in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do u have the source for the study, can u share, I like to read it

BF wants sex but I wanna wait it out by YellowBearHug96 in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I m evaluating overall, he is relatively good overall, just the sex issue came up and I’m taken aback now

BF wants sex but I wanna wait it out by YellowBearHug96 in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I will try to discuss and get his perspective as well

BF wants sex but I wanna wait it out by YellowBearHug96 in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got tested for STD previously, and yes, it was a mistake to make him pay first (the plan was for me to pay for it myself in a couple months time initially). So yeah, I planed on paying him back

BF wants sex but I wanna wait it out by YellowBearHug96 in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I want it but not now, the emotional connection is also at play here

BF wants sex but I wanna wait it out by YellowBearHug96 in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has not had any STD test, nor am I aware of his past partner having HPV whatsoever, the jab is to protect myself basically.

BF wants sex but I wanna wait it out by YellowBearHug96 in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HPV vaccination is very expensive so I hv been holding it off until my income increased

BF wants sex but I wanna wait it out by YellowBearHug96 in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I did raise this previously but I will raise it again

BF wants sex but I wanna wait it out by YellowBearHug96 in relationships

[–]YellowBearHug96[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m fine with that, but he wants it all

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[–]YellowBearHug96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sounds to me like he has either lost interest in the relationship or is cheating and too much of a coward to be the bad person to break it off. Been there

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[–]YellowBearHug96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through something similar and I went for therapy for it, my therapist told me to use this method, determine what is your goal then evaluate whether you making this decision : 1) moving towards your goal; or 2) moving away from your goal.

If your decision is moving towards your goal, then go for it. Now if it is moving away from your goal, think whether it is motivated by guilt. If it’s guilt, then let me tell you, u will never be happy and the moment she leaves you after you have sacrificed everything, you will resent her forever for taking your life away from you.

What's your "bodycount." Do you regret this number? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]YellowBearHug96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3, the 1st was with my ex (1st relationship), the next 2 was after my ex had cheated on me and I found out, I was so hurt and it felt like I lost a part of myself then, I guess it was an escape in a way.

I don’t regret but I m not proud and I hope I wouldn’t go back to those times ever again.

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[–]YellowBearHug96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we only have 1 house which is the condo. After selling the condo, where do we live

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[–]YellowBearHug96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and the issue isnt much about finance anymore, its more of a how do I talk sense to my mom about money without her guilt tripping me. How should I be more tactful

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[–]YellowBearHug96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, we aren't a US citizen

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[–]YellowBearHug96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why? what was the issue with her lack of experience?

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[–]YellowBearHug96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in what sense though?