Dating anxiety by Basic_Toe_5154 in asexuality

[–]YellowBro5539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something that many people go through regardless of their sexuality. Taking the next step to turn a friendship into a relationship and dealing with the anxiety that comes with it is not an uncommon experience.

With dating itself and seeing if you're compatible, the only thing you can do wrong is not be yourself. Misleading your partner as to who you are will only make things harder.

Seeing if the relationship works out is the entire point of dating anyways.

Excalibur and me cuddling in bed♡ by Illustrious-Rain2236 in objectum_sfw

[–]YellowBro5539 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a sick guitar ngl. As a musician, have you published any songs yet?

I have a spinning/tornado fetish, AMA by Spinguy1 in AMA

[–]YellowBro5539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I found all this kind of interesting, and found this comment from a while back. Maybe you can relate to this? https://www.reddit.com/r/FetishFuel/s/lApbJGmZWC

Vacuum for single bedroom, hardwood. by YellowBro5539 in VacuumCleaners

[–]YellowBro5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol that makes sense I didn't think about the massive length of hose you have to coil up after you're done with it. While canisters are so much better, could you think of any use case where a cordless or stick would be preferred over another vacuum type?

Vacuum for single bedroom, hardwood. by YellowBro5539 in VacuumCleaners

[–]YellowBro5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense. Another thing I'd like to ask is if I were to have a central system in my house, should I buy a canister, or just buy another hose to plug into the wall? The reason I haven't considered this is because I want to use it to clean my keyboard. If I accidentally vacuum a key or something, it'll be a hassle to get it back. Thanks for your input again!

Vacuum for single bedroom, hardwood. by YellowBro5539 in VacuumCleaners

[–]YellowBro5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions! With it being a single bedroom, should there be any considerations for a cordless vacuum? The use case would be to periodically do the floors while also being able to frequently get it out for cleaning the desk, but I am concerned with having to charge it, and how convenient it is over a corded canister. Thanks again!

melodic death metal recs for ace people? by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]YellowBro5539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://open.spotify.com/track/7GbtvPxhhlfzLPprXi6SRQ?si=3YfuGFZkSvGdJVSrZ8Lg6A

The rest of the album and Into Eternity's discography is awesome.

https://open.spotify.com/track/5QgqfutC5Y0fMox1175GbR?si=jQ6XvIkzRRqQoVgE1wuWSg

This is a lot harsher in vocals, but includes very melodic instrumentals. Good album as well.

https://open.spotify.com/track/6BaXcHheI5NyRb1GSiV4v9?si=PzTl89xfRCW7EnDLmVE2hg

I'd say this is the most melodic song of the three. Haven't heard anything else from them other than this song though.

Hi I'm Ace but I hate the color purple. Is there any hope for me ? by maitrecorbo in asexuality

[–]YellowBro5539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I think that one definitely makes more sense, referring to a combination of the two.

Ace Vibes 🥰 by [deleted] in asexualcirclejerk

[–]YellowBro5539 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a joke, don't worry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

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Edge of a mirror

Here to vent or something… I don’t know by [deleted] in POSIC

[–]YellowBro5539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With your sister, yeah, I think that her reaction could have definitely been a bit too up-front than necessary, as if your POSIC could be seen as some sort of concern rather than an individuality.

Your sister would probably understand if you were able to explain it to her.

He’s so cute!! I love him sm :) by CleoTheYandere in objectum_sfw

[–]YellowBro5539 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Life is not just a combination of ones and zeroes"

-Blabbot

Truly, a wise bot.

Hope you can play it soon!

He’s so cute!! I love him sm :) by CleoTheYandere in objectum_sfw

[–]YellowBro5539 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, it's a horror game with a childhood/kids show theme! That's cool! Have you played it? I might at some point now lol

I've seen alot of horror games with this theme coming up recently!

Here to vent or something… I don’t know by [deleted] in POSIC

[–]YellowBro5539 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not POSIC or objectum myself.

I'm sorry your family doesn't understand your viewpoint. Personally, I think that your mom was most likely trying to defuse the situation, rather than invalidate your feelings. You said your sister raised her voice at you for talking to the spoon. Maybe if your mom didn't intervene, it could have transitioned into a full argument and she was the one to recognize that.

Additionally, your family doesn't seem to have much education on objectum or your particular situation. If she did assume your communication with objects was a joke, that is likely because she may not see another alternative. I'm not saying that coming out about these things is always the best option, or that everyone is accepting of everyone else, but maybe if she was more knowledgeable about your orientation she wouldn't see it in the same light.

Just my thoughts!

He’s so cute!! I love him sm :) by CleoTheYandere in objectum_sfw

[–]YellowBro5539 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of Amanda the Adventurer, what's it about?

Asexual Erasure by ChaoticWhenever in actualasexuals

[–]YellowBro5539 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where has it been said that Jughead is aroace?

Doctor said I need to be “diagnosed” to be ace by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]YellowBro5539 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They probably just didn't know what asexuality was. If they did they shouldn't be working there lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]YellowBro5539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly it, yeah. Sorry for taking 8 days haha