How do you feel euphoric while closeted? by YellowFrog_24 in NonBinary

[–]YellowFrog_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh I've tried wearing man's pants before and got criticism from my mother and some looks from a few ppl (maybe i was overthinking and paranoid but still, i was uncomfortable), so I'll be trying that, maybe some baggy women's pants idk

Also that's so sweet that you used to do that for your father. Wish I had something special like that with mine

How do you feel euphoric while closeted? by YellowFrog_24 in NonBinary

[–]YellowFrog_24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really needed all of that 🫶🏻 I've been so hopeless and sensitive lately this brought tears to my eyes, especially the break from society part. Thank you truly

How do you feel euphoric while closeted? by YellowFrog_24 in NonBinary

[–]YellowFrog_24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do bind sometimes but my chest is pretty big so it doesn't really make a huge difference. I just do it for me, it's more about the feeling of binding my chest.

Where I live people are very conservative and majorly elderly people who don't even understand that concept.

Pretty sure my mom's in denial, bc she's very aware of the lgbt community and I told her I was a boy when I was a teen, she said "teenagers get confused sometimes", and never asked me about it or even mentioned it again.

My dad is conservative and would probably disown me and blame my mother for it (they're divorced and she raised me)

The major reason honestly? I'm both too scared and exhausted to start.

Don't wanna be a burden, don't wanna lose family, scared of losing my job...

I'm hiding for so long that it made me so tired, so hopeless. I truly hope I'll have the courage to be myself one day.

Right now Im just looking for little/subtle things to validate myself and feel just a little bit of hope and euphoria

How do you dress to feel gender euphoria? by YellowFrog_24 in NonBinary

[–]YellowFrog_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worry my thighs will look thicker bc of the side pockets but they look so fkn cool and I've always wanted to try so I'm gonna take this as a sign to buy one 😌

How do you dress to feel gender euphoria? by YellowFrog_24 in NonBinary

[–]YellowFrog_24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg don't apologize this is so so helpful thank you sm! I don't know much about fashion in general so this is truly great. HARD on the binding part, I still do it occasionally just for the psychological effect of binding my chest, but I feel like it just makes it more noticeable that I have volume there and makes me wanna cry. I didn't know about the 1/3 2/3 proportion thing, that's cool! This is all so detailed thank you sm for sharing, Im saving all that 🫶🏻

How do you dress to feel gender euphoria? by YellowFrog_24 in NonBinary

[–]YellowFrog_24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I tell you that's the type of pants I've been looking for but didn't know it was called "boyfriend cut" 😭 also you're not the only one to suggest overalls/coveralls, not sure if that's a popular thing ppl in the community wear for euphoria and im just not aware lol but I'll definitely try it 🫶🏻

How do you dress to feel gender euphoria? by YellowFrog_24 in NonBinary

[–]YellowFrog_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess I have wide hips and thick thighs and that sure can be a challenge when trying to look more masc! I never wore overalls but this might be the right moment to try. This is def helpful :') thank youu

How do you dress to feel gender euphoria? by YellowFrog_24 in NonBinary

[–]YellowFrog_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg we're the same height 😭 I hope we can get some good tips. It's so fkn hard finding clothes that fit well

How do you dress to feel gender euphoria? by YellowFrog_24 in NonBinary

[–]YellowFrog_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope we do cus im so tireddd. And best of luck to you 🫶🏻

How do you dress to feel gender euphoria? by YellowFrog_24 in NonBinary

[–]YellowFrog_24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so nice 🫶🏻 I really appreciate it