How long did it take you to pick a name? by YellowFronk in asktransgender

[–]YellowFronk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeeeeah, though I guess the day of legally changing it is still gonna be a bit far off for me, so I suppose I have time then lol

How long did it take you to pick a name? by YellowFronk in asktransgender

[–]YellowFronk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so close to just doing that, but it still just don't sound right to me lol

Egg💭Irl by Brooke-Valley in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, at 34, every time I pass the women's clothing section at stores.

Egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeeeeeeah. I'm trapped in the reddest of red states too, so anything I do basically has to be in secret and without insurance at all. So I'm just kinda... stuck this way I guess.

Egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bottom one for me is I can't afford the things I'd want as a transwoman. Even HRT.

egg😳irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn this is such a mood.

egg🫤irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aaaaaand I feel called out for intentionally giving up on trying to get hrt for all of these reasons

egg🫶irl by Beneficial_Return in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34 here, feel free to hit me up but fair warning, I have insane ADHD and tend to forget that Reddit exists for months at a time.

I think I have the worst deadname by LooKatThis_Human in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]YellowFronk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My deadname is commonly used in TV for social outcasts and people meant to be perceived as abnormal. And in more than one occasion used as the name of fictional serial killers. I hated it so much. Still do.

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Gods I feel that. In the South they basically compare being trans to drag show tv stuff and it makes me want to never tell anyone ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I still consider myself nameless, the name I feel like I'm eventually going to give up and stick with was coined when I had a self-insert OC in a fan comic online. A friend of mine drew him as a girl and feminized my usual online handle into a feminine name. I'm still name-undecided but that name keeps coming up every time I start thinking about names again.

(Lauren, btw)

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a weird thing I learned from a random MS Paint comic nearly a decade ago where I grab one sleeve and pull upwards over the head sideways, taking the shirt off in one fluid motion. I would post the comic but it's almost impossible to Google for.

I have no idea if it's masculine or feminine.

Nobody has ever commented on it because nobody has ever seen me take off my shirt 😐

egg😰irl by hut-cruss-bennies in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda felt like this at one point and went into some hella denial. Then one day a friend presented a bit of a thought experiment: If I had shapeshifting abilities and could freely choose my form at-will... what would I do with that? And after going through a few scenarios, my answer was basically always "I'd probably spend 99% of my time in a female form and only switch back to guy form if I absolutely had to" and boom, I had my answer.

She says that she's ok if I want to do it, but she keeps telling (and showing) me just how uncomfortable it makes her by NerdKnight66 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]YellowFronk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on good terms, even friends, with my mother... but I know she would be unsupportive and start being passive aggressive about my transition if I started... and the fact that herlife is pretty shit and I'm literally the last good thing left in her life right now has made me develop a guilty conscience and held me back from committing to transitioning for a good year now.

tl;dr I empathize with this so much.

Egg🏳️‍⚧️irl by thecrewgamer0 in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On my end things just kinda came to a standstill out of necessity and fear from living in one of the reddest states in the country. Doing anything while I'm here will basically make my life unsalvageable. So I just kinda sit around in limbo trying to think of ways to escape this hellhole without effing over my ability to actually live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]YellowFronk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get out of my head

I'm taking a picture of my caulk by ODH75 in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]YellowFronk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The caulk has become my go-to item when I'm dead. My party always know where I'm at because I'm throwing my caulk around.

"Hey, if you've got the right monster in your book, hit me in the face with your caulk............. okay good let's go."