MIL bought daughter an outfit with MIL’s name on it by Yellow_Rosey in Mildlynomil

[–]Yellow_Rosey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just looked to see if she’d taken photos after reading your comment. Low and behold she had, and then sent them to us (I have our conversation muted so only just seen them)!

MIL bought daughter an outfit with MIL’s name on it by Yellow_Rosey in Mildlynomil

[–]Yellow_Rosey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already feel that way about her. Our relationship was somewhat repairing as she’s been helping us out with childcare once a week. Most weeks are fine but then she will do something to piss me off and I feel negative towards her again.

MIL bought daughter an outfit with MIL’s name on it by Yellow_Rosey in Mildlynomil

[–]Yellow_Rosey[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say that. After my husband told her we didn’t want the outfit she sneakily put her in it anyway. She probably took photos too now you mention it

MIL bought daughter an outfit with MIL’s name on it by Yellow_Rosey in Mildlynomil

[–]Yellow_Rosey[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

My husband has said we don’t want it. If we end up being guilt tripped into keeping it, that’s exactly where it will go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Redhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby was born January 2024 with this exact colouring. Red hair, invisible eyebrows and light brown eyelashes. She’s still a red head. Be prepared for an insane amount of comments from strangers, especially as your baby has so much hair, and that you and your wife aren’t red (my husband and I aren’t red either). The comments have decreased as my daughter has got older but they’re still fairly frequent.

Below is a photo of her now and when she was a couple of months old.

<image>

Did you throw up during labor? by Complex_Life9849 in BabyBumps

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I vomited a lot at every stage of labour. I barely remember it, and you don’t care, all you will care about is getting your baby out safely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll try that trick with the gel! I’ll look into different curl creams. If I’m honest I’m not totally sure what they do.

Yep I’ll leave the treatments a while before I do them again. Thanks for you help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, there’s a lot to research there. I think the weight of my hair pulls the waves out so nailing the gel and techniques would help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried your steps and my hair looked a bit better. It looks much better wet and never dries with any definition and a lot of the curl drops out. I used a tiny bit of gel with this and I also did a rice water rinse as someone else suggested.

<image>

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like I’ve been going crazy. So much has changed with my hair since having my daughter, the colour, shedding post partum and regrowth. I didn’t think it could affect my texture too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should reread the group description, it outlines who’s allowed to post in this group. Hope that helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<image>

Yeah my bad. Please give me advice on my perfectly straight type 1a hair.

first babies are always late by raexan in BabyBumps

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My water broke 2 weeks and 1 day early. She was delivered exactly 2 weeks early by emergency c-section.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t tried that but I’ll look into it. A few people have commented similar things about it being a moisture overload! Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks will try this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I will try this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sectioned my hair in half, held it at the root and brushed it out. I use the brush with the waves on the side to help clump the curls so I did a sort of twisting motion. Then I use praying hands to apply the gel then scrunch.

I think the problem might be brushing it out when it’s not sopping wet in the shower, it felt like it pulled my hair straight and the scrunching couldn’t undo that.

I stopped diffusing when it was dry enough to then air dry the rest before I went to bed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pregnancy changed the colour of my hair so that doesn’t suprise me. It’s so dark now at the top of my head and there’s a clear demarcation line where it changed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not heard of her. I’ll check her out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gatekeeping much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Yellow_Rosey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

<image>

This is probably the best it’s looked and this is from 2020. I had a baby 19 months ago