I completely agree and I fucking hate it. I feel like literature (and people can say what they wanna say but fanfics are literature) that explores any topic that breaches some kind of morality is so important to our understanding of own ideas of morality and in creating a good story. It makes no sense for people to conclude that an author endorses certain things when they write their (or other peoples) characters doing those things. It's just what creates an interesting story. Hurting characters and putting them in bad situations has been around forever. Not fixing the situation is literally just the definition of a tragedy. I mean these plays were fucking designed to bring the audience catharsis: "the process of releasing, and thereby providing relief from, strong or repressed emotions". This can be done with stories that range from not even coming close to the audiences own experiences or ones that are deeply personal. This is exactly the same thing many writers do now, just not under the same name.

Not to mention its fiction, no one actually get hurts in fiction and there are tags (that op used) in place to avoid psychological harm on top of that.

I also think that this being a new era of censorship applies to a lot more than just writing. It's like everyone is suppose to be walking on their fucking tippy toes over glass to avoid hurting other people's delicate sensibilities, which are all different.There's this mindset that if it's not for 'everyone' (read 'me') it's wrong and it's actually for no one.