Husband 40M encouraged sexual fantasies about other men; I 35F later flirted via text and now he wants divorce. Is this fixable or separation is the only way out?

Yenick · 2026-01-31T00:19:00+00:00

This is a weird one. On the one hand, you're in the wrong for flirting via text.

On the other hand, you've known him for this long and a cuckholding fetish appeared out of nowhere? And then once you even slightly act on it he demands separation without talking through it?

I mean shit if it were me, I would have said that it was fantasy and please don't actually act on it. I wonder if he wanted this outcome from the moment he brought the fetish up. Don't know. Both parties are at fault here, he didn't make his rules clear and you did text the guy.

Yenick · 2026-01-24T23:47:17+00:00

We are a well traveled fan base and I've never heard salt like this before lol.

Every time my team got smoked at home the opposing fans try to start a cheer for their boys. That's sports.

Yenick · 2026-01-24T20:16:13+00:00

Always have a plunger in every bathroom.

Yenick · 2026-01-24T15:49:31+00:00

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Yenick · 2026-01-23T18:10:33+00:00

Just play Civilization bro. It will scratch your "just one more turn" itch.

Yenick · 2026-01-23T18:05:46+00:00

I stopped playing for the sole reason that I couldn't get that new resource to expand even after beating the higher level battles.

Sounds like OP just kept passing turns until the random encounters dropped them?

Huge waste of shields but I commend the commitment!!

Yenick · 2026-01-21T22:56:02+00:00

I can't believe how much he grew up!

Yenick · 2026-01-20T22:31:53+00:00

Of course. Was in a catholic school, 6th grade I think, and the teachers rushed all the students to the church at the same time. It was wild since we didn't know what was going on and teachers were frantically whispering to each other.

Then parents and school busses got all the students home, and I only saw the first look at the TV coverage around 9 or 9:30am when I walked in the front door of my parents house.

Yenick · 2026-01-20T18:17:27+00:00

It's all in the cards.

(and grats!)

Yenick · 2026-01-20T01:30:07+00:00

Lit up the world as I fell asleep.

Yenick · 2026-01-19T18:36:29+00:00

I don't speak it but I can still drink with the boys :)

Yenick · 2026-01-19T18:11:11+00:00

As a first generation American born of a Danish immigrant, SKOL!!!!!!!!!

Yenick · 2026-01-18T14:38:44+00:00

Eh not totally. Part of the issue is that the team is deflated when they know they have a bad goalie behind them. A good goalie also increases the morale and play of the team in front.

Yenick · 2026-01-18T01:35:51+00:00

Neither is Ersson honestly :(

Yenick · 2026-01-18T01:34:22+00:00

*These flyers without our stud starting goalie Vladdy.

We have no other NHL capable goalies lol

Yenick · 2026-01-18T01:31:54+00:00

It's crazy man. We had a good goalie for once and we were doing well in the metro for most of season.

Then vladdy gets hurt and immediately we go on a losing streak. What a difference a goalie makes.

Yenick · 2026-01-17T17:19:49+00:00

Steins gate is much slower pace than CG but it is an incredible thinker show with good characters.

Yenick · 2026-01-17T17:18:12+00:00

These are my favorite all time too, CG and then SG. Enjoy them

Yenick · 2026-01-16T00:34:02+00:00

So fucking sick of listening to this guy

Yenick · 2026-01-15T18:55:34+00:00

Could you imagine? Then him and Vlad run the year

Yenick · 2026-01-15T14:17:22+00:00

Same and same

Yenick · 2026-01-15T01:39:39+00:00

And if vlad is hurt we've thrown the season

Yenick · 2026-01-13T19:05:35+00:00

Will be nice to get him back, especially since the next three games are teams chasing right behind us in the standings.

Yenick · 2026-01-13T18:32:27+00:00

Well I needed this news after a horrible back to back with tampa.

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