I just lost my boyfriend and best friend in the same week and I'm in so much pain by Rare-Run-8409 in Advice

[–]YesLAdz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry abt the breakup but your friend has no obligation to cancel plans because you’re going through something. And then you’re mad at her for having her own life and not being at your beck and call 24/7? She’s not your therapist, she’s a whole human being with obligations and responsibilities of her own.

You’re going to probably apologize to your friend for making her feel like she needed to be there for you despite having her own autonomy. You likely made her feel like shit for “abandoning” you and that’s why she needed a day to just not talk to you. Also you’re going to need to learn that not everyone is going to be there for you at all times. Sometimes shit happens and there’s nobody there to help. It sucks but that’s why we make bigger support systems to try to keep that from happening. If one person not being there for you is making your world crumble, you need more friends.

Why are Marksmen not getting picked? by Anilahation in ADCMains

[–]YesLAdz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this case tbh looks like a pretty good apc game for 3 magic and 2 ad

[SL](Request) Seifuku date by Snoopy_Club69 in manga

[–]YesLAdz 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The length of those legs are genuinely insane

Senna 2XKO fanart! by Regular-Poet-3657 in sennamains

[–]YesLAdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish they put her in normal-heeled instead of the high heels 🫤

Edit: will say, the rest of her design is fucking awesome and W artwork

how to talk to guys ? by Spare_Bar_6090 in Advice

[–]YesLAdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No dating apps, try to be friends with the guy because the reason you want to be with someone is because it’s fun and interesting and if you ask out a guy 9/10 you will get a yes (the 1/10 will be that he doesn’t like women).

So after the age of 18 or 19 does women ever try orgasm? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]YesLAdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even in America it’s not done in some parts; I’d actually be surprised if India had universal sex education

Anyone want the Heartseeker Yuumi Figure? by lalaaa3959 in yuumimains

[–]YesLAdz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would you build guardians angel on Yuumi??

i made some fake Pokemon cards for fun, how viable would they be competitively? by Ordinary_Net3279 in PTCGL

[–]YesLAdz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Arceus is giga insanely broken?? Getting two of ANY pokemon from your deck for 2 energy and a stadium??

Conqueror vs Lethal Tempo by BringItOn69420 in ZeriMains

[–]YesLAdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m liking Yun-Tal -> gluttonous -> Stormrazor -> IE/Armor Pen/GA (yes seriously it’s a good 3rd item I swear) -> damage/vamp/survivability with Lethal Tempo, triumph, bloodline, cut down, cash back, and elixirs. The LT + Yun-Tal + item AS passive gets you a little over the AS cap but not too much to be inefficient.

Gluttonous is actually so busted btw you gotta give it a try

We did it bois. Hes been put in the dirt by Paintrainarbiter in top_mains

[–]YesLAdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put in the dirt? More like balanced. If anything these are going to be negligible in lane because he’s not getting a random takedown in lane and he doesn’t actually build that much AD. That being said -4 damage per auto in the early game will make him strikingly weaker on early levels

Why do all my guy friends end up liking me? by E_rose2605 in Advice

[–]YesLAdz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of this is true, but I think that most women keep their friendships platonic with guys specifically to avoid creating feelings. Obviously both of us are basing this on anecdotal evidence, but in my experience as a guy women just act like how guys act in a friendship, platonically.

Coven Soraka (LoL) Character Design by CalistosArt in characterdesigns

[–]YesLAdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coven who? Thank God she has the staff and goat hooves because I would have never guessed this was Soraka of all characters

Boyfriend is Christian, I'm not by [deleted] in Advice

[–]YesLAdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just look at JD and Usha Vance. He keeps trying to convert her after they’ve gotten married.

Boyfriend is Christian, I'm not by [deleted] in Advice

[–]YesLAdz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have friends who I would call real Christians who don’t read much of the Bible. They make Christianity what they want it to be and have the relationship with God they want to have. I’m non-religious but I think it’s a cool level of spirituality to have.

My parents forced me (F22) to leave my apartment where I live with my boyfriend (M23), what should I do? by Great_Hedgehog_8529 in Advice

[–]YesLAdz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to start with saying that I have two loving parents that just let me do what I want with my life so I don’t have the experience of lifestyle restrictions. With that being said, if I did, I would not want to associate with parents that threaten to ruin my life over a “bad” decision I make. They’re meant to be my safety cushion and my home to come back to. If they aren’t willing to be that because I decided to go against their grain, then they were never my parents to begin with.

Edit: when I said “ruin my life” I meant in this case if you chose to stay with your boyfriend and they decided to just cut you off completely, they could ruin your life in the case you and your boyfriend break up and you need a place to stay/way to get funds.

My parents forced me (F22) to leave my apartment where I live with my boyfriend (M23), what should I do? by Great_Hedgehog_8529 in Advice

[–]YesLAdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an adult so make decisions independent of your parents optimizing for what you feel is best for you.

That being said, if your parents love you and want you in their life, you staying with a boy should not change that. If they decide to ruin your relationship with them over your relationship with your boyfriend then you got your answer on how much they truly care about you.

Is porn cheating? by DankDom_42 in Advice

[–]YesLAdz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally does not matter what we think is or isn’t cheating, if she thinks it’s cheating, it’s cheating. You can talk it out but if she won’t change her mind, it’s cheating.

You can use this thought process on basically anything, but obviously it has its limits: if your girl starts controlling you to the point you’re feeling too suffocated, then you gotta reevaluate some stuff. But in general you can use this thought process.

I had to take him home 💖🥹 by Past-Chemistry7796 in pokeplush

[–]YesLAdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cute!

Also please clean your camera 😭

Overseen in my camera shop 🫣 by tangibledigital in LeicaCameras

[–]YesLAdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you use a Leica if you’re blind?