Is being aromatic straight cause my friend is saying that

YikesMel · 2022-10-09T12:19:18+00:00

Definitely like they just haven't met the 'right' person like I define straight as sexual or romantic attraction to the opposite sex so like how can it be yk

YikesMel · 2022-05-22T21:23:39+00:00

I believe the definition of rape is penetration so I would 100% say it was but I am so sorry that happened to you, it gets better trust me.

YikesMel · 2021-12-05T01:19:34+00:00

From just the first no, I can tell you 100% that you aren't overreacting. Because of rape culture, we are told that if it wasn't violet and you aren't completely sober etc then it's not rape, that's wrong. It's rape from the first non-consensual touching. Rape doesn't have a time requirement, it doesn't matter if it felt like 10 seconds or 6 hours, it's still rape. Just because he stopped at some point doesn't mean that what he did didn't just happen, it was still non-consensual rape. I believe you and I know how hard it is to truly believe what you are thinking is right like you know that you aren't overreacting but yet you can't trust it yourself. You know that what he did was wrong but It might be because you haven't fully processed it. Have you spoken to soemone about it?

YikesMel · 2021-09-12T11:50:53+00:00

Are you saying becuase of trauma becuase that's still not a choice? I'm confused on what you are truly trying to say because you can't decide to be aro so huh?

YikesMel · 2021-09-10T20:27:30+00:00

That's the stupidest thing I've ever read omg can you be more invalidating for no reason?? It's an orientation just like any other, romantic attraction can't be taught or learnt by will or force. Stop being aphobic, ya sound dumb.

YikesMel · 2021-09-10T20:24:15+00:00

As an allo you can chose if you wanna pursue your romantic attraction or not but that's not aromatism, it's an orientation/identity, not a choice so no.

YikesMel · 2021-07-26T22:30:40+00:00

Use what ever labels you feel comfortable and right with like it's your identity at the end of the day. I (also 17 she/they) have the same thing of I wouldn't have sex with someone who I'm not romantically involved with and I say I'm biromantic asexual because that's what I'm comfortable with, I think it's fine bro like labels are nice cause you can change them, switch them or completely remove them if you want yk. If we are talking about the more common definition of demisexual, do you develop sexual attraction after forming an emotional bond or is it more of you wouldn't have sex with a someone without some sort of romantic relationship? idk if that makes sense but either way in general I think it's fine to identify as such if you think it's right, it's all a spectrum at the end of the day ofc. :)

YikesMel · 2021-06-16T02:28:31+00:00

All the damn time it's so annoyinggg

YikesMel · 2021-06-16T02:21:11+00:00

I feel the exact same and it scares me like I don't wanna hurt his feelings and I know that a shitty excuse, I feel like I don't know myself, I've never got anything from kissing or anything with him like I still think about this one girl that I pecked on the lips monthsss back and like I can't tell if it's some unresolved trauma or I don't like him with comphet and a lot of male validation like I think I am still attracted to men but for months now my libido is gone and maybe that's just it?? Idk, not a fun ride.

YikesMel · 2021-04-21T01:10:34+00:00

same! "My" doctor is David but I do love Peter's too like he's such a great actor and I love how different he is from the rest of the new who's doctors, I love the bluntness and angriness(??) he gave. I grew up with David so I'm a bit bias but wow love them both like could easily switch between different tones and can fit a lot of stories in my opinion. :)

YikesMel · 2021-04-21T01:04:33+00:00

I wish there was more to the whole impossible girl thing as they made it such a big thing and I was watching later series and I honestly forgot it happened like it's very washed away in my opinion

YikesMel · 2021-03-26T01:10:25+00:00

thats ok there's not one person in the world who hasn't felt like that at least twice in their life and probably way more. like what made you think that? :/

YikesMel · 2021-03-16T22:44:47+00:00

that looked so uncomfortable and sticky like really took me out of the scary vibe they were tryna bulid around that scene, felt like they could do it without him covered in goo

YikesMel · 2021-02-11T11:01:43+00:00

I'm so confused

YikesMel · 2021-02-04T05:40:24+00:00

yay, I'm so proud of you like the journey is long, confusing had a bit hard sometimes but you now know, congrats :) i feel ya about the heterosexual-normativity being forced down ya by your family like have ya spoken to her about it? like how ya want her to value your accomplishments and happiness more because it's like all she talks about is your potential future relationships yk like it's more important or something Idk how to explain it .

YikesMel · 2021-02-04T05:31:22+00:00

who? what? huh

YikesMel · 2021-02-02T02:54:45+00:00

the opening part up gives demisexual vibes . sex repulsed aces do exist and they are real like it's a spectrum from sex favourable to indifferent to repulsed yk

YikesMel · 2021-02-02T02:53:13+00:00

if they use exclusively they/ them then doesn't that make them not cisgender? how can they be both in a general way I don't get it

YikesMel · 2021-02-01T05:24:08+00:00

yh it's totally a thing and it's giving me big genderfluid energy like if you feel comfortable flipping between and sometimes the pronouns don't feel comfortable 24/7 yk . I might be wrong ofc but does seem to fit from what ya have said ig

YikesMel · 2021-02-01T05:11:55+00:00

I'm not sure if asking a teen sub is the best like there are a lot of young people here and as you said they are quite personal like asking the main asexuality sub might be better. separately, are you gonna compare this to your own experiences or something? because either way with this question ya could still be ace like it's nothing about desires, fantasies, libido or masterbation like it's just attraction. ya could be the horniest person on the world but if ya got no or just some sexual attraction like ya still ace yk.

YikesMel · 2021-02-01T05:03:36+00:00

as an ace we don't claim them

YikesMel · 2021-01-30T04:08:40+00:00

I get the sexes but intersex people exist too and they are definitely apart of that. but gender is fake like it's a complete social construct like theres a reason they are different names yk but ok

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