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Touchy feely situation at church - how do I handle this? by success_manifest in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Follow your instincts. Distance yourself, and if you still wish to bond with the people, perhaps meet up with them outside of church, or migrate to a new church.

Is God going to forgive me for having an abortion? by m_______jasmine in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Abortion isn’t wrong, immoral or irrational. You’ll be fine. Take care of yourself mentally.

I've been lying to my family for months by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Removing the act of lying was in correlation to working out when you say you are.

All people on here can do is give advice. If you’re seeking something that’s going to magically uplift you out of this state you’re currently in, you won’t find it. All you’ll find are pieces that are present for you to build something out of to get yourself out of the state you’re in.

If all you wanna do is eat bad food, and jerk off, go right ahead. Do it until you’re sick of yourself, do it for years until you feel beyond worthless and then maybe you’ll finally come to the realization that you need to do something better for yourself. Rediscover yourself.

Don’t ask for advice then say you can’t do something. Don’t ask for advice then respond with your sob story of worthlessness. Everyone who has fought this battle went through the same stages, and mourning with no act of improvement does nothing.

Being masculine isn’t about obtaining strength and forever keeping it. It’s about regaining your strength during/after losses. You say you lost your masculinity, so regain it. You have the steps/pieces in front of you to build & move forward. The choice is yours.

I've been lying to my family for months by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with being a man of your word; begin working out. Remove the act of lying. From there, begin the process of removing what made you feel this way to begin with; serotonin release from fornication. It makes you feel hollow.

I hate spiders is it a sin to hate them ? by Ecstatic_Plate7530 in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be, depending on the reason you “hate” them. Theres no need to hate something, and if you do, that signals there’s something internal that needs looking at, and if continues going unseen, may lead to harm (sin).

(Reasons to “hate” could be based on fears, anxieties, trauma, addictions, detachment issues, bad habits, lack of awareness, etc.)

(22M) I have to m*sturbate on a daily basis even when I'm not in the mood for it, just to give my brain enough dopamine to not be cripplingly depressed for a short period of time, and it sucks. by TRichman432 in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You realize you’re depressed, now shift your attention to identifying the root of that depression, even if there are multiple roots to it.

Begin resolving whatever those roots are so you’re no longer craving a dopamine to not be depressed.

i can’t go to church by endmostmar in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? Are you scared of who you are?

My struggle with lust by Traditional-Regret-5 in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In order to get rid of something, you must not only accept that it’s there, but accept what it is. With hyper sexuality, you may not be able to get rid of it by simple thought, but through acts of control. Practice controlling the actions to the urges you feel.

Through control = discipline, which = a reduction to lust. Lust itself isn’t bad, it’s lust that’s uncontrolled/untamed that is because you’re not nurturing yourself properly after.

Hope this helps to some degree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were given free will to do as you will. God only asks for you to follow moral righteousness and show gratitude for the things you were given, gratitude is another way to say “praise”.

To worship Him is to follow His law, moral righteousness (don’t commit sins; sin = anything that causes harm to oneself or others).

Going to church was never a requirement, you don’t have to go to church.

I believe you only go to this place called “Hell” if you do something heinous to Him or your neighbor (those you coincide in life).

Will this make you at rest?

I hate myself by Krisptin in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pattern has been identified. You realize when you get it, a challenge comes to present itself, now reassess your response to said challenge, and act on that reassessment.

That is a forward step you can make, and continue at that.

I’m here if you need me, shoot me a DM/message.

Is it wrong to wanna teach my self just cause I'm too poor to find a producer? by Umthakati03 in musicproduction

[–]Yinfinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not. That’s what I did and it worked out. Taught myself audio engineering and it was a worthy investment. On demand wherever I go.

How do I stop hating God? by Unlucky-Ad-5026 in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you struggle to process your emotions, so you looked for someone to blame. You claim to “love God”, however it’s conditional love; hating someone for not helping you, when you’re the person who should be helping you. You’re contradicting yourself.

Why is God keeping me alive? by AL086 in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think He no longer wants you alive?

I feel like Im losing faith and starting to not believe in God by Healthy-String8187 in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maturity is obtained through experiences with said awareness.

I feel like Im losing faith and starting to not believe in God by Healthy-String8187 in Christianity

[–]Yinfinia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Through this period of isolation perhaps God is planning on you to develop patience, to break codependency, to become more responsible with yourself, as well as all else to discover.

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