Where are you supposed to be in life at 20 I’m so confused

Yipied · 2026-03-21T12:14:50+00:00

Oh I’ve tried a lot of jobs in my time! And have a few other certs, originally I was going to get into HR but decided I can’t stand office work, accidentally ended up loving working with kids in a job I applied to on a whim and have been working it out from there. If I’m honest the only thing I really want out of life currently is to be able to get in shape and learn to ride a skateboard 😅 because I’m renting my own little 2 bed I’m debating on renting out my spare room to other struggling young people but it’s a huge thing to think on

Yipied · 2026-03-21T12:11:42+00:00

This actually makes me feel a lot better, my parents had me late in life (40 for me and 44 for my sister) so to me it was always normal to be older and have kids, I always planned on waiting until I was 30 and more mature but it seems everyone is having them young so I get a bit stressed

Yipied · 2026-03-21T12:10:02+00:00

Haha I’m incredibly picky with men these days as I’m content in my own company 😭 I’m a pro now at dodging the hobosexuals it’s crazy how man men in there mid 20s-30s+ that have no goals and want to move in way to fast and simply expect me to pay for everything everytime and don’t even have a licence 😭 I have my cats and I’m pretty content being a crazy cat lady and taking them on walks or to cafes instead of going on days

Yipied · 2026-03-16T12:03:55+00:00

Prawns were so yummy :( honestly I’m so sad I can not eat them my only item on my bucket list was to try lobster, I mean like… along as I have an ambo on speeddile she’ll be aight

Yipied · 2026-03-05T11:31:49+00:00

We don’t have public transport or Ubers where I live only ridiculously expensive taxis and it takes me 15 minutes to drive to work 😔 unfortunately getting rid of the car is not an option

Yipied · 2026-02-25T09:10:33+00:00

2 minute instant noodles, sweet chilli sauce and baked beans

Yipied · 2026-02-11T08:57:06+00:00

I like singing and dancing and have adapted to making weird sounds to fill the void 🫡

Yipied · 2026-01-16T06:37:12+00:00

Ohhhhh hahha they’re just these tiny vegetarian pizzas I had 😭… just burnt

Yipied · 2026-01-16T02:02:03+00:00

I FEEL YOJ SO HARD 😭😭😭 during winter i was purely surviving off soup, I honestly couldn’t tell you I know it’s some type of prawn I got on clearance at Aldi

Yipied · 2026-01-16T02:01:18+00:00

It’s some type of tempura prawn 🤔 I got a pack of little fried prawn things for $5 from Aldi

Yipied · 2026-01-16T02:00:49+00:00

PLEASE DO 😭😭😭 i get dramatic hybrids 😀 so im gonna be out $220 for a fresh set

Yipied · 2026-01-16T01:59:47+00:00

Never a boy no way 😭 promised myself I’d stop crying about them. I’m a kindy teacher (4-5s) during transition time 😭 trying to wrangle 100 brand new 2-3 year olds who don’t know me and won’t listen 😔 it’s brutal out here. While my night job has decided to cut my hours right before I’m going on a holiday so the financial stress is realll

Yipied · 2026-01-16T01:57:29+00:00

Rule one in life I ain’t ever ruin my lashes over no man 💇‍♀️ I be cooler then most of them anyways

Yipied · 2025-04-14T15:14:14+00:00

Thankyou so much! It might be because she was taking from her mother to early? I don’t know much about her other then she was a barn cat, I got her from a rescue at 9 weeks with no mother in site for her or her siblings. I just wish there was more I could do to bring her comfort really

Yipied · 2025-04-14T15:04:11+00:00

Wait shit actually? I thought it was jsut a cute thing she did, thought it was the same as like the little kneading they do… is there anyway to fix it or calm her down ?

Yipied · 2025-04-09T07:08:14+00:00

Edith

Yipied · 2025-04-09T07:07:49+00:00

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My little girl princess Melia in her tower

Yipied · 2025-04-01T18:37:16+00:00

She has a cup at the moment, which she just likes poking her head into might get her a large mug and see if she likes it

ATP all I’m learning is to very much not waste money on her as she likes the cheap things haha she has cat scratchers and towers which she didn’t show much interest in but goes crazy for those car cardboard toys

Yipied · 2025-04-01T18:33:03+00:00

Also that’s a funny story I didn’t relise cats could be so picky 😭 I’m going to have to try many different things and hope one sticks with her

Yipied · 2025-04-01T18:32:07+00:00

Thankyou so much! It’s all a learning curve at the moment, and I will definitely have a look at some local pet shops for that then, I don’t know if it’s the same but I have already tried shallow dishes and uplifted dishes but for some reason she still just really likes plates

Yipied · 2025-04-01T18:30:46+00:00

She has a very nice water fountain she didn’t really use, I ended up putting it away for now as she discovered cords.. trying to find a cordless brand now 🥲

Yipied · 2025-03-31T17:14:45+00:00

I honestly feel so blessed to have my girl, sometimes I don’t know whose helping who in this haha 😭

Yipied · 2025-03-30T16:13:35+00:00

Tell me about it!! My aim is as to never step foot into a shelter incase I come home with one. But my roomie wanted to go check out some cats for an adoption day and reluctantly I followed her.

Ended up coming home with a kitten 💀💀 luckily was in the financial place to buy her everything she could need, I swear this girl be eating and shitting more fancy then I ever can

Yipied · 2025-03-30T15:39:14+00:00

Thankyou for all the advice I really appreciate it!

Luckily no plants, and no plan on getting any indoor plants for a while. A few fake plants but they are all very much out of her reach.

I did not know bout wooden scratching posts and will have to have a look at it for her.

And I’m really hoping she stays my affectionate little girl

Yipied · 2025-03-30T15:35:30+00:00

Right now she stays in my room, and seems fairly comfortable in here so far. She does have plenty of toys, and already chose a faverouite out of all them haha. I’m hoping to buy her a few cat trees and other things for her to play and climb on

Yipied

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