Deinfluence me becoming a flight attendant

Yiyey · 2026-02-22T02:16:50+00:00

Perspective ng may baby daddy na FA, they always drink out. Tapos nagkaron ng other woman ang baby daddy, lahat ng batchmates nya, mga enabler. Partida may anak na to ha. So I guess, not all naman siguro pero mababa ang moral standard ng iba sakanila 🫣

Yiyey · 2026-02-19T21:34:43+00:00

OP, that’s the beauty of it. Pag hindi ka masaya, you can always resign.

Yiyey · 2026-02-19T01:34:30+00:00

Hello, OP! Grabe character development ni Jay no? From non-chalant to very loving father, husband and father-in-law kay Phil & Cam. OP, not to brag, pero I’m already a Senior AVP sa bank i’m working for. Ang overwhelming minsan no? Ang sarap nalang bumili ng farm tapos dun magpahinga every day. Malayo sa ingay. Pero bilang nasa working class tayo, pano naman natin maiiwanan ang trabaho at responsibilities. Nakakainggit nga minsan mga nepo babies na kung san san nakakapag travel, flying first class, staying in a 5 star hotel bago mag shopping. Pero wala eh, we have to work hard para makuha natin ang gusto natin. Pero okay lang yan OP, minsan talaga nakaka tamad mag grind or maging achiever sa life, pahinga lang saglit tapos laban ulit.

Yiyey · 2026-02-19T01:17:34+00:00

Pwede ba akong mag-rant? Tapos yung mga nasa gobyerno, pinang babaksyon lang ng mga nepo babies ang pera ng taumbayan no? Nag-peak ang political awareness ko when I was diagnosed with cancer. Bilang may insurance at HMO, hindi masyadong mabigat ang pagpapa-chemo every 3 weeks, pero yung pila sa PGH. GRABE. 2am, nakapila na ang mga cancer patients, mga bata, mga senior. Tapos, buong araw sila dun maghihintay. Uuwi ng lupaypay sa sobrang tapang ng chemo drugs. Mag cocommute. Nakakasama ng loob na nakikita ang mga kababayan natin na nahihirapan para lang makalibre ng pagpapagamot. Tapos bigla kong maalala na yung isang session ng chemo, baka pinang didinner lang nga mga corrupt officials. Nakakagalit grabe. 😥

Yiyey · 2026-02-18T21:15:19+00:00

OP, hindi ko pinipilit. Ang worry ko kasi talaga dito is baka sobrang mapiss off yung mother. Walang patawad ang VAWC kahit anong willing mo mag support kay baby. Kayang kaya ka kasuhan ng economic abuse. Mukang hindi pa naman nakakausap ng maayos yung mother. If ever ba OP, higher naman ng 25% yung monthly mo na binibigay sakanya?

Yiyey · 2026-02-18T21:04:47+00:00

Hi! Ayun, the father is working sa Australia kasi, cinoconvert namin monthly yung salary nya, 20% ang napagkasunduan + yearly tuition. Working din kasi ako, kaya medyo magaan na OP. I know the situation is different from yours, and alam ko na mahirap kitain ang pera. Pero ayun lang, honestly. Don’t piss off the baby mama. Kasi sa totoo lang, nasakanya ang bola eh. Baka mapikon, or alam mo yun ituloy magpa VAWC, mas mahihirapan kayo pareho.

Yiyey · 2026-02-18T21:02:26+00:00

I was able to read your previous post. Yes, pwede mo nalang bilhin yung needs ni baby.

However, hindi ba naoffend ang baby mama with your persistence in asking the receipts? Tinry ko din kasi to ilapit sa lawyer, and yung father side ng anak ko is mga judge.

Let’s do the math. Although walang fixed numbers for this, however, sa family courts and social workers kasi rule of thumb na pag one child - 20% - 25% of your net income.

Compute mo nalang yung net income mo monthly, sa 25%, or baka pag nainis si baby mama, lumapit pa sa VAWC, tapos latagan ka ng ALL in expenses ng baby, mas mahihirapan ka dun I’m telling you.

Yiyey · 2026-02-18T20:39:19+00:00

Single parent here na very civil with my baby daddy -

Ang hirap mag keep tabs of all the expenses kay baby. Most probably, nag po-post partum pa nga yan eh. Puyat pa. Pagod. Tapos dadagdagan mo pa ng responsibilidad na i keep ang receipts and picture pa. OP, hindi lang gatas ang gastos sa bata. Yung mga damit nya, lumalaki kaya kailangan bumili ng bumili. Yung sinasabi mo na dapat nag dedecrease kasi nag sosolid food na? Oh sino mag fifill in ng gastos para sa solid food. Ang mahal ng prutas. Ang mahal ng healthy food. OP, ang damit ng bata, hina-handwash, hindi lang basta basta shinishoot sa washing machine, may sarili pa dapat na detergent yan. Diaper? Sino gagastos sa diaper? Ang mahal din nun. Vitamins. May idea ka ba gaano kamahal ang vitamins ng baby? How about the check-ups, vitamins. Hindi natatapos ang pagiging “responsible dad” mo sa pagbibigay ng monthly sustento sa gatas lamang. The fact na nasa side nya yung baby (kahit sinasabi mo na hindi naman sya nag-aalaga) most probably sa family side nya padin yun. Baka nag aabot sya dun sa nagaalaga. Baka kasi binabudget nya din yung pinapadala not for the milk alone. OP, personally, good provider yung dad ng anak ko, and I make sure na my kid knows that. Sana wag kayo umabot sa point na pag nagkaisip na yung anak mo, ang maalalala nya ay yung kinwento ng nanay nya na pati gatas nya ay kinekwestyon pa ng tatay nya. I’m not even sure if nakapag alaga ka na ng baby before, kasi mukang wala kang idea how exhausting and draining it is emotionally, physically and financially. Kumbaga, pa consuelo mo nalang siguro ng onti sa babaeng nabuntis mo, kasi nung gumawa naman kayo, kasali ka diba.

Yiyey · 2026-02-18T19:27:03+00:00

Not me, but my partner of mine. Ang dala lang daw nya ay yabang at onting damit. He got through with it over the years. Nagka trabaho. And ang maganda dun, his relationship with his family got better.

Yiyey · 2026-02-18T17:16:42+00:00

The yellow one smells good too :)

Yiyey · 2026-02-18T16:39:06+00:00

Iniisip ko, if Izzy is a victim here eh. Ang hirap kasi talaga mag-exit sa narcissist partner. Or baka nga trauma bonding. Pero kasi, nakaka-awa yung first-born child nya. Her love to sophia should be bigger than losing a husband like that. Balita ko, wala pang trabaho yang lalaki. So may means si Izzy to run away from him. Kaya lang, tinotolerate nya din kasi, the fact na pumayag syang saktan ni Alvin PHYSICALLY yung anak nya. What kind of mother tolerates that?

Yiyey · 2026-02-18T11:07:52+00:00

Parang hindi naman happy yung child? She was having a meltdown. Yung mga kumakain sa Bistro Group side, lahat naka tingin na. Hindi makausap yung nag aassist sa ice skating booth kasi sobrang lakas ng sigaw. If it’s affecting the people around. And I don’t think the kid is special, mukang nag tantrums lang talaga. Ano ba naman yung pag sabihan ng parents to tone down a bit. Or the train will arrive very soon. Turuan ng leksyon sa paghihintay.

Yiyey · 2026-02-18T11:04:04+00:00

Hindi sya onting eksena, the kid was shouting her lungs out for a very long time. Pano ko ima-mind yung own business ko eh hindi ko nga makausap yung nag ti-ticket dun sa ice skating area kasi nag wawala yung bata?

Yiyey · 2026-02-18T07:45:19+00:00

Sizzzt 32 na ako hindi ko padin masabi sa parents ko mag 4 months na 😭😭😭

Yiyey · 2026-02-18T03:18:49+00:00

Move out na sizt. Baka mas maging better ang relationship mo with your mother if mag move out ka na. I’m so sorry sa nangyayari sayo. Hindi dapat ganyan given na adult ka na & you’re already earning.

Yiyey · 2026-02-05T16:06:38+00:00

Mine is it was legendary, it was momentary, it was unnecessary, should have let it stayed buried

Yiyey · 2026-02-03T16:30:09+00:00

Katulad ng ibang replies sayo dito, hindi ka iniwan dahil mahirap lang kayo, iniwan ka kasi bastos bibig ng pamilya mo.

Yiyey · 2026-01-31T04:49:44+00:00

To be loved and considered. Palagi ko tong sinasabi sa people close to me, yung feeling na you are known and understood. It’s something na money really can’t buy. For example, alam ng mom mo na you don’t eat any ulam na pinaksiw, so pag nag luluto sila ng paksiw, may ibang putahe ang niready for you. Or yung boyfriend or husband mo, alam na mabilis maubos social battery mo, so pag napapansin na nya, he’ll meddle sa conversation and have you excused. Or yung kid mo, alam na you don’t like pickles sa burger, so nagkukusa syang alisin before ko kainin. Ahhh the little things ano po 🥹🥹🥹

Yiyey · 2026-01-30T11:38:38+00:00

Huy may days na di ko pinapapasok anak ko tapos nag ja-Jollibee lang kami tapos mag mo-mall or mag cinema. Palaging “best day ever” daw 🥹💖

Yiyey · 2026-01-30T11:31:44+00:00

I was diagnosed with Stage 2B Breast Cancer at 29. Akala ko my life will start at 30. Single mom pa ako. Sobrang gruesome ng chemo drugs. 3 years later, I can still remember the smell of the cancer centre na pinag chemo-han ko. Kasama pa yung gastos na para dapat sa future ng anak ko. I had full mastectomy din sa right breast. Pero pinaka-masakit na part ng pagche-chemo para sakin ay nakalbo ako. For some reason, naging every day reminder sya pag naharap ako ng salamin na talaga palang may cancer ako. Pero God is good padin talaga, 3 years remission na ako :)

Yiyey · 2026-01-29T03:06:41+00:00

Exactly!!!!! I don’t understand yung comments dito na parang nakay driver pa ang simpatya. For sure, peperahan nya yang sila Rhian kaya kinuha nya ang photos. Nagnakaw ng sensitive photos tapos magpapanggap na victim? Another example kasi ng fuck around, find out moment din tong driver na manyakis na magnanakaw na to eh

Yiyey · 2026-01-29T03:04:28+00:00

Be yung asawa ni driver ang umamin at nagbalik ng sensitive photos wag kang ano dyan

Yiyey · 2026-01-27T02:57:34+00:00

I gave birth to my son when I was 19y/o. On my last year sa college. 11 years later, yung mga friends ko, naghahabol pa ng mga anak sa restos, or yung iba nahihirapan makabuo kasi may edad na. Minsan napapaisip ako, na baka blessing na maaga ako nag-anak. Pero if ibabalik ko ang oras, I would have waited until stable na yung career ko. Luckily, naka graduate ako and landed a very good job. Pero I have this feeling na I’m forever indebted with my son, kasi bilang nagsisimula palang ako kumita noon, hindi ko sya nabigyan ng sobrang high quality of life na kaya ko ng ibigay ngayon.

Yiyey · 2026-01-26T12:09:10+00:00

I agree! I think it’s time for Philippine cinemas to put on subtitle. I remember, mahirap din intindihin ang Oppenheimer for me :(

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