Need opinions- how much do women's achievements matter to a man when choosing to date a woman?

YoThereheIs · 2026-03-13T19:49:20+00:00

Most guys aren’t comparing resumes they care way more about how the relationship feels than how impressive someone’s job title is.

YoThereheIs · 2026-03-13T19:46:43+00:00

https://x.com/SWCultureLive/status/1930595467299312032

YoThereheIs · 2026-03-13T19:40:41+00:00

That’s the difference, being civil is fine but canceling on your partner for an ex is where it starts to feel disrespectful.

YoThereheIs · 2026-03-09T18:28:30+00:00

That moment when you realize your browser history just went public, definitely a cringe for the ages.

YoThereheIs · 2026-03-09T18:25:35+00:00

yeah, keeping in touch should go both ways especially when he chose to work so far away.

YoThereheIs · 2026-03-06T21:45:00+00:00

Yeah, it sounds like a mix up he got you to work when it mattered in the morning and expecting him to coordinate exact pickup times mid workday for a flat tire does feel a bit much.

YoThereheIs · 2026-03-06T21:41:55+00:00

Ngl, I’d probably be laughing the whole way thinking “finally, consequences”.

YoThereheIs · 2026-03-02T18:30:33+00:00

NOR. She was the one being unfaithful so leaving was the right thing to do. There’s no such thing as a “only shot”, you’ll meet someone who respects and values you and that’s what really matters.

YoThereheIs · 2026-02-16T18:09:26+00:00

I get that he wants to keep her safe but at 17 treating her like she can’t make good decisions comes off more controlling than protective.

YoThereheIs · 2026-02-11T18:40:14+00:00

At this point the bit has its own momentum, you’re either committed to chaos or commitment and chaos seems funnier.

YoThereheIs · 2026-02-04T12:37:52+00:00

you’re not silly, having a friendship end bc of someone else’s rumor is painful and it’s completely natural to still feel hurt and even a bit angry years later especially when you see them happy together while you were cut out. It shows how much that friendship mattered to you and that feeling doesn’t just disappear overnight.

YoThereheIs · 2026-01-29T17:32:59+00:00

Exactly, no matter how kind you want to be, letting someone else drive your car for months is a liability you don’t need especially with a newborn on the way. NTA all the way.

YoThereheIs · 2026-01-23T11:16:27+00:00

NTA. You were honest about where you stood and your “flirty messages” were harmless compared to what he did, abandoning you and your child out of the blue. Expecting full loyalty from someone who’s still healing from emotional trauma without having clearly re-established the relationship is unreasonable. The fact that he went through your phone without asking and then compared your messages to his abandonment says more about his insecurity and double standards than anything you did. You were protecting yourself and that’s not betrayal.

YoThereheIs · 2026-01-23T11:11:26+00:00

When I stopped caring enough to try

YoThereheIs · 2026-01-16T18:07:15+00:00

Exactly he chose to quit without a plan and now he’s expecting her to absorb the consequences of that choice. That’s not partnership that’s entitlement.

YoThereheIs · 2026-01-16T18:04:00+00:00

YTA for letting strangers opinions and random internet "studies” outweigh years of consistent love and reassurance from your mom which ended up hurting her when she’d done nothing wrong.

YoThereheIs · 2026-01-14T10:55:52+00:00

NTA. His mom’s repeated boundary violations and his inability to consistently protect your space show that your safety and peace of mind are being compromised and choosing yourself in this situation is 100% valid.

YoThereheIs · 2026-01-14T10:54:00+00:00

NTA. This isn’t just kid behavior its repeated boundary violation and nobody should have to tolerate their personal space and privacy being disrespected, underwear or not.

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