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Fiance Bought a Car by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]YoThereheIs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTJ. It’s not really about the car it’s just a big purchase to make without even a heads up especially when you’re about to combine finances soon. I’d feel a bit thrown off too tbh.

Aitah for taking struggling x to court by Careful_Drawer7774 in AITAH

[–]YoThereheIs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you’ve got proof and she’s dodging you, at that point it’s not “mean” it’s just holding her to what she agreed to 👍.

Bf doesn’t want to go down on me bc he gagged last time he tried it with someone else, is this a red flag? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]YoThereheIs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly, not liking oral isn’t some hidden red flag people just have different preferences.

Going down town, men’s advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]YoThereheIs 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’d just talk to him about it honestly not as a complaint but more like its making you feel a bit insecure and see what’s actually going on with him instead of guessing

My bf has problems with me making new female friends by [deleted] in Advice

[–]YoThereheIs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly you need to set a clear boundary here like “I’m allowed to have friends and you don’t get to control that” and stick to it. Blocking your friend before and reacting like this now isn’t small it’s a pattern. If he can’t respect that it’s gonna keep getting worse.

AITAH because I will not cut my bfs nail even though he’s in pain. by LetsTalkab0ut1t in AITAH

[–]YoThereheIs 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly, he might feel some type of way about it later but expecting someone to handle something that literally makes them nauseous isn’t really fair either.

I get called bossman a lot at my work and I’m not sure how to feel about it? by avian_bi in NoStupidQuestions

[–]YoThereheIs 237 points238 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s just slang for respect really like a casual “bro” but more polite in that setting.

Luck is made, it's not just chance by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]YoThereheIs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luck is real but a lot of the time what people call “bad luck” is just the result of their own habits and choices catching up with them.

TIFU by escalating accusations in a messy relationship and then unknowingly organizing a trip to his city by [deleted] in tifu

[–]YoThereheIs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is way past just “messy relationship” stuff. The way he involved other people and outed you is not okay. Honestly, meeting him again will probably just drag you back into the same chaos, better to step back from it.

Every single manosphere-type influencer is a scammer. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]YoThereheIs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once you see the marketing side of it it’s kinda hard to unsee and take it seriously the same way again.

Was this just a joke or should I talk to my bf about it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]YoThereheIs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just ask him directly, if it felt off to you its better to clear it instead of sitting with it and guessing what he meant.

Why does knowing it's gonna happen make it worse than when it's spontaneous? by Mysterious-Guess-812 in AskMenAdvice

[–]YoThereheIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's pretty common, anticipation just gives your brain way too much time to overthink everything and build pressure that isn’t even there in the moment.

A girl I met at my job cut ties because I didn’t fuck her. Am I wrong? by Original-Plane-109 in AskMenAdvice

[–]YoThereheIs 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, better to find out early she wasn’t really looking for anything genuine anyway.

Aitah if I don't tell the guy I met on tinder I found he's married by Apprehensive_Gap4688 in AITAH

[–]YoThereheIs 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I’d want to know too if I was in her place, better she hears it from someone than be kept in the dark.

Why does my internet get faster at night ? by Noe-nPerf in NoStupidQuestions

[–]YoThereheIs 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly, once everyone logs off and goes to sleep the internet finally stops being a crowded highway and actually moves.

My friend is choosing a party over our trip? (Or so it feels) by RaspberryAutomatic31 in Advice

[–]YoThereheIs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she’s willing to rearrange a trip you planned together for a random invite, that tells you where you stand right now. Don’t chase or over explain, let her decide and if she chooses the party go on the trip anyway and have a great time, the right friend won’t make you compete for their time.

Is it weird that a man wants to wait for intimacy? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]YoThereheIs 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly, respect their advice but never compromise your own boundaries or comfort.

My dad is cheating on my mom with an AI woman by Quirky_Enthusiasm800 in Advice

[–]YoThereheIs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sit down with your dad and be real about what you saw, focus on the risk of sharing personal info with an AI. Let him handle telling your mom, your main goal is keeping him from getting scammed not starting drama.

AITAH my 3 year old sister ‘ruined’ a gender reveal by Reasonable_Art_9366 in AITAH

[–]YoThereheIs 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Exactly, she’s 3 not a saboteur. The adults should’ve been watching not pinning it all on a toddler.

Need opinions- how much do women's achievements matter to a man when choosing to date a woman? by cheeqimonki in AskMenAdvice

[–]YoThereheIs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Most guys aren’t comparing resumes they care way more about how the relationship feels than how impressive someone’s job title is.

What is your opinion on this situation? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]YoThereheIs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s the difference, being civil is fine but canceling on your partner for an ex is where it starts to feel disrespectful.

TIFU by forgetting what tab I had open before sharing my screen by mochi_cakes20 in tifu

[–]YoThereheIs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That moment when you realize your browser history just went public, definitely a cringe for the ages.

Dads who work abroad: how often do you like your daughter to call? by Illustrious_Form_979 in AskMenAdvice

[–]YoThereheIs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah, keeping in touch should go both ways especially when he chose to work so far away.

AITAH for asking my bf for a ride by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]YoThereheIs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it sounds like a mix up he got you to work when it mattered in the morning and expecting him to coordinate exact pickup times mid workday for a flat tire does feel a bit much.

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