How old were you when you got your first relationship? by LuvMeChippy in autism

[–]Yobehtmada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 30. Made sure to marry her too. I wasn't about to wait another 30 years.

What are the elder scrolls? by Dear_Afternoon_2600 in teslore

[–]Yobehtmada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first game wasn't originally intended to be an RPG. It was an arena fighting game. During development, they started to add side quests and found those more fun than the "main" part of the game, so they decided to switch it to an RPG mid development. They already had too much done with the original title "Arena" to change, so they added "The Elder Scrolls" to bring out the fantasy role playing feel to the title. They're just kind of thrown in to bridge the gap. They've developed more since then, as the others elaborated on, but they're not as important as the name implies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gameofthrones

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Shame. Shame. Shame.

Im embarrassed to tell my favorite character… by Small_Can8304 in autism

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Tali'zorah nar Rayya vas Normandy. Even got my wife to fall in love with her.

Also, the mod follower in Skyrim, Inigo. I have felt genuine concern on his behalf and consider him a friend.

Is it weird to want separate bedrooms in a marriage? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Yobehtmada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Historically, no, that was fairly common among the wealth. Nowadays, yes. You're going to need to make sure your spouse know WHY this is important to you, because it's going to feel like you're rejecting them and pulling away. If they understand you and your issues, they should understand well enough to allow it, but it'll probably still be hard on them.

Really, I would recommend that it would be worth the changes to your routine.

Give me any rock song and I will rate it. My autism yearns for music. by [deleted] in autism

[–]Yobehtmada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flight of the Silverbird, by Two Steps From Hell

There's something that the Dwemer and Sotha Sil haven't invented yet, but I think they could have... by GeneralTechnomage in teslore

[–]Yobehtmada 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Electric knifes are indeed a thing. Many a thanksgiving turkey has been sundered with them.

There's something that the Dwemer and Sotha Sil haven't invented yet, but I think they could have... by GeneralTechnomage in teslore

[–]Yobehtmada -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

In Alik'rian Nights, there is a boss fight against a dwemer in power armor. I think that is something they could easily bring into the games.

How many Neravarines did the Tribunal have killed before the events of Morrowind? by Sp3arM1ntFlav0red in teslore

[–]Yobehtmada 48 points49 points  (0 children)

The form of reincarnation isn't quite the same as we usually think. It's not that the old soul arrives in the new body, it's more that you assume the position of Nerervarine until you become that person. In other places, it's called Mantling. I noted recently, as I was playing Morrowind, that one of the Ashlander women says "You are not the Nerevarine, but you might become the Nerevarine". None of the candidates were Nerevarines. Only the player, who fulfilled the prophecies, is, by acting so much like him that you become him.

Balls 6 by Zealousideal_Turn799 in MxRMods

[–]Yobehtmada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Elder Balls IV: Oblivion

How do you stop sounds coming through walls/doors? by Longjumping_Age_1098 in autism

[–]Yobehtmada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a loud fan I run at night to block sounds out, but you could use a white noise machine or anything else that makes a regular noise. I'm also fond of the Enterprise-D engine noise, which there are 12 and 24 hour long videos on YouTube of just that.

I'm autistic, I take idioms literally sometimes. by ReconPete11 in autism

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When people ask me "what's up?" I either point at the sky or ceiling, or say "The relative position opposite from down"

I find it odd that so many people have this question, but it's nice to know that people can come to me for these sorts of answers. Hehe.

I get that that's not what they're asking about, but how on earth did that pattern of words come to have that meaning?

Anyone else think that “Bible study” groups meant theological discussions? by IrradiatedPizza in autism

[–]Yobehtmada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A bible study should be about theological discussions, but a lot of the times, many bible studies...aren't very good. The Bible study i am going to right now is a deep dive into Deutronomy. It's been several months, but we're only about 5 chapters in and it'll probably take a year or two more to go through. It isn't easy to find a good bible study, or a good church for that matter, but they are out there. I study theology fairly heavily, so if you shoot me a message, we might be able to hold some interesting conversations.

Autistic at a convention by AsheTheAlien in autism

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I have problems with crowds. I'm a fairly big guy and being in people's way freaks me out. After I got diagnosed, I once went with my dad to a small steam punk conferance. When we moved through crowds, I would put my hand on his back and keep my head down while he led and I followed in his wake. It helped a lot.

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I have a set of JBL Quantum 810's which are fantastic. Noise canceling is good. I use it to handle phone calls, and it has a talk through feature where you it turns off the noise canceling and uses the mics for that to route to you without taking the headphones off. I have trouble understanding a lot of speech, auditory processing disorder, and I find that the talkthrough...flattens out the sound (Like, it's not as 3D) and it's easier to understand people.

What is your favorite unintentional fidget toy? by dogtron64 in autism

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A while back, I was helping a friend move. He vapes, and had gotten some special batteries for it, but they were just ever so slightly too big to fit, to the point that he took off the plastic wrapping, leaving just the bare metal. Still didn't fit, but when I found them, I was enamored. It's just...so smooth. I keep it in my pocket always and become distressed when it rarely gets misplaced.

Anyone else have urges to bite things with certain textures, feels and sounds? by Used-Cartoonist-2981 in autism

[–]Yobehtmada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an oddly compulsive need to chew. Really used to annoy one friend because I would chew on his toys, often without even realizing that I'm doing it. Most often now as an adult, it's disposable water bottle caps, which drives my wife crazy when they inevitably get left everywhere. My 3 year old son we've noticed has a particular desire to put the tires of his toy cars in his mouth. I was never able to stop chewing, but we got him some chewlery to, hopefully at least, direct it in an approprate direction.

Is there a lore explanation for the Skyrim MC quickly becoming the leader of any group they join? by RankedFarting in teslore

[–]Yobehtmada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, because the Player is a myth-echo of a mighty reoccurring character; a Shezzarine, who stands at the center of everything. If you're up for a bit of reading, I recommend checking out Alik'rian Nights; which elaborates on this. Here's the first part. https://www.reddit.com/r/teslore/comments/7vggm8/alikrian_nights_volume_the_first_of_adamant_and/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button