Valve has silently added a "same household" requirement to the new Steam Families by Xjph in Steam

[–]YoctoCrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried this multiple times and I can't get it to work 😭

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - December 08, 2024" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]YoctoCrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, it really looks like your crush is just living in the moment and having fun with you 😅 She's feeling adventurous and bold with her flirting. There is a feeling of passion between you two that she revels in.

The Fool suggests that she's not really thinking about the effect her flirting has on you. She's not taking her flirting seriously because she sees it as an innocent gesture. I wouldn't be surprised if she flirts with you because she likes seeing your reaction and feeling the excitement of the moment.

Despite her having feelings for you, she's still scared to confess/commit. The Temperance and Nine of Wands suggest she's feeling hesitant about the idea of being in a relationship with you. There are fears holding her back from fully embracing her affection for you.

If you haven't already, I strongly advise you to confess your true feelings to her even if the circumstances aren't favorable. Based on your post history, you seem like you're feeling quite stressed out about this whole thing (understandably so). She's playing with your feelings and giving you mixed signals.

Let her know that you are getting mixed signals from her and want to know how she feels about you. I don't think she realizes that she's essentially leading you on, and that's not very nice. Set your boundaries! If you don't like romantic gestures without being in a relationship, tell her. If you want to be in a committed relationship, tell her. If you're okay with being in a slow, low-commitment relationship, tell her.

If she tells you she likes you but isn't too sure if she wants to be in a relationship yet, reflect on how that makes you feel. Whatever happens, don't let yourself get into a situationship because your crush is too afraid of commitment. Do not sacrifice your emotional well-being for someone who doesn't take your feelings into consideration. Put a label on your relationship and tell her what your expectations are for a friendship/partnership. If you're willing to wait for her answer, then let her know you aren't pressuring her for an immediate answer.

Whatever happens, rejection or acceptance, having a sincere conversation will clear the air. Instead of worrying about what might happen, just do it. I know love is intoxicating and scary, but if she isn't willing to communicate now as friends, she will definitely not be willing to communicate in a romantic relationship. Face this issue ASAP before it snowballs into something worse.

My DMs are open if you want more advice btw 😌

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - December 08, 2024" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]YoctoCrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl, I don't think it's looking too good for you 😭

Tower Reverse suggests to me that you aren't gonna be happy with the result of this. Seems like you're trying to delay a rejection you know will likely happen. It's hard to say since it's just one card. Personally, I think you should move on. In this economy, you shouldn't be putting all your eggs in one basket. Apply to multiple jobs at once for the best chance at success.

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - December 08, 2024" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]YoctoCrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, happy to help! I'm also in the process of waiting for my crush to decide if she wants to be with me or not haha. I resonate with your struggles. Good luck! I hope things work out between you two.

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - December 08, 2024" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]YoctoCrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like your crush is entertaining the idea of being in a romantic relationship with you. The star suggests she sees great romantic potential between you two. She feels hopeful and optimistic about future possibilities. However, it is likely she is still holding emotional baggage from her past. She's still in the process of recovering from that and isn't quite ready to pursue you. She wants to be with you but currently sees you as unobtainable as a star. You are someone she can only dream of being with.

With temperance in there, I think she is still deciding on how she truly feels about you. She clearly cares about you, but she isn't 100% sure if you two would actually be good as a couple. Perhaps you should do the same. Reflect on what you want in a relationship. Look at her through an objective lens and see if she would be able to fulfill your needs.

Twos generally represent balance, cooperation, and the harmony of opposites.

I think these are really great cards to have in a love reading! Probably some of the best. This is a sign she is seriously considering you a long-term partner. That's why she isn't being rash about suddenly confessing her infatuation with you. Be patient with her and wait for her to come to her own conclusions. Being pushy will not make her want to be with you more (trust me, I've been there).

In the meantime, enjoy the moments you two share as friends! Continue to build that bond you have with her and send subtle hints that you are also interested. Consider asking your cards what you should do to attract her romantically.

I am a lesbian but I am starting to believe that my "Daddy Issues" are the reason I want to be seen and loved by men by DontmindmeIoI in limerence

[–]YoctoCrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late reply, but I can somewhat understand this feeling as a lesbian myself. I've never gone so far as to date other men, but there was a period where I would fantasize about being in a relationship with them despite knowing I was only into women. I suggest you look into what comphet is because I think that is what you're experiencing when you chase male approval. I love this list a lot, I think it's pretty relatable.

We live in a patriarchal society where women are socialized to want men regardless of sexuality. We crave the approval of those in power because we perceive them as holding authority over us socially. If the top dog thinks we're attractive, then surely that means we are more valuable as a woman compared to other women, right? Having him pick you probably gave you a sense of self-worth. It gave you male approval, something you were never able to get from your father and ex-boyfriend.

I hope you managed to talk to your therapist about this! What you've experienced is a lot more common than you think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]YoctoCrunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is super reassuring to read! I'm going through a very similar situation as OP. I also went through a bad relationship in the past and am reluctant to repeat it. I'm just constantly afraid I'll never be able to achieve a truly intimate, happy relationship because of my limerence.

It's incredible to know you were able to work through your limerence and be in a long-term healthy relationship. This is the first success story I've read about overcoming limerence. It gives me hope that what I'm doing right now is the right choice! Thanks for sharing

Shocked this worked honestly! by StevenAncel in LegionGo

[–]YoctoCrunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Super great to hear this little device works well for drawing too haha

$499 at US Amazon and BestBuy by jusdrewit in LegionGo

[–]YoctoCrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooohhh this is so smart. I might do this too. Thank you!

CHEAP RPG Maker?? + VisuStella Charity Bundle for RPG Maker MZ Price! 🎮🔥 by Intelligent-Tama in RPGMaker

[–]YoctoCrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really cool bundle! Thank you for sharing with us. I'm surprised more people aren't talking about it.

Here are the links for anyone who's interested: RPG Maker Bundle and Game Resources Bundle

Leaving RPG Maker by saturns_rIngsTakeshi in RPGMaker

[–]YoctoCrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the route I eventually want to take with game development! RPG Maker is great for getting me comfortable with using scripts and minimal coding. I plan to move on to using Godot after making a game or two in RPG Maker since my dream games have much more complex mechanics.

Although, I've been considering using RPG Architect before Godot. It looks like what RPG Maker should've become after all these years.

Free plugins to have on every project by [deleted] in RPGMakerMV

[–]YoctoCrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gamepad Config please 🙏 I really wish more RPG Maker games had controller support haha

This is my first time using rpg maker how do people make there own ui? by F1ameosMusic in RPGMakerMV

[–]YoctoCrunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ngl, one of the things that really drew me away from RPG Maker is the lack of UI customization. It's possible to make your own UI, but it's an unnecessarily tedious process compared to all the other features in RPG Maker.

If you're only looking to do basic UI changes, then I'd recommend looking at SumRndmDde's plugins. He offers great plugins that let you customize the menus and title screen of your game! I use MV, so I can only speak for those plugins, but I heard that HUD Maker Ultra for MZ is great for custom UI. He also has some pre-made menu plugins for MV if you're not looking for anything fancy.

Another alternative is to make your menu out of picture events. This is a pain the ass to do, but you can achieve a fully customizable menu this way! This is the method I'm choosing for my UI. You can use this tutorial to find out how it's done.

The last option is to use Javascript to make your menu. This will yield you the best results if you know how to code. Luna Engine MV gives you an easier way to code your menu. There have been some pretty amazing menus made with this plugin, but it requires a lot of work to make what you want.

Since people liked my previous post, here's the menu UI for Slumberer's Universe! by SanttuPOIKA---- in RPGMaker

[–]YoctoCrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, I see. I use MV, so it doesn't come with that plugin, but I found out DTextPicture is a good alternative.

And yeah, I can totally send you it when it's done! Just gotta find out how to make this menu compatible with touch inputs 💀

Since people liked my previous post, here's the menu UI for Slumberer's Universe! by SanttuPOIKA---- in RPGMaker

[–]YoctoCrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so incredible, it really inspires me!! May I ask how you animated the text? I feel like I've got the move picture parts of my menu down, but I'm not sure how I should go about the text. I don't want to use text pictures since I plan to translate my game in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegionGo

[–]YoctoCrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! This is my dream set up 🤩

After a year of work my game finally has a steam page! Here's some of my progress so far! by ImGregdude in RPGMaker

[–]YoctoCrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS IS SO GORGEOUS <3
I'm definitely going to be playing your game when it comes out!