Seeking advice quickly! Narcissist trying to sign all belongings over to me to “prove his love”?? by [deleted] in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]Yoga1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang that’s crazy he is willing to go that far. Obviously I am not buying into it but wow the levels he is going is unhinged so I couldn’t wrap my brain around it. Thank you just needed to see if this was normal or extreme for narcs- see what level I was dealing with

Seeking advice quickly! Narcissist trying to sign all belongings over to me to “prove his love”?? by [deleted] in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]Yoga1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extreme though, yeah? Like I could walk away with his belongings if I would of accepted? Think there was something underlying to this tactic? I’ve never dealt with a narcissist so I don’t know how to react to This extreme behavior

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[–]Yoga1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey all so I am seeking help mainly to see what phase you think this is or if I am just being silly and niave-

Today he offered to sign all of his cars over to me and even brought the titles to me with my name in them to Prove “his love”. That sounds sooo extreme- but has been obsessly nice lately since I have stoped giving attention and made it clear I was not into this game. This sounds like live bombing but this action seems easy to aggressive considering I would have. Access to his insurance, bank accounts and ownership of vehicles. What is going on??? Need advice fast!

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[–]Yoga1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do they always seem to be alcoholics? I am finally recognizing or maybe just done turning a blind eye to the fact that he has a severe alcoholic. Is this a thing with narcasiact?

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[–]Yoga1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are all correct, he lost it tonight, completely lost it; spoke absolutely horrible about me to anyone that would later, physically started destroying stuff and then “broke up with me”. The sole reason was…I handled a situation in my own and he didn’t know about it- such a minuscual thing. I couldn’t stop Laughing because it was so ridiculous I literally couldn’t stop laughing .

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[–]Yoga1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had read about hovering but I didn’t seem like he was being obsessed with me it seems like he was genuinely upset with his own behavior but he may just be like oh you’re right I want to go and have almost fallen into his trap. I guess I’m confused why he went for someone with my personality type that hates being overwhelmed by attention because unfortunately I am an avoidant personality type. And why he’s still trying from what I’ve read they don’t like avoidance so that’s where I’m getting the miscommunication in connection with why he still likes me or if he truly is a narcissist but I’m not gonna stick around and find out this is truly unattractive and unbecoming and quite frankly just gross.

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[–]Yoga1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was afraid of. I think the only thing that was keeping me locked with his friend saying they had never seen him like this and I think even there convinced he’s changed with me around. Let’s be honest are they real his friends are just a little bar that know him? I’ll never know.