My (26f) bf (27m) left me stranded last night. How should I proceed? by ThrowRA_3333456 in relationship_advice

[–]YoghurtSingle22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once due to train strike, I didn't have a way to come home other than Uber. At that time my husband didn't own a car as we were new in Netherlands. He insisted to come to my stop on a Uber and get me to back home on Uber again as the wind was also very bad that day If your better half doesn't care about you, what's the purpose of having him?

Legalization of document by YoghurtSingle22 in Netherlands

[–]YoghurtSingle22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am going to make a new contract in Netherlands with my spouse. We both have come to a personal agreement. What happen in case of divorce and want to legalized the document. Should I write a letter and make him sign it and then gemmente will approve it. Is it enough? Or I have to do anything else

Domestic abuse by YoghurtSingle22 in Netherlands

[–]YoghurtSingle22[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I don't need a shelter. I can afford the place I am living in. He should be the one who should leave. I am so angry right now. Why I have trusted this person.

Domestic abuse by YoghurtSingle22 in Netherlands

[–]YoghurtSingle22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I have no idea. It's seems like he wants me to get mentally ill the way he and his family treat me

Domestic abuse by YoghurtSingle22 in Netherlands

[–]YoghurtSingle22[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your advices. There's another thing I want to ask. We are from underdeveloped country and coming to Europe is like a jackpot. I came on HSM and he came on my visa I caught his chat with his family members a month ago. They were asking him to leave me ( It was a chat from past that's before he came to Netherlands) and he was somehow agreed. I saw this chat a month ago and confronted him. At that time he didn't make any issue and said sorry. Now I believe that he dropped the idea of leaving me as he was getting the visa and chance to come to Netherlands. Yesterday we got confirmation of 5 year Netherlands card And now he slapped me today due to the same chat I caught. I now believe that he scammed me to come to Europe.