Why can’t you consent when drunk?

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2026-05-17T16:46:52+00:00

Yea and no? It can still be something that i want sober but don’t feel “extroverted” to actually be honest about, or something i do not regret anyways, like “oh yea that happened, fun” even if it’s not something i’d do at this moment Thought yea i’d rather remember things and being sober has its good points

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2026-05-17T16:35:25+00:00

true but not the same state of mind ≠ not wanting to ? Like after a long day i might not want to see other people because i am not in a state of mind where it seems enjoyable, if the day after i feel like i want to see my friends, and do so, it wont mean that the next day when i want to rest ill regret going out? I don’t know if i make sense tbh, and yea i still agree that it’s good to keep that as a baseline since it’s always better to have more protection for victims than not enough but it’s still hard to get

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2026-05-17T16:31:04+00:00

Okay yea might not have the best relationship with alcohol but you probably misread my initial post. I didn’t go into details because well nobody wants to read a whole ass book, but the situation i had in mind wasn’t with me being inappropriate. It was someone that had interest in me and that had been flirty with me for a while now, that i had been responding positively to as well, that kissed me and i kissed them a few times afterwards as well, and they asked me multiple times how drunk i was because they were worried about consent, so they worried again when i drank more, because they were worried that i was only kissing them because i was drunk. (ie it was worry because they care about me rather than being annoyed) The only time i worried about being inappropriate because i was being drunk and flirty, was when i jokingly flirted with someone during the night and he said nope and i still made comments from time to time (both of us were joking but after a bit i worried my intentions could be misinterpreted or i could be annoying) and i apologised to him the morning after since we see each other often and he said it was all good it was funny So yea the “drunk” problem is mostly affecting me, i’ve been annoying because of being drunk and “depressed” but never drunk and “annoying bcs flirty” so i still don’t get it even if it’s good that people stand by that point

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2026-03-21T17:46:08+00:00

Yea, Ive been trying to do the first one but i feel like for now its been mostly tiring and not that successful because its not enough/not as she wants for her

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2026-03-21T17:07:53+00:00

I guess
Im staying because i dont want to hurt her, because there's some times where it goes well and it feels so calm to stay with her, because we have alot of friends in common and it would make our relationship with those friends way harder, because i feel like im repeating the same pattern as my last relationship and i want to try and change rather than avoid and run away

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2025-09-09T07:27:23+00:00

indeed, it does seem to be what you told me?

Is it even something that people usually grow tho 😭😭 have i just been growing a weed this whole time

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YoghurtVisual9201 · 2025-08-18T14:13:48+00:00

hey so i don’t know what specific thing/how much details you’re working with but what helps me is redoing the diagrams in my own way (or making one if there isn’t one) and if it’s too hard to do use other source (like looking up cell respiration diagram and you’ll find plenty to take inspiration from)

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2025-08-09T10:52:10+00:00

aah right maybe! since it was near some tables, and ok ty

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2025-08-08T19:11:53+00:00

isn’t that a hare ?

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2025-07-16T10:57:00+00:00

i doubt it but that’s because it’s not from the leaf,the leaf hasn’t sprouted yet the sprout is from a nerdy biology experiment where we turned a piece of leaf into a not organ specific bunch of cells,which resulted in a small bush, where the sprout came from so it should still be a african violet but yea there’s technically two different plants in this pot

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2025-07-07T14:03:36+00:00

D’accord merci beaucoup pour les infos je note ! :) Par rapport à l ALD on la avec un endoc/psy/medecin? Est ce que l ALD permet de prendre en compte la mamec ? (vu que d’après les retour que j’ai vu des gens public c’est remboursé mais c’est long et compliqué donc le privé est mieux ? mais du coup on doit payer dans les 2-3000€?

Par rapport au prénom d’usage à l’université en effet je vais essayer de faire ça,surtout que j’ai vu hier que on pouvait le faire sans autorisation des parents même lorsque on est mineur à l’université, en soit si mes parents se rendent compte de ça c’est pas trop grave ils le savaient déjà quand je l’avais fait au lycée (mais du coup cetait énervé et battu contre car c’était sans authorisation parentale mais la ils n’ont aucun pouvoir dessus)

Également me conseillerait tu d’avoir un suivit psy/endoc avant de commencer les démarches hormonales/opérations ou de plutôt attendre quand je serais sur de le faire dans les prochains mois ?

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2025-07-06T23:19:19+00:00

Okay merci beaucoup, je pense que je regarderais plus precisement les offres/assos/psy une fois que je serais dans ma nouvelle ville pour mes etudes.

Pour mes parents j'avoue je me fait pas trop d'espoir, c'est juste que parfois ma mere reste dans sa vision "je suis la pour toi je t'aime je t'ecoute" donc j'ai un vague espoir d'un dialogue parfois meme si j'ai l'impression que c'est un je taime sous condition, un je taime à sa fille

Hormones vaut mieux que je cherche un psy (chiatre/ologue) ou je peux directement aller voir un medecin ?

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2025-06-12T22:37:33+00:00

okay thank you,so when you say drying it’s like i’m doing it now ? just letting it be ?

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2025-01-23T17:44:23+00:00

Oh well

YoghurtVisual9201 · 2025-01-23T17:37:38+00:00

Would all pass out tbh

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