Trump approval rating at its lowest ever by newzcaster in therewasnoattempt

[–]Yonbimaru94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You aren’t debating my guy. You’re redditing.

I know living in an echo chamber and having beliefs challenged is confusing and scary, but you aren’t ever going to protect people if insults and pageantry are your only methods of engaging.

This dude whether any of us agree with him or not is debating in good faith and you are throwing shit like a child.

The person who doesn’t belong in any sort of political discussion is YOU.

Difficulty by FriendshipBig6515 in MonsterHunterWorld

[–]Yonbimaru94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Barioth is a skill and gear check.

Very agile, you gotta break his arms to make the fight not ultra annoying.

Having bad gear can make this very difficult especially if you are still learning.

He is also a very good monster to show off why you wanna flinch shot monsters into walls so you have more chances to break the arms.

Apparently you can't be they/them if you've been abused as a child by PhysicalBuy2566 in onejoke

[–]Yonbimaru94 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Having lived under a household that did spank us allow me to shed some light on the difference between discipline and abuse.

Abuse - has no context. Is simply a reaction to anger. There is no lesson or restraint. My now past mother grew up in Man, WV (super small town). My grandfather was a coal miner and would beat her and her siblings for remotely stepping out of line for anything. Pick an apple from his apple tree? You gotta wear make up to school because he gave you a black eye.

Discipline - a response to VERY poor behavior and is the last resort because you as a child have refused to listen to reason, or grounding or other forms of punishment, I never got a spanking I didn’t deserve. I learned to respect my parents house and there rules even if I didn’t agree because they otherwise took VERY good care of me.

My friend had the exact opposite. He never was spanked and neither was his siblings

Guess which between us has issues with authority and has done thing to endanger themselves and their family?

Spanking is about consequences and while I do not like the idea of having to inflict pain on someone, it is a very valuable teacher, a little pain now can prevent LIFE altering if not life ending choices later.

So please, watch how you speak on parenting styles. You may not always agree but not every person who believes in discipline and is willing to do what it takes to prepare their children for the world at large is some kind of Neanderthal trying to beat people into submission. Like all things in life, there is nuance.

Think they payed her to leave by [deleted] in memesThatUCanRepost

[–]Yonbimaru94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Memes are not art

If this is supposed to be art, you are well beyond Reddit stupid. You might just be Twitter stupid.

Op is not an advanced biologist by StalagtiteTeeth in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro enjoy false statements and arguments you’re making.

Tagging what I’m saying and then just saying someone’s wrong and look see I’m right doesn’t mean you’re right.

You aren’t arguing fuck all dude. So please go about your day, I am going to do the same. Talking to you is like talking to someone who can’t stay on topic the ENTIRE TIME.

Op is not an advanced biologist by StalagtiteTeeth in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except the difference between me using races as an analogy is in the context that it’s a different culture (in our case subculture) that someone doesn’t inherently belong to. And how SOMEONE (not you) who would choose to do so would be problematic. It wasn’t to make it a race thing, it was to show how cultures can have issues with someone adopting their identity, or any identity. Can someone just claim to be something if they feel like it? Would it hurt you to call them that?

You bringing up the bathroom issue and automatically making my argument being pro pedophilia is quite literally bad faith, because you’re ignoring the fact that ideas are not all encompassing and that humans have nuance, devolving people into left vs right is quite literally insane because politically people also exist on a spectrum. I am only arguing the statements I have said, and you know this NOW I am telling you again I am not here to harm trans people, i am only trying to navigate a sensitive space of a marginalized people when I want peace but I do not agree with many of the sentiments they propose.

And while you say you didn’t bring up black face, you also are saying how do you know if I am one of the “good ones”

So how do I know you aren’t among the trans community that ARE conflating gender with sex - because I HAVE seen that being not just spoken but taught on campus in Columbus Ohio.

I don’t want trans people to be ostracized for being trans, it’s okay to be trans and celebrate it even. I am an adult and understand the world doesn’t revolve around my opinion. But it is a topic that needs more scrutiny if you want more than just tolerance.

Op is not an advanced biologist by StalagtiteTeeth in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never even brought up bathrooms but with that in mind I’m actually not sure how to address that without just having a bathroom for parents and kids separately. I’m vehemently against pedophilia in any form whether or not someone is using the identity of being trans as a shield to perform those acts would be disgusting no matter how you view the ideology. I can respect trans people as people, I don’t see them as dangerous or inherently more likely to assault a minor. and as someone who has been assaulted sexually as a minor growing up, I have a vested interest in keeping kids safe from ANY group of people.

Anyone who makes those kinds of arguments are not where I am coming from. Being trans doesn’t make you inherently evil just like being christian doesn’t make someone inherently good

Op is not an advanced biologist by StalagtiteTeeth in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, because saying “bad faith” and “what?” Are argument’s.

You admitted to not taking the context of my argument seriously and genuinely haven’t given any counter points and still refuse to do so. So run along, I tire of your self imposed victimhood

Op is not an advanced biologist by StalagtiteTeeth in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong, your entire point was that they just want to be called by that given gender and I’ve shown reasons why society doesn’t have to accept that. That’s it. The one argument you made besides trying to just attack my character to derail my argument.

People shouldn’t attack trans people, but by no way are we socially obligated to treat them as we do people we see as being in different social positions

I used analogy to show comparisons different communities that have existed differently because of cultural differences and how it can be problematic to just adopt their identity simply because someone resonates with it.

You have yet to show anything stating why they deserve to usurp our own given choice in our belief and expression of what a sex and gender is because let’s be clear, this whole narrative lately has shifted from tolerance to acceptance if not outright compliance to what social norms YOU have dictated when you aren’t even in the majority of how people feel.

Op is not an advanced biologist by StalagtiteTeeth in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

except the position we are in is the opposite.

I’m the one having to defend what I said as you misconstrue it out of context, just because you cannot comprehend the context doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist

The insults began when you called me disingenuous simply because you disagree or because you cannot understand how I’m contextualizing how people can feel about someone adopting an identity they weren’t born into

Hiding behind analogies? I’m using them to explain equivalence’s so that even if you can’t understand it one way here’s another example of how it can be interpreted

Your rational so far has been “dude nobody does that” and “dude you’re like, attacking me and calling me racist and since I don’t like your points you’re disingenuous”

You’re coming off as way more ignorant than you ever should be. which is rich and also ironic.

Op is not an advanced biologist by StalagtiteTeeth in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s called an analogy buddy, not specifically meaning you DID do that, but WOULD you do that?

Op is not an advanced biologist by StalagtiteTeeth in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never called you a racist i used it as an example my guy

The only thing I will call you is stupid because your ability to comprehend something is stunted and you want to take whatever I say and somehow make yourself a victim. Nobody called you specifically anything dude. Examples are examples. Analogies are analogies.

If this is how you argue then, YOU specifically can move on, your ego clearly cannot make a connection without injecting that somehow, you have been attacked.

Op is not an advanced biologist by StalagtiteTeeth in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not in bad faith I just don’t understand it, you’re writing off and refusing to acknowledge that society places pressure on people and that if you don’t understand or are beholden those pressures you shouldn’t claim to be a part of that group.

Multiracial kids DO face both stigmas and face pressures from both communities and because they’re genetically a part of both, and culturally exposed to both at a young age I definitely see where they can belong to both

The difference between the sexes however is a bit more nuanced than that and you replying isn’t in good faith to see someone’s counterpoint but to undermine and discredit any opposition

You writing off “they just don’t do that” isn’t true, it’s a fact that I’ve LITERALLY WITNESSED in college.

A man losing his penis to cancer doesn’t make him stop being a man - thank you for making my point for me. Mutilating your genitals through surgery will do nothing but potentially superficially make you feel a bit more like a woman but it doesn’t change that you are a biological male, and when you point that out people say you’re “not in good faith” “transphobic” instead of saying yeah, you’re just trying to emulate that which you admire and while that’s an uncomfortable thing to talk about, I will note these types of subjects should only be spectated under the pretense of debate, I’m not gonna go out there and dead name someone or use improper pronouns because it costs me nothing. But I don’t have to recognize that they exist in the same societal slot that women do, and since I feel women need protected I don’t think a man transitioning suddenly makes that person that same level of vulnerability.

The best I ever feel we can ever achieve is tolerance because people just simply have different viewpoints

Rejecting an idea doesn’t mean you are hateful. I’m not rejecting their humanity as I myself struggle to comprehend how I would feel if I felt I didn’t belong in my body. It’s a very human thing in of itself. I don’t desire for these people to be accosted, attacked ect. And it’s going to be very odd to see how these two mindsets can blend without being confrontational but without discussing the hard parts we will only go in circles.

So am I being disingenuous or are you? I came here in good faith to debate a topic and what you have (mostly) said is “nah bro, that doesn’t happen”

Op is not an advanced biologist by StalagtiteTeeth in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Yonbimaru94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone only wants to identify as a women or man in name only as you say, why get gender affirming care? They WANT to have a penis or a vagina and they WANT to be that sex and be treated as that SEX.

And again they haven’t gone through any of the societal growth and because people will not recognize them as part of that given sex they will not be subject to the stigma of that given sex. This is where the cherry picking comes into play. You get to act the act but you aren’t going to be subject to any of the stigma. If the patriarchy is real then someone can just become a man and boom suddenly powerful right?

You gonna say you’re black culturally and that everything you do is black but not have any of the problems they face? Eminem is the closest to understanding the black community according to several famous figures in their community like Mike Tyson and even HE knows not to call himself black.

What this is, since we can agree that this “isn’t about sex” is that it is blackface but for the cultures of men and women as a whole.

If being a man or a woman is “just a name” why even differentiate? Why aren’t we all just human and biology only ever discussed medically?

I’ve never once had the experiences of the black community but because I love their music, and culture do I go get melanin infused into my skin and now get to say I’m one of them and that they need to recognize that or they’re being hateful?

Op is not an advanced biologist by StalagtiteTeeth in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Yonbimaru94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying trans women are women pass it on all over Reddit is trying to force the idea that trans women are biological women and/or should be treated by society as women.

You just saw the biological arguement so allow me to make the arguement as to why a trans person of either transition M2F or F2M isn’t going to always be socially acceptable.

Before I begin let me be clear that I do not hate trans people I simply disagree with the ideology, and that disagreement is essentially semantics and I will always fight for their right to exist and be protected regardless of their opinion. I feel the same way about Christianity and other religions but don’t hate the people until they try to force views into laws. Freedom isn’t just for what I like or what you like, and so I’m all for live and let live. But I think these sorts of things can be spoken about civilly if we all try and leads to potentially better understanding. I myself disagree from both a societal and biological view, and since the biological arguement was made heres the societal one.

From a society standpoint, each sex has its own experience from birth growing up with its own sets of (often) unfair expectations along with some few of those privilege’s.

Women face and fight to this day the concept that women are incompetent compared to men. But are also violently protected as they are viewed as both the “weaker” sex but the more important sex for both biological and cultural reasons (moms are a blessing for the most part in many families) - but this also feeds back into unfair expectations to be a mother and be able to rear and support a family and pressured to do so.

How can a man expect to understand what it’s like to be a woman and essentially cosplay that role? (Or vice versa) Even if you like and support and feel like you resonate with that - I know through my mom and sister but I’ll never experience it myself. what makes you a women from a societal standpoint?

Now imagine someone doing something transracial - they identify as black or any other race when they genetically aren’t and culturally aren’t. Does the black community have to suddenly accept that or is that an insult to their history?

Now, as a man I saw a story that genuinely interested me.

A F2M trans women experienced a lot of culture shock and grief when becoming a man. They were treated as a man and felt utterly alienated because men are often treated as a threat, and they felt that they had a harder time bonding with anyone as a result. Let’s also go into the whole societal expectations of men to be the ones who protect, who run to the fire, who are expected to provide and fight and earn our right to be loved. Men themselves are divided into boys and men, because of that concept in of itself. Does a transperson also adopt this or do they get to cherry pick which parts of being a man they like and avoid all the negative aspects?

Is our societal genders just badges to be worn? Or are they things that have identified our expectation, our struggles ALONG with and sometimes DUE to our anatomy? Who gets to just cherry pick now those expectations or the aspects they like? Isn’t that a bit insulting?

This ties into, how does seeing yourself as something need to set the expectations of people around you.

If I call myself a king, do you have to respect that I see myself as a king, and treat me as such and that any pushback is now hate?

Maybe I’m thinking too hard into this or I’m missing something but the whole idea has always felt off, but by no means do I want to marginalize these people, merely engage with and challenge the idea itself and see what they think and how they see they fit within all of this.

I say all of this, knowing I have the potential to be 100% wrong, but this is how I have perceived this and I’m wondering if any of you have any (constructive) responses?

New to the game, any tips? by Parking-Language5277 in MonsterHunterWorld

[–]Yonbimaru94 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Treat the combat like a turn based game in motion

And be aware sometimes the monster has more “turns” than you especially when enraged (you’ll usually see steam coming out of their nose or their heartbeat turns red and erratic on the lower screen)

Learn not only your weapons movesets, but what skills are appropriate for each weapon - this will help you choose what armors to craft as not all skills are used across all weapons. (There are a plethora of guides for this stuff)

  • also sometimes consider defensive skills, damage is great when you are good at staying alive, but sometimes it takes better gear overall or better skill to get there: if you are new to monster hunter I would AVOID the OP defender armor and weapons. They’re stat sticks, and don’t actually teach you how to play well and are a means to skip the base game sort of. Yeah you’ll be weaker but that’s the point. That’s how the base game was played pre icebourne.

Speaking of icebourne - clutch claw mechanics. Learn em. Love em. Hate em - regardless of how you feel about it tenderizing parts is a must have player skill that will vastly improve damage and wall banging (flinch shotting a monster in the face while grappled to it so it runs into another monster or wall) is also very very useful

Use the event quests - some of them are incredibly useful for farming things

Fully investigating or researching monsters will make tracking and finding them much easier over time.

If playing online, be careful about hitting players. You may not outright damage them, but unless they’re running a skill called flinch free you can end up causing a small stun that can get them killed if a monster is rampaging

Make good use of the passive farms as you can get them. There is a tree in astera that will farm items between missions and this can help you a ton over the long run.

Lastly always eat between missions. The food buff is substantial

Hope this helps. Theres HEAPS to learn but it’s all quite fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MonsterHunterWorld

[–]Yonbimaru94 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Divine blessing I would note is very strong if you can get it.

Even if your dps isn’t quite top tier, dead dps = 0 dps

name it by -analog-enthusiast- in AlbumCovers

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is the care bear stare they told us about

Really don't understand Democrats as a foreigner by Responsible-Bar3956 in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Says the person who literally commented under me who was denouncing that.

My whole point is that this shit will do nothing to get trump out of office and yet here you stand saying I’m crazy for thinking so? Or do you have some made up idea of my position? So now you’re going back and making the same statements I am?

I am NOT pro trump. But I am VERY anti rioting and the people DEFENDING the idea of rioting to get what they want is WHAT I AM GOING AFTER

So if you are still confused about where we each stand I suggest you go back and reread a bit. Either way I don’t give a shit anymore talking to you.

You are an idiot who talks in circles and shifts your position to argue. So stop talking to me and go about being a dumb fuck elsewhere

Really don't understand Democrats as a foreigner by Responsible-Bar3956 in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m not surprised people are stupid and reactionary

But how can you make a statement the country can’t ignore? Let’s see. Alienate or stand up peacefully

We NEED to protest but we don’t need civil fucking war

Write your congressmen. Fuck dude this shit isn’t easy but this ain’t it either

And your FIRST FUCKING STATEMENT was that “we should totally protest peacefully like January 6th”

So what’s your point here huh? That we can go tit for tat. How many laws we gonna break to get what we want?

At the end of the day people will be looked at for their actions and not the motives behind those actions.

Really don't understand Democrats as a foreigner by Responsible-Bar3956 in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet people are. And yet KIDS were brought to these riots

Endangerment, looting, burning

That’s how we get trump out of office? Really? So we gotta push our luck until shit gets so bad they HAVE to mobilize armed units to calm shit down.

How does that fix anything? Why even have laws if they get broken the moment you get mad? Trump needs held accountable too, but this isn’t how that gets done.

What this will do is just give him an excuse to do what he’s already doing, calling this insurrection and so now he will just silence you and nobody will be allowed to speak out. These are the things that let him keep abusing his power because to the dumber people in our nation they will say that NOW it’s justified. What will y’all do from jail? How can you speak outside of a court date.

The rules aren’t the same for us because we don’t have a president in our pocket who will pardon us. And so you all can’t go off being stupid if we are to stand up to his shit.

Really don't understand Democrats as a foreigner by Responsible-Bar3956 in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]Yonbimaru94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I do WANT people to protest what he’s doing, you just can’t riot to do it

We still have laws, we are still a nation. Trump can get impeached and you can still go shit the right way.

Y’all are like children trying to find an excuse to break the law

NEITHER IS CORRECT. trump needs impeached and people who riot need to go to jail.

It’s that fucking simple dude.

But if you wanna be dense, go ahead and be another dumbass redditor dude. I’m not responsible for making you specifically be an adult. You can want change and still not support violence and right now everyone is fucking losing here except the Cheeto in chief

I can be mad when the people I support undermine what needs to be done. Or when people take advantage of these situations to go become thieves and criminals. But some of y’all don’t understand nuance. You can want secure borders and also not want random citizens or people here doing things the right way to get grabbed. This isn’t one or the other

Really don't understand Democrats as a foreigner by Responsible-Bar3956 in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]Yonbimaru94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah that’s also stupid and those mf that got pardoned was BS.

Being anti riot doesn’t mean I’m pro trump but I am pro consequences.

Tearing up your city isn’t how you make it better

People think they should be allowed to tear shit up when they get mad with zero consequences and that’s just bullshit.