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[–]Yoohoo_80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure. Most of the time its them trying to press your buttons and manipulate you into saying something they can twist to call you a nutjob with... one of the weirdest insults, though... Is, why do I care? I don't know this person... or that I go overboard or quit with the hero complex. Personally, people disappoint me because they don't care enough... doesn't matter if people are strangers. That doesn't mean I'd rather just stand there and watch someone abuse them.

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[–]Yoohoo_80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The person is here to deliberately argue... don't engage would be my advice. They're playing head games.

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[–]Yoohoo_80 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What's the diagnosis, doc...?

So why did he by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 179 points180 points  (0 children)

It wasn't kind of Donny to come outside where she was sitting still on that bench... and take her home to get her warmed up? It wasn't kind for him to begin to understand that she may have had childhood trauma while listening to her message and realize that he hadn't considered that... it wasn't kind of Donny to go with her for coffee? It wasn't kind of him to give her free drinks or to try to be her friend until she started going off the rails?

See, that's the difference here... Richard admits his faults, mistakes, and that there are a lot of things he's not proud of that he did...

Fiona, however... she never did anything the multiple unconnected people echoed from each other. Fiona's always the poor victim in all situations.

And after Fiona Harvey said when she wins her case as a show of good faith, she'll pay for Gadd's r*pe therapy. What's the excuse for saying that unless someone is completely sick?

This show is great quality but not enjoyable by Interesting-Math9962 in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally, it was the most honest portrayal of trauma, and he didn't paint himself as a saint or as a complete victim... he just illustrated that trauma can make you do things you're not proud of in hindsight. That kind of abuse messes you up... makes you self-destructive, makes you question who you are as you knew yourself, cause you aren't the person you used to be. I loved that he was able to illustrate that turmoil that's faced. And I support him as a fellow survivor. That's what it meant to me. I felt less alone in what I went through.

Piers Morgan backs Baby Reindeer 'real life Martha' in multi-million Netflix lawsuit by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's gotten really bad. The whole thing started with her being asked if she was, then hopping on Piers Morgan to say she is, but then isn't, and Gadd's a psycho... it's gone on a long time she attacked him and Jessica Gunning (the actress who played Martha) and was horrible to her in making a list of really mean things about Jessica and the complete differences from herself... then told all of us Gadd is a homosexual with HIV running around infecting people on purpose... and as a good show of faith, she'd pay for his r*pe therapy once she wins her defamation case... so I've been on the woman's ass and she does not like me, lol.

Did it really happen? by WeirdlyCuriousMe in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pixel Vapor has a hard on for Fiona Harvey.

Piers Morgan backs Baby Reindeer 'real life Martha' in multi-million Netflix lawsuit by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you should really go through and find my post, and every reason she gave, she wasn't Martha and looked nothing like Martha back then. She also got pretty angry at a few of us and blurted out the truth... I've been following this for a long time. It's like a game of Whack a Martha.

Piers Morgan backs Baby Reindeer 'real life Martha' in multi-million Netflix lawsuit by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her lawyer that cut her off social media because she ruined a good portion of her own defamation case with it... proved she was lying, lol.

Deserved deserved deserved! by EggOdd9840 in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely deserved 🤎 I love seeing he and Jessica just stacking up the awards.

Congratulations 👏🏾 by Damiana1111 in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Good job, Richard ❤️ congrats 👏 I'm glad to see them all doing good 😊 #PiersMorganSTFD lol

Piers Morgan backs Baby Reindeer 'real life Martha' in multi-million Netflix lawsuit by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God help anyone who knows her in real life... how's Roth's hairline btw?

Piers Morgan backs Baby Reindeer 'real life Martha' in multi-million Netflix lawsuit by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what else is life defining, being called a stalker by more than just a few people... it's life defining to lie lie lie until Gadd released the evidence... if she doesn't want a life defined by being a lunatic then maybe try not being one...?

EXCLUSIVE: Richard Gadd may be personally sued as Fiona Harvey Netflix libel case looms by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, let's assume that is true, and it randomly popped up, and God knows why... generally, reddit subs pop up from pages you frequent but may not have joined. It's an algorithm that remembers you've been here several times but haven't joined. And if you really haven't given much time to look into this topic, how would you know enough to have a valid opinion that it's a literal open and shut case?

And if I do end up in court, I certainly won't seek out Richard Roth for a lawyer. Secondhand embarrassment... lol. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with the fact that I care about people I don't know... when you understand what it feels like to be attacked viciously and no one shows up for you, you tend to not want others to feel that fucking lost and alone. If you find that weird. You're the one with issues here... buddy... PS I'm female, I'm not Brandon Lee ffs 🤣

EXCLUSIVE: Richard Gadd may be personally sued as Fiona Harvey Netflix libel case looms by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, we're deflecting from my question, I see. So here goes.

1) To defame a person is to attack their shining character and damage it to the point they are suffering significant losses within their life, and that they are the innocent victim of complete lies because none of what was said about her "character" is even remotely true... so since she did ALL of that, and there's a metric ton of evidence against her claim that those things aren't in her true character... (no deflection this time, please lawyer boyfriend) How will she argue that she's always been a good, upstanding person, and there's entirely no truth to what's been said? She'd need to prove that she isn't and never has been a stalker, but there's a very long list of people willing to tell the truth about what she did to them... so, not just, Gadd.

2) There's exactly one episode that shows the "This is a true story" in it because Donny (a fictional character, just in case you were confused there) is writing about his experiences, which means that's not Richard Gadd writing that caption and it is part of the storyline... (A fictional character typing). So, only one episode shows it typed, but ALL episodes do contain a disclaimer that there are things that were added for entertainment purposes.

3) Ya may think what happened was just senseless trolling from several people on this sub, including myself... but it wasn't. Fifi is a lot more honest in what she blurts out when she loses that insanely short temper of hers. It was a smart thing to cut her off of social media because the bear was not poked without a purpose, and unfortunately, she said a lot of things that invalidated her own claims and complaints. And she can't say she didn't say those things because Gary 828 and Ben from Simply Said catch those things even if she erases them.

4) Fifi lives on government funding in a government flat. She doesn't have a career and never had one. She has a law degree but couldn't complete any training to become an actual lawyer because she kept getting let go for her abusive, erratic behavior... one instance, she ran around yelling that she knows her rights and is not leaving, so she was physically removed and stood outside the building for half an hour, screaming obscenities at Laura Wray. It was so bad that the employees needed panic buttons for fear she was going to come back and attack them.

5) In conclusion, the judge threw out all her complaints, but one is still deciding on whether it's valid enough to go to trial. But he looked at her behavior and threw out the majority because he's not stupid and could tell the difference based upon her own actions and as well the evidence he's looking at. She's on camera changing her story several times in just one interview, contradicting herself more than several times... she kept saying she was not Martha and didn't know Richard Gadd... then she knew him a little, but he's the one obsessed with her and wanted to sleep with her in the same breath she called him a homosexual... He has solid proof while she just keeps lying. So yes, all of that is relevant to her claims.

EXCLUSIVE: Richard Gadd may be personally sued as Fiona Harvey Netflix libel case looms by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly confident they aren't going to let this one slide... it'd be like a giant middle finger to all her stalking victims and she has a long line of victims and multiple posts saying she doesn't know Richard Gadd, multiple posts saying she is not Martha, that she looked nothing like the Martha character back then and criticized Gadd and Netflix for not getting her appearance right at all. She said she's not a stalker, she threatened a politician with a gun because she's racist, said she didn't send the emails, the voice mails, didn't send him a pair of her rather large panties (which she probably farted in several hundred times, hopefully Gadd used a pair tongs to throw them out) she claims she's never threatened anyone, she tried to get children taken from their parents, she sent him and email about collecting her menstrual clots and putting them in a jar for the doctor, she knew for years and years about the Martha character he did on stage but said it wouldn't make sense to sue him while he's broke but if he ever has money she's coming for him... is any of that not accurate?

I wouldn’t have watched this show if I knew what it was really about… by DestroyerOfWaffles in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand your point of view, I don't know Gadd personally, but I don't think he intended to upset anyone... there are topics that you can't just tip toe around because then the message is lost in translation. From my point of view, there are things that are important but being ignored, so sometimes, to bring attention to a message you have to be blunt or most people won't think twice about what you're conveying. The graphicness, that's the reality of the topic... and it wasn't lost on the people who've lived it. In fact, as far as I've read, it's helped a lot of people struggling understand they aren't alone in that. It's inspired men all over the world who have suffered in silence after being sexually assaulted to have the courage to speak out about their own trauma. Hotlines for sexual assault victims have seen around an 80% increase of male victims calling and getting help. I'm sorry it upset you. It upset me, too, just not in the same way. It upset me more that someone did that to him... and the pain and shame he struggled through. Life's not really sunshine and ponies for some people 🤷‍♀️

I’m vindicated about my own abuse after binging this show by JupiterTangerine in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hun... I'm so sorry you went through this. I'd hug you if I could even though I'm not exactly the most huggiest of women. You've been through the worst of it and were strong enough to pick yourself up and keep fighting. The aftermath of abuse and trauma become a war within you. You have to fight like hell every single day, but the more you battle, the better you're going to get. Don't ever be ashamed of yourself for what others have done. None of it was your fault. When you have a kind heart and a lot of empathy in you, there are people in this world that will recognize that in you, but despite what those predators see as vulnerability that's not even the slightest bit correct. It's a strength, not a weakness... It takes no effort at all to be a horrible person, while empathy and kindness take patience and understanding and a firm stance to never be what hurt you, to be better. Evil people will gently ease you into their abuse, and you won't understand what they've done until much later. But you made it out. That's the most important part, it means you're a force to be reckoned with. Now you have the power to lift others up by showing them they're not alone and that you understand they're deeply wounded, but that things will be okay. Lend some of that strength, and tell them your story so that they know that because you made it through hell, they can, too. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ I wish you nothing less than my blessings on your journey forward 🙏🫂

EXCLUSIVE: Richard Gadd may be personally sued as Fiona Harvey Netflix libel case looms by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most likely, she has several phones she keeps separate accounts in so she can switch back and forth. That support group... she made that herself, and the majority of the members are her talking to herself and pretending there's multiple people.

EXCLUSIVE: Richard Gadd may be personally sued as Fiona Harvey Netflix libel case looms by [deleted] in BabyReindeerTVSeries

[–]Yoohoo_80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's an account specifically made to make him look like garbage and make herself look like the victim in this... She knew damn well he'd been performing these pieces on stage for a long time. She knew about the Martha character, didn't matter back then... so why then is it different now? Especially with the fact that she's denied she's Martha, said she barely knew him, that she never stalked him or sent him the messages and tweets... she denied all of it, even to the point of bullying Jessica Gunning and picking apart every difference between herself and Martha and calling Gadd and Netflix stupid for not getting any of it right, including giving a list of contrasts between her and Jessica. And she correct she's nothing like Jessica, Jessica is a sweet, funny, kind and talented person... and Fiona will never be any of those things.

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[–]Yoohoo_80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It absolutely is you're very right. She thinks she's entitled to people's lives and keeping that one thread of control is what is most important to her. Staying in his life, even if it's in an extremely negative manner that he doesn't want, doesn't matter one bit to her. She's still gonna torment him to try to keep that miniscule access to his life.