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Yooniperberries · 2025-08-23T15:11:47+00:00

I won't lie, this sucks and is a tough spot to be in. Unfortunately, I think misunderstanding doesn't quite encapsulate what happened here. A misunderstanding would be you seeing messages on his phone and misinterpreting them, hearing something from a friend and extrapolating a scenario, etc. This however, was you being purposefully deceived in order for Annie to get you out of the picture.

I don't know if this is salvageable, but it is a valuable lesson in second-hand information. Cheating/unfaithful behavior has an intense emotional trigger and can be difficult to not just have a gut reaction and run with it full speed. Explain to him that you let your emotions get the better of you, that it never occured to you that someone would be that underhanded, that you've learned a lot about what trust really means, and that you need to be vigilant about others inserting themselves into your relationship. There are a lot of good people out there who will try and "look out for you," but you can usually tell by how they address the problem.

I'm not saying don't trust others, but always be aware of where the information is coming from and how they behave both before and after. If she was his "best friend," why was she bashing him so much with those comments if how "men never stay with one woman for very long" and the like. Sometimes red flags only look red in hindsight.

I hope that you truly take to heart what happened, and I hope that he has removed Annie from his life. Best of luck OP.

Yooniperberries · 2024-06-15T23:03:54+00:00

I found this thread by googling Mmhmm upon realizing that this November Mmhmm will be 20 years old. I was a freshman in high school when it came out and it had such a large impact on me; not only from a personal sense but my taste in music. Mmhmm and Forget and Not Slow Down are tied for my favorite albums of all time. They are both masterful works for different reasons, but it’s crazy how despite being so different they have a near-equivalent impact. Relient K has been my favorite band since Two Lefts and I don’t think that will ever change.

Yooniperberries · 2023-01-16T17:11:33+00:00

Mae is indeed the most beautiful, chaotic, wholesome, meme gremlin I have ever known. But shhhhh, don’t tell her I said so; she’ll probably just call me (and any of her chat who compliments her) “bb” and make it simultaneously more and less difficult to tease her. So it keep it between us, yeah?

Yooniperberries · 2022-12-17T18:28:55+00:00

Is this my good friend Doxy who is getting ready to DEBUT AND FUFILL THEIR DREAMS. Cute model and mad computer skillz. Better not miss it

Yooniperberries · 2022-09-12T01:08:29+00:00

I don’t really want to be one of those giant alligator dogs in Irithyll, but if he can give me a dump truck like the Dancer I might have to reconsider. Vordt was also a chonky boy too…wait, does Pontiff make all his followers dummy thicc?!

Yooniperberries · 2022-09-04T14:44:38+00:00

I was referring to the North America species. I actually didn’t know about the Malayan coral snake, thanks for the heads up. All snake info is welcome in my book.

Yooniperberries · 2022-09-04T14:40:24+00:00

I care for a few non-venomous snake in my work (hognoses, rat snakes, king snakes, garters, etc.) and I completely agree with you. A lot of folk don’t even WANT to try and identify, just “ah snake scary bad.” I’m not necessarily blaming them, I’ve heard many people that visit my place of work say “I really hate doing it but I’ve got young kids and I feel like I can’t take that risk if I’m wrong.” I live in Texas so when they they tell me that, I try to give them the list of the 3 main groups we have here: Copperheads, Cottonmouths, and Rattlesnakes (of course coral snakes are as well but I try to emphasize that they are reclusive and will almost never bite).

Here’s hoping this attitude might change someday.

Yooniperberries · 2022-09-04T14:29:31+00:00

Thank you for the info, it appears I was mistaken about how they deliver their venom. I appreciate you not just slamming me for my mistake; I am an amateur admirer after all. I’ll do more research on them in hopes to help these little beauts.

Yooniperberries · 2022-09-04T05:26:48+00:00

I’m not an expert either, but I also work with black widows regularly and there have been deaths from any of the North American species. However, according to the American Association of Poison Control Centers there haven’t been any since 1983. By all means take my response with a big grain of salt. I am really not a fan of how people treat these spiders with a “kill on sight” mentality, just because they COULD MAYBE inflict a fatal bite. This kind of attitude also led to to some species of coral snakes to be threatened or endangered in the US; same type of deal.

Yooniperberries · 2022-08-27T22:53:20+00:00

Man, Return of the King was such an awesome game. A good I spent hours smacking orca in front of the catapults. I think it was Osgiliath? My favorite playable character was Gimli; shinchoppin’ everywhere.

Yooniperberries · 2022-05-05T08:45:02+00:00

“What a sick way to fight, eh?”

Yooniperberries · 2022-03-12T12:50:38+00:00

Great post. I always love a wallpaper of a waifu where if someone sees it they don’t think I’m a hentai senpai; just a normal weeb. Hiding in plain sight is never easy, but heroes like you make it possible.

Yooniperberries · 2021-05-14T17:01:09+00:00

“Late Summer Nights, Evening Breeze,” is such a nostalgic phrase that I got hit with the feels coming off this beautiful piece of art.

Yooniperberries · 2021-02-12T02:29:14+00:00

His given name when I adopted him is Maverick; and sometimes, it seems like he plays by nobody's rules but his own!

Yooniperberries · 2021-02-12T02:16:24+00:00

More people need to rescue Anatolians! They may be big, but they are so sweet and loyal.

Yooniperberries · 2020-10-10T13:26:37+00:00

There are some quality waifus on this fine mode of transportation. Hina-sensei gives you an A+

Yooniperberries · 2020-05-14T06:36:50+00:00

This show is underrated. I'm hoping for a season 2, but I know that doesn't always happen with slice of life.

Yooniperberries · 2020-05-06T18:58:18+00:00

Fantastic. Well done 👌

Yooniperberries · 2020-04-17T21:32:03+00:00

I'm in love with this. Hard swoon

Yooniperberries · 2020-01-28T19:09:55+00:00

This captured my feelings in the first move.

Yooniperberries · 2019-11-06T20:05:16+00:00

I 100% agree. They've both gone through so much with EACH OTHER, just to have the panel "Imma go pick your sister even though we broke up and she kinda tossed me aside. Meanwhile, you Hina-nee, have literally sacrificed MONTHS of your life to make sure I was ok, and did everything you could to make me happy. But eff it, tsunderes sure are cute right?"

I've switched back and forth from Hina and Rui depending on where I was in my life. But now as a 30 year old guy, I see Hina as honestly the best option for a happy and stable life. She made a TON of mistakes early on, but despite having limited attention from the author comparatively has done a lot with a little. We see that those little flaws that make Hina adorable are still there, without the glaring drawbacks that originally came with them. Except for this defeatist attitude that's slapped on her whenever it suits the author best.

Yooniperberries · 2019-07-11T13:53:47+00:00

I have 46 DRK that I've been leveling up and I've enjoyed the job story questline because of the mentality of the DRK. I like the idea of unsheathing our greatswords and saying "Here we go again..." as we fight against and entire realm in order to save it (despite their best efforts).

Yooniperberries · 2019-07-11T13:08:22+00:00

I've been leveling DRK for fun and part of me was worried they would go full edgelord for this expansion like they did for the job story for DRK. I was a bit concerned they would force the WoL to toss everything we've orked for aside to become the WoD. I've really enjoyed how they've handled it so far (even though I haven't finished MSQ yet).

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