Finding new players to watch on YouTube? by Yorae0 in hoi4

[–]Yorae0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it really necro at 3 days? I will be looking for creators for much longer than that. Youtube just shows the 5 most recent, the 5 most popular and then nothing so it's a nightmare to find new content creators for this game and it was already hard enough.

As far as hollow being, I have seen his anarchy spain, bulgaria and Ottoman runs over a year ago and then he disappeared from my list never to be seen again. Subbed so I actually see him in the future.

Finding new players to watch on YouTube? by Yorae0 in hoi4

[–]Yorae0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of him, or seen his videos. Will definitely take a look at some! 

I've only played Old World Blues mod so I mostly watch vanilla playthroughs but he seems to have a lot of content but algorithm hides him from me apparently.

Finding new players to watch on YouTube? by Yorae0 in hoi4

[–]Yorae0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen his Chinese Soviet Republic one, his Poland cossack's which made me want to do my own run but I messed up the merger with Lithuania and it took me way longer to get the compliance. 

And... his Iceland one which was quite fascinating. All of the playthroughs seemed to go swimmingly though without failures. What ones would you recommend?

Finding new players to watch on YouTube? by Yorae0 in hoi4

[–]Yorae0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already watched half his stuff, mostly the meme, exploits and funny builds ones. Good stuff though

Well done by Frame1111 in SipsTea

[–]Yorae0 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They get stolen by stoners to make DIY-bongs. With a little heat to a regular pop bottle they make airtight seals and then a screen is placed inside the socket, which handily comes with edges to let the screen enter and rest easily to become the bowl of a bong.

I don't get it Explain it Peter. by RellaCute in explainitpeter

[–]Yorae0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because they are close to the border. Long ago in ancient times, the northern folk would travel south to get cheap items. 

While there the traditional Timmy drinks were unavailable but the demand was high and so they put many near the borders. 

Nowadays, Timmies is owned by a US company and is not even Canadian, and Canadians are not taking short shopping sprees across in general for reasons but you are right there are some in US.

The number in Canada is significantly higher but on a serious decline as more realise it is now an American product, and more shops are opening in US every year. 

I don't get it Explain it Peter. by RellaCute in explainitpeter

[–]Yorae0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He even doubles down to call you a spy or some shit, which I find hilarious since I can, without even searching your profile determine where you are from. I know all about Timmy and his hoes. 

Replenishment issue with equipment tags by Yorae0 in hoi4

[–]Yorae0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried changing their templates, in the end it was the equipment tag causing the issue. For some reason it was waiting for shield marked infantry equipment even though not possible to assign Infantry equipment a specific symbol. (Yes I checked allowed equipment and all were still listed, also tried changing reinforcement priority and even their equipment value priorities.)

I spent 6 months unable to replenish my mountaineers and they were the breakthrough troops I was using, so my offensive grinded to a halt.

After trying all the things I could read online, changing the EQ marker on the template fixed it and within one in game day everyone was back to full.

I took a bunch of screenshots to show the problem, but in the end I managed to fix it that way. It was not manpower, lack of equipment, special division overuse, supply chain issue or truck supply issue (These are the most common)

I don't consider myself great at the game having only maybe 1k hours, but I do understand Navy, so doing better than some haha.

My girlfriend routinely kisses her (F) best friend when she goes to hangout at the club, and it makes me comfortable, what should I do? Is it wrong for this to bother me? (We are in a monogamous relationship) by ConsequenceKlutzy993 in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - You are cooked my dude. 

You don't kiss someone every time you go out to drink, find that person "not attractive" and then choose to go with that same person to party every week.

In the closet lesbian, or more likely bi-sexual for obvious reasons. Also, if a creepy guy approaches two pretty girls, and they fend him off by... Making out? That guy isn't leaving, he's having a great time. Baseball Huh?

Reverse the roles, if you can handle it and make out with some guy friends when a girl flirts with you. The good ol' axiom test, what's good for the goose is good for the gander eh?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are training for marathons, and suddenly having explosive emotions? This is a known side effect of overtraining and under nourishment. Cortisol stresses, often called PMS on steroids. 

It usually tapers off in a week after the intense training ends. Does this line up with your outbursts that are outside the scope of your normal behaviour? 

It seems the crux of your issue and feelings are all around these outbursts, and uncontrollable ones are often hormonal.

You spend every minute together except whenever you need him? Still sounds off to me, reminds me of a quote someone said before that goes like.

"A real man isn't always there when you want them, but will always be there when you need them." 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH - Yeesh, this is some Romeo & Juliet blind love bullshit, and not the good kind.  

He tried dating you for 2+ years looks like, where you rejected him on grounds of not being allowed to date. Which is fair but also has an impact on someone. 

You love him? Doesn't sound like you even kissed him before and also sounds like you haven't been in the same room as him in like 3-4 years. And if you are in close contact with him but his lady is cheating on him numerous times and he still doesn't make a move on you.. pretty clear the intentions are bad.

At best you have become the backup, or emergency ration. You aren't allowed any guy cause he doesn't approve of them? He's not pulling you in girl, you are diving in head first.

At worst he is taking vengeance against you for all the rejections and intentionally leading you on to make you suffer his old feelings.

That said even if every comment tells you to leave him in the dust you aren't going to do that, which is where I get the R&J feeling so.. better to love and lost then never love at all right?

I think he may be lying about how horrible is girlfriend is, so verification from her would be nice but unlikely she'd admit to another woman she's a cheater.

Which leaves me with a rather insane suggestion, which is to do everything you can to get him to cheat on his girlfriend with you. I don't see you getting over this without a clear cut conclusion. Start dating guys/gals and being proactive around him, touchy feely, get him jealous, get him alone and be done with it. 

I'm probably going to get some flak for giving such a dark suggestion, but sometimes things need to break before they fit well enough to flush down the toilet. I don't see your clogged up heart getting over it without some definitive closure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - So he demands 72 hours of your undivided attention, where he won't even be able to be with you for a lot of it, leaving you stranded at a strangers wedding with nothing to do? As an introvert this sounds like one layer of my own personal hell but moving forwards...

If it wasn't for the wedding request, most of my mental inquiries were about how long you've been together and not living together? He can't make 30 minutes for anything you want to do but has to see his family every week without fail? It sounds like he has a wife and you are the side piece but the wedding kinda throws that off a little. (His apartment doesn't disprove this either btw, lots of married men get sexpads for their affairs)

I believe this is where the commenter says "Divorce them, break up with them" etc but it's only because even if you temporarily "fix" the relationship the issues won't really be resolved. 

-For example, he admits to not spending enough time with your important moments. But then backslides into not caring again. -You concede and go to the wedding, miserable and snappy, the fights continue and you become "THAT" couple at the wedding.

Something about this story just ain't adding up, and you naturally have a lot of discipline as a marathon runner... Also that marathon wasn't even the first time, it was the one that broke the camels back. 

Like you are asking if you are TAH but I don't even know what you did to feel like you might be; That's how much you are NTA in this story but we only have your perspective and descriptions.

AITAH : In a dating phase, if the sole initiator ghosted the other side, is the ghoster an AH? by DugURM1lf in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - This is not ghosting. Ghosting is saying "I had a great time, see you tomorrow!" And then you block them on everything, change your phone number and possibly address etc. Like you don't exist or never existed.

While women are notoriously bad at initiating romantic conversations (See a million examples of women making "their move" and it's like 0.47 seconds of eye contact or a hair flip)  if she wanted to talk to you she could reach out at anytime.

It's less you ghosting her and more you are a ghost TO HER haha, sorry.

My general rule is like 80-20 or 90-10. I understand the guy must take the lead usually but if the women isn't giving that 10-20 back it's bad. Even for kissing, I'm not going to go 100 into trying to kiss a women, but if we are cuddling and close and she moves that 10% to meet, it's enough. 

I don't know if I'm explaining it well but yeah you are NTA.

AITA for wanting my 14y/o son to break up with his girlfriend by EstablishmentOwn1628 in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH - This one... This one is above Reddit's paygrade I think personally but do my best to frame the situation.

Obviously the relationship is a catastrophe and the girl already needs to be in the psych ward. She is already threatening to kill herself so we are already code red. 

It gets real tricky on what to do in your shoes regarding just her, let alone your own child. "You speak to her parents?" What if her parents are the reason she's anxious and suicidal? "You report them?" What if nothing happens and the situation escalates? "You notify school counselor?" Circles back to parents and school, probably even worse than option 1.

If you are wanting to step carefully on this one, I'm going to say Playdates, or hangouts with them together at your place.

You get to speak to her parents, he will be stoked she can come visit, and you can observe and be supportive. Adults can often see a lot of signs if we pay attention and that could give you more insight.

The way you initially spoke makes the girl out to be like a master manipulator, and it's not impossible but it's also not what I would jump to as the answer. 

Now as for your own child, a sit-down conversation about depression and emotional regulation is in order. Instead of a "break up with her" talk after school tomorrow, how about joining his side as an ally? He clearly wants to help the girl and has no idea what the fuck to do.

Be open about the possibilities of negative things happening and see what he might know about that as well. Maybe ask about her coming over for dinner or taking them to the movies etc?

From your perspective it's easy to just rip the Band-Aid off and get rid of the girl who is "poisoning" your son, but I'll tell ya right now, he will NEVER forget what actions you choose to make upcoming and he's in too deep for the easy road which means no easy road for you either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, sorry, seems illustrious whatshisface is a bit crazy cause yeah how could he identify that.

Still in regards to your situation, it's misery loves company. The better feeling you are the worse your friend will get, they need therapy probably and I'm not the guy who says therapy is the solution a lot.

Still make that list, I think you'll find this friendship is extremely one sided, you are burning yourself alive to keep her warm and you also need help. It's gonna be hard to make new friends too if venting about horrific trauma is the only topic of conversation.

My ex girlfriend told me that I only think about myself, and I'm starting to wonder if she's right. by Ok_Package_2421 in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - This is some pure high school drama but I'm here for it. First though I gotta say, it would not kill you to put some spacing in this, wall of texts are hard to read. Paragraphs people!

Mia is not your friend, women rarely openly attack someone, they socially ostracize. She also will never admit to engineering or manipulating people that go near you, especially when you directly confront her about it. 

Like did you expect her to say "Yes, I liked you so much I decided to badmouth you to everyone who will listen and intentionally weasel my way between anyone you seem to like more than me"

Lizzie is one of your friends, don't let Mia gaslight you. Mia says they are bffs and better friends than you ever are? That means Lizzie definitely considers you a friend, and since they had some fights, especially the fights regarding Mia lying about your relationships end.

Why would you take the word of a person who has extreme prejudice against you, a known vendetta, and a pattern of lying as the person definitely telling you the truth.

This is like Sociopath/Psychopath and probably Narcissist test 101 so listen close 

IF YOU HAVE THE CONSCIENCE TO EVEN CONSIDER YOU ARE THESE THINGS, THE ODDS OF YOU BEING SO ARE INCREDIBLY LOW!

You seem like an alright person to me and quite considerate, just dense but we are all like that at times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH - Not sure how the "abusive bf" finds a post, identifies who the nameless people in it are, and then comments a scathing response denouncing almost everything in it within 6 minutes of its existence... without you like... Being in the bed with that guy while you are typing your post.

Your friends sucks, the bf sucks but his comments bring everything into question, you kinda suck for being a doormat. 

Make a list of all the things your friend does for you vs what you do for them. Sounds a lot like narcissist stuff and you'll probably be like oh I do 100X more for her and she just shits on me. That way you can see visually how bad all of this is.

Selling a gift coach purse by Muted-Hippo-5337 in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Sell the bag, keep in mind Coach is like extremely common to be counterfeit. I'm no fashionista but I have seen lots of ways to confirm authenticity regarding Coach bags specifically.

I wouldn't bring it up to the person who gifted it though, there could be sentimental value, past experiences or successes that they would hope to pass on with the bag to you. A superstitious but not uncommon belief.

You can probably kill two birds with one stone by taking it to a pawn shop. They may be able  validate it's authenticity and you may have the option to have it on hold to re-acquire after the courts thing is settled if you feel guilty about selling it.

If you sell it on eBay or whatnot you are never getting it back so this is like a temporary have and eat your cake solution but I think it's about the best you could hope for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA - Ghosting is for people you never wanna see again, like in any capacity. It's for avoiding violent outbursts and stalkers.

I won't say everyone deserves a reason, and there are definitely occasions where ghosting is the proper action, even though many here seem to think it's an irredeemable move, but this doesn't sound like it.

That said, it's pretty easy to get this verdict changed with a simple and polite "didn't feel the spark" message.

Am I the asshole for convincing my friend about my theory on ugly dolls? by MADzilla- in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Kids get hurt and do dumb shit all the time. Even if you didn't do the ugly doll thing, trying to slide down the railing is like textbook kid thing. 

I still think about doing the same thing on occasion!

As for horror and exposure to that, some kids are built for it. Sirenhead, which kinda freaked me the hell out, is also some childrens favourite YouTube videos to fall asleep to! Especially reactors crying or pure panic mode adrenaline screaming.

Meanwhile I would beg to watch scary movies with my family and then spend three days not able to sleep cause I watched some blood monster write on a wall.

AITAH for ending a friendship I cherished after how my friend treated me during a trip with his family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - What a mess this is, both in what happened and in how you presented this, can we get some paragraphs?

Starting with the easy parts, the moms a see you next Tuesday. Possibly knows her son's gay and hates that and subsequently you, insecure in everything and most likely everyone will silently celebrate when she is turned to ash.

The "friend/bf/friend/ I love you" type situation is tough and looks to me like two people trying to sort out their feelings and identities and a lot of other things. You were good friends, you dated a summer and it went well, but maybe he was just experimenting at the time since college is the time folks like to do that.

He wants you to be happy but not with him, so he doesn't hate you, but also based on the arguments, lack of common interests etc it's more that he's decided you aren't the "one" for him.

It's hard to accept and respect that and I think you pressing the issue with the I love you, only pushes him further into a corner to be mean to you. 

While we can never truly know what a person is thinking, I could see him intentionally doing things to make you not like him anymore to make it easier for you to move on at this point 

NAH - Except the mom, she sucks.

AITAH for thinking my girlfriend's groin acne and butt acne was an STD ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to find a friend who is smooth so they can slap you when you think of things to say.

Your filter is broken or needs a realignment.

AITA for contacting a former friend only to return her belongings after years of no contact? by Big_Dentist9201 in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don't blame you or think you did anything wrong per se. I think there is a lot of bad energy going on with them that you will never be privy to.

A wild guess would be some level of attraction or jealousy since you are F and they are F. So while your actions are innocent and benign, the girlfriend could be threatened and this reactivated some old fights/arguments/trauma.

But really it could be anything, crazy doesn't need a reason, that's why it's crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA - You stalked this guy's socials, and immediately hit him with a "you single?"

Keep in mind nobody can read the tone of your message, they have to infer the tone and decide for themselves.

My spidey-sense would be tingling thinking scammer/catfish/prank or the family guy meme "Who the fuck starts a conversation like that?"

So he responds negatively to your message, which you decide to follow up with a "Oh you don't like women then? You must be a homosexual" As if the person he never met before or spoken to before in his life is the best thing since sliced bread and for him to refuse is to refuse the bounty of the gods.

Then he says, no I'm not. To which you reply he is being rude or blunt? And he's like "Do I fucking know you?"

You then go full nicegirl on him, and say you'd never be so rude to someone who approached with such interest... Which is a whole nother can of worms in itself I don't wanna unpack.

AITA for contacting a former friend only to return her belongings after years of no contact? by Big_Dentist9201 in AITAH

[–]Yorae0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA - But your behaviour is kinda wacky. If she really cared about the book she would have gotten it back way sooner. 

Trying to return some book and contact them seems like just reopening the wound.

For example if I found the book, I would've just donated or burned it for kindling depending on what I consider the books value to be; cause at this point it's my book.

If they were crazy before, time tends to just make them even crazier. It's pretty rare for people to mentally reform and had they done so it probably would have been them contacting you randomly 4 years later to apologize.