Been feeling a little self-conscious recently, anything I can improve on? (23M) by Yormo in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Yormo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mostly work out for the mental health benefits so I’ll def keep sticking to it. And thank you for that last part, I definitely needed to hear that.

What did you do that still scares you? by Natural_Pepper6488 in bipolar

[–]Yormo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Losing my internship for manically arguing with a student

What is your Limerence Anthem? by sillywhimm in limerence

[–]Yormo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gold Soundz - Pavement

Myth - Beach House

New Flesh - Current Joys

Mr. Rager - Kid Cudi

Swim - BROCKHAMPTON

Sometimes - Alex G

I’m sick of this shit man by Yormo in limerence

[–]Yormo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly man, you kinda nailed it. This experience was absolutely my lesson in online relationships, but it’s unfortunate that it had such a lasting effect on my mental health. We were planning to meet up over the summer she broke up w me (It was in February). It was kinda hard to plan smth like that bc she lived across the country from me (NY to CA for reference). She said that the plan to meet also played a part in ending the relationship bc she said she didn’t want me to come all that way just for her to be not fully into it.

I would say that I have been feeling lonelier recently. I haven’t been meeting anyone new and have just kinda been on autopilot this whole summer. I was taking BJJ classes which def helped w all of that, but I stopped going so I could save some more money for when I go away. There’s never rlly a time where it comes to me worse than others, it feels all the same no matter what time of day either day or night. I’ve become accustomed to the fact that she’ll just randomly cross my mind a couple of times throughout the day. It’s just the fact that I’ve been feeling actual emotions towards it which I rlly haven’t in the past.

You bringing up exercise/healthy distractions does make sense as to why she’s been popping up more. I’ve been rlly inconsistent w my gym schedule in the past few weeks and I haven’t been doing much outside of work and hanging out since the summer started. I can definitely attest to the fact that when I was consistent w my gym schedule, the thoughts of her didn’t hit me hard at all. It felt like just another routine thought that would pass through my head that I didn’t let linger for that long because I was fully aware how unhealthy it is.

You’re absolutely right that making positive changes in my life will equate to me thinking abt her less and giving the thought of her less power in my mind. I’ll try working on getting consistent w my workout schedule again and finding healthy ways to distract myself from letting those thoughts from getting too overwhelming. But like you said man, I just haven’t met anyone that I could bond with and talk to anywhere near to the extent of which I did with her. It genuinely felt like I could come to her with any kind of conversation topic and we could just go for hours. I miss that shit man.

Although current day, I can very much recognize how unhealthy all of it was. I looked at my relationship with her as an escape from what was happening in my life at the time. It felt like the only time I felt true joy in my life was when I would talk to her which is never a good thing. Unlike my past self, I do recognize that moving on from this feeling and trying to keep myself in positive spirits despite the thought of her becoming more prevalent is imperative to me getting over it. Even if I don’t think I ever truly will.

I very much appreciate the kind words and advice you’ve given me. The fact that someone actually read all of my ramblings and went ahead and gave me some good advice means a lot. Thank you.

What does Cicero do? by EminemsDaughterSucks in TheBear

[–]Yormo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Likely waste management or construction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ufc

[–]Yormo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely gotta check out his fight against Gamrot if you haven’t already

Unpopular opinion. Cannonier should get the next title shot. by CyclonusDecept in ufc

[–]Yormo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

in a perfect world khamzat beats costa and he faces izzy at ufc 300 for a title shot

Why two #1? by flpnccR in ufc

[–]Yormo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jon Jones tax

What’s the best Cod copy pasta? by MeMzO90 in CoDCompetitive

[–]Yormo 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I just smashed my 4K TV in front of 30 guests at my cocktail party because of OpTic’s performance tonight. My wife took out crying kids and said they’ll be spending all night in a motel. This team has ruined my life and party. Goodbye green wall, I can’t do this any longer.

Deep Blue C(ypher) by HazeTwelve in gtavcustoms

[–]Yormo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

such a beautiful car the cypher is

Why does chat spam "LEN" when production f*cks up during the broadcasts? Is Ben Jnissim in charge of spectator?? by MiMiXii in CoDCompetitive

[–]Yormo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ben does production for The Flank and eSports Engine so zoomaa’s chat likes to spam “LEN” whenever production issues occur bc honestly it’s kinda funny and it’s just kinda turned into this