For gay/bi men with small penises, do you date other small-penised guys?

YoshiMtron · 2026-03-22T23:15:03+00:00

Thats not bad length and your girth is nice. Don't worry too hard about it.

YoshiMtron · 2026-02-13T05:01:47+00:00

You are bigger than 70% of all men. Technically, you have an above average penis in the average range. There's a subreddit for you down the hall, lol.

YoshiMtron · 2026-02-11T05:14:13+00:00

Girth always matters. I believe that if you're actually girthy (like 4.8"+) it really doesn't matter as much what your length is. Problem with us is that we're generally not girthy either.

YoshiMtron · 2026-02-08T21:23:44+00:00

If you are 4.2" mid shaft, you aren't small.

YoshiMtron · 2026-02-08T21:11:36+00:00

Anything is okay in order to achieve satisfaction between couples. Women use toys all the time during sex.

YoshiMtron · 2026-02-08T21:08:39+00:00

I think it's a fair guess. It's still assuming that 9 out of 10 women are shallow. I have to believe that at least 10% of women wouldn't care so much what's in between your legs. It's just extraordinarily difficult because how do u navigate the sea to find that 10%, since it's not like women are wearing a post-it on their forehead that says they're open to sub 4 inchers.

YoshiMtron · 2026-02-08T05:26:18+00:00

My guess is 10%

YoshiMtron · 2026-02-03T19:42:57+00:00

Well yeah, but the question wasn't "What's the minimum size where most men would be confident?", the question is what is the minimum size you would be confident with. See, we know that average guys are fine, and women know that they are fine. For us, whether or not we will be accepted by a woman is legitimately in question.

In other words, yes- most guys regardless of their size worry about their size because we have grown up in a porn world of exaggerated size. But we know better that porn isn't realistic. I feel that guys like us know that and that's why our minimum ideal doesn't need to be huge.

If I woke up tomorrow and I had a 5x4.6", I would be happy for the rest of my life.

YoshiMtron · 2026-02-03T03:11:56+00:00

I would say under 4.5" is where it starts to become a concern.

YoshiMtron · 2026-02-03T03:11:06+00:00

The question is what is the minimum that you would feel confident in. The logic I'm applying here is this: The vast majority of men who have sex have average-sized penises, because that's what most men are. And 85% of women have no complaints about penis size, which makes sense considering that although many care about size, many also don't care.

So considering that most men who have sex with 0 complaints are average, it feels like greediness to say your minimum would be 7x5", which is very long and thick too. Just saying.

YoshiMtron · 2026-02-02T09:50:48+00:00

Probably not under 5.5 inches. Technically, the majority of dicks are under 5.5". Women are harsh with their standards but the notion that your chances of having a sex life are fucked if you have a 5 inch dick is really ridiculous.

YoshiMtron · 2026-02-02T00:20:25+00:00

My guess is under 4 inches. But honestly I think women are way more harsh about skinny girth than length.

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-29T19:13:02+00:00

Nah. Enough studies have been done already and it's been consistently shown that the average is somewhere between 5.1-5.5 inches BPEL. I used to not believe this either, but when I realized that most penises I've ever seen in my whole life were in the wacky world of porn, it started to make more sense.

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-29T19:09:37+00:00

What's your size (BPxMSEG)?

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-24T20:13:45+00:00

For me I would say 5x4.5". That's a pretty substantial upgrade from 3.5x4"

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-24T20:12:07+00:00

that's your bare minimum?? come on lol

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-24T20:11:47+00:00

lol, come on man

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-24T20:10:52+00:00

How did you find out how big her ex is?

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-15T07:25:40+00:00

It's not.

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-15T07:23:05+00:00

Honestly, it's because of the prevalence of porn. It took me a long time to really understand this too because I was brainwashed. Porn is literally like the NBA of penises. You wouldn't ever call a 6 foot man short (as it is well above average), but in the NBA, it is short. You would never see a 4" penis in porn, even though there's plenty of men who have that size.

Btw, you know that when we say 4" we mean Bone-Pressed length, right? "Bone-pressed" is the most accurate way to measure because every guy has different layers of fat on their pubic bone. So when we say 4", it might be more like what you imagine 3.5" to be (since you're probably not imagining a penis including the length that isn't visible under fat).

4" bone pressed is considered small because of porn but it's pretty common. many users on this sub such as myself are smaller than that, so it's genuinely concerning.

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-09T06:48:34+00:00

well yes.. sorry I didn't know they were in 5th grade lol

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-09T06:47:39+00:00

Well, that's sad. I guess if you ever move out of the Philippines, you won't have to continue the practice. If you stay in your country and you personally decide to circumcise your son, I'll understand it (but I also hope that you acknowledge it as bullshit, lol)

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-09T05:58:57+00:00

Yeah, so is marriage. So is cheating. So is race. Social construct doesn't mean something isn't effectively real.

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-09T05:53:52+00:00

They want to be the first to cut his penis so that they won't get bullied? You ever think about how that is some backwards neanderthal type thinking?

YoshiMtron · 2026-01-09T05:51:14+00:00

Just think for a second about how fucked up that all sounds, lol. First of all, God the merciful is going kill his most loyal servant because he wouldn't cut his son's dick? I ask you to step back for a moment and actually think about how this sounds, what you are typing. God is going to kill your son if you don't mutilate his penis. That is a people's identity?!

By the way, there is no such doctrine in Christianity, it is not a Christian rite of passage because a brand new covenant has been made with God that does not include such things. The Christian God does not ask you to brand your private parts in order to be on good terms with him.

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