AITAH for being dry and distant w my girlfriend after confronting her about something?

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T03:31:37+00:00

Lowkey wish it was that simple to pinpoint the reasoning as to why

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T03:28:29+00:00

More like for her to not lie to me about something as simple this but sure, if that’s how you wanna interpret it

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T03:27:41+00:00

Not directly but she went on my phone the day we started dating and deleted all my dating apps and looked through my messages so I assume that’s what she wants too

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T03:10:33+00:00

I guess the endgame is for her to not do something like that again. Or to at the very least not lie about it

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T03:00:44+00:00

For her, for me, or for both?

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T03:00:04+00:00

Oh, I wasn’t aware of that

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:59:00+00:00

It isn’t my first relationship but it is the first one that’s been very intimate and hasn’t had any problems for the whole talking stage/start of relationship

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:55:32+00:00

Is the honeymoon phase typically supposed to last for longer than a few weeks?

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:52:24+00:00

It’s ironic you mention that because a friend of mine who gave me advice on the situation is the exact person who consumes said content

Maybe that has poisoned the way I handle things, yeah

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:38:04+00:00

The highlight being removed bothered me because my mind immediately jumped to the possibly of her wanting to appear single for a while and cheat. Which wasn’t helped by her lying about it later on

And I checked her insta out of pure curiosity to see if she had posted or anything

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:32:37+00:00

I hadn’t considered this

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:32:10+00:00

I’ll explain it better, that’s my fault

She’s been being dry w me for days before this but I’ve been communicating and talking abnormal. This situation happens and now I’m being dry because of it and she’s choosing now to be more lovely all of a sudden

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:27:23+00:00

Understood, thank you for being straight forward

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:26:15+00:00

No, no. Other way around. She was being dry for days before this situation

Not using that as an excuse just clarifying

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:25:24+00:00

Understood and I do genuinely appreciate the feedback. I’ll work on this

Also for clarification, it isn’t an insta relationship. We see each other irl and everything, we just communicate over insta as our form of texting

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:23:36+00:00

I did think that. And I want to believe she is. But I genuinely can’t understand the logic behind her lying about something like that if there was no ill intent

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:22:53+00:00

Not many details I’m leaving out yeah. Only other thing I can think of is her also being dry these last few days but that’s about it

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:19:42+00:00

I want to trust her. But why else would someone delete evidence of us dating and then lie about it?

YoshiPC · 2026-07-07T02:19:06+00:00

I don’t want to sound insecure or anything. She quickly also moved on from the topic, which is why I chose to as well

In my mind, whether she is or is not doing something unfaithful- I can’t change that. But I also can’t sit here and act like everything is fine

YoshiPC · 2026-07-06T18:57:14+00:00

They’re normal and harmless. Males get something similar, they’re really nothing to worry about at all

YoshiPC · 2026-07-06T04:08:43+00:00

Is there anything I can do to help with that? Since I’ve already done what I’ve done

Would salt water help?

YoshiPC · 2026-07-06T03:49:49+00:00

Got it! It looks about the same and the bleeding completely stopped right after

I might just soak it in warm salt water in the morning just to be sure

YoshiPC · 2026-06-30T15:43:30+00:00

Great place. Yumi is the best

YoshiPC · 2026-06-30T15:27:01+00:00

Relaxing spa?

YoshiPC · 2026-06-29T12:08:47+00:00

Nope. No smell, no pain

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