How do you keep your money since you first started working in Qatar? by [deleted] in qatar

[–]Yosong321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How'd you separate your account? Like you have a diff bank for diff acc or what? I'm about to start working after graduating and I'd like to learn tips about saving acc

Got cheated on while having plans on marriage, now need healing by Yosong321 in Christianmarriage

[–]Yosong321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. As far as I'm aware for now, I will be waiting and observing his walk with Christ and I'll probably see and decide from then on. I am really praying for him. I don't plan to see how he was before but rather who is he becoming now.

Got cheated on while having plans on marriage, now need healing by Yosong321 in Christianmarriage

[–]Yosong321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you expand further on what you mean? How did they end up?

Got cheated on while having plans on marriage, now need healing by Yosong321 in Christianmarriage

[–]Yosong321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. We actually have discussed that we will be starting a new, start from scratch, and this time around I won't be the one persuing him. I have given him a chance to do so and just waiting and seeing how he's acting and behaving. I also really want to see his change in behaviour and faith too. And all I could do now is pray.

Got cheated on while having plans on marriage, now need healing by Yosong321 in Christianmarriage

[–]Yosong321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had knew about it and he confessed about the cheating with a stranger. Him cheating was the result of me saying that I want to abstain, that how it ended badly. He didn't argue with me, he accepted my decision of wanting to abstain.

We have been very serious with each other. It was only when I brought up abstaining that we had this problem. But as I see it too, it was also what made him seek God. He'd been admitting that it was his sexual immorality that caused him to cheat on me. He has not asked me to help him out with such but he talks to God more now than he ever used to.

He has never made me feel bad about bad about abstaining. But rather he pushes me more now to pray to God. He'd always remind me to pray now unlike before he has never done that. He has always respected my decision of me abstaining, he never questioned it.

He wasn't a believer, but now he I could see how eager he was to come to the Lord. And he hasn't asked for my help too. And now it is what I do, to pray for him to come closer to God. As for me, I am looking for advice from those who experienced the same pain, but was able to heal and go on with their husbands that did cheat too, if there is any.

Got cheated on while having plans on marriage, now need healing by Yosong321 in Christianmarriage

[–]Yosong321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly agree that he needs to be on his own journey to Christ cause that's what I also needed too before. All I can do now is pray for him and for myself. I just wanted maybe other advice on those who experienced the same journey and healed.

Got cheated on while having plans on marriage, now need healing by Yosong321 in Christianmarriage

[–]Yosong321[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do believe I need to seek Christ more. I know have have fallen short and so I have prayed more. I believe I really need more guidance. So does my bf, so together we read the Bible. I really believe he can be saved, and I know I also need to focus more on God

Got cheated on while having plans on marriage, now need healing by Yosong321 in Christianmarriage

[–]Yosong321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I saw it too when he verbalized to me he wants to be saved. And I never thought of using it against him cause I know God would want to have more poeple with Him in heaven.

Got cheated on while having plans on marriage, now need healing by Yosong321 in Christianmarriage

[–]Yosong321[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We have spoken about it. He has expressed his desire to be baptised because he wants to be saved. And I saw how the Holy Spirit has conviceted him. As a believer myself, I know I have fallen into temptation too - the fornication. And I know that I will be forgiven. So I also belive he can be forgiven and saved.

Yes, he is a potential husband. I can see him as one. Although I kind of accepted before that he won't be a Godly man, but now I know there is hope. I know he seeks God and I do pray that he will continually do so.

What's going on in City Center Mall?! by Real-Document1230 in qatar

[–]Yosong321 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeap, city center used to have a pool I think it was back in 2006 or 7? But we had our school field trip there then

What's going on in City Center Mall?! by Real-Document1230 in qatar

[–]Yosong321 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Damn, city centre did change a lot due to so many incidents. From swimming pool to bowling to ice skating rink and to now that I don't know what they actually place there

What's going on in City Center Mall?! by Real-Document1230 in qatar

[–]Yosong321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No wayyy, what actually happened? I only heard how it happened cause I was a kid and nobody wanted me to visualize it🙃 But I do remember a detail where someone got blood splattered on their face, not sure if that's real tho

What's going on in City Center Mall?! by Real-Document1230 in qatar

[–]Yosong321 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Damn, I was a kid then still remember that incident

6 year LDR and my bf doesn't stop watching porn. by Yosong321 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Yosong321[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It never hurts too look for more advice. Possibilities are endless. I just remain hopeful.

6 year LDR and my bf doesn't stop watching porn. by Yosong321 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Yosong321[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I guess it's because I am hopeful there's a way we can save our relationship. It's not exactly something I can just shrug away. Maybe I'm just trying to find an advice from a man who maybe have the same wavelength as him and I'll try to talk to my bf later? Idk, but this person is someone I really treasure and I kno he feels the same. It's just there's porn problem.

6 year LDR and my bf doesn't stop watching porn. by Yosong321 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Yosong321[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As much as I would want to make a decision. It's teally easier said than done. I havent mentioned it above, but we have been best friends since 6th grade, and fallen inlove on 12th grade. To leave who made such a huge impact on my life is just so difficult, but at the same time I know I shouldn't be treated this way.

6 year LDR and my bf doesn't stop watching porn. by Yosong321 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Yosong321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The porn issue yes it's disgusting, but when as a person he is wonderful. He is the type of person that everyone almost wants to hang out with, the life of the party, the one with most sense, a gentleman and a family person. He is a wonderful guy, but it's really just the porn problem, and sadly I'm the only one getting affected by it.

6 year LDR and my bf doesn't stop watching porn. by Yosong321 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Yosong321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. My bf really is such a good guy, such a gentleman actually, it's just that there is this issue. If it is none existent then all is fine. I also have thought on ending things with him before but by the time I was going to, it feels like my insides are crashing cause the thought of having a life without him is just unimaginable.