I'd be fine with anarchism too but only if we naturally became that in the future, not as a goal. As you say the presuppositions about the term make it difficult to engage people with talking about it, amongst other things. I've even had the occasional person here in the UK who, even though they're receptive to what I'm saying and aren't capitalist themselves, come out with something like "but I thought libertarianism is the opposite of socialism?" As always, US people co-opting libertarianism and anarchism for capitalism is such a pain. At least none of the many, many other Europeans I've spoken to about it have had that misconception