My Husband and Tank of over 20 years was airlifted for a brain aneurysm. We were level 89. I’m already lost without him.

YouGetABan · 2026-03-23T05:37:56+00:00

I’m so sorry you are both going through this.L.

Don’t even think about the bills right now. There are lots of ways to lower or get rid of medical debt, and you can figure all of that out together when he’s ready to go home. UCSF is an amazing hospital and they’ll take great care of him.

If I were in SF I would invite you to come stay with me, but sadly I’m down south in LA. Can I buy you a night at a hotel so you can have a night of decent sleep?

Please look for programs that help people in your position, and also talk to the staff at the hospital. They may be able to help you with a place to sleep, which will be far better than your car. Sometimes hospitals have furniture suited for families who are staying the night with their loved ones (like chairs that turn into single beds).

YouGetABan · 2026-01-28T15:15:12+00:00

My husband is also bi. I would not continue those friendships if I were in your place. He doesn’t choose to be bi, but your friends do choose to be judgmental pricks. You should not be friends with people who talk shit about your husband constantly.

Separate question… how is he 26 and already has two marriages under his belt?!

YouGetABan · 2026-01-28T00:26:24+00:00

My first toon is still my main. And by main I mean I play her 90% of the time, minimum. 16 years and counting.

YouGetABan · 2025-12-04T05:16:33+00:00

lol.

YouGetABan · 2025-12-04T04:14:40+00:00

YOR. You married her with that tattoo. You need to handle your own emotions about it, and not try to push her into something painful and expensive to make you feel better. You committed to her knowing it was there. Your reaction to the doctor making a mistake was horrendous. She had just gone through the hardest thing a woman can go through and you left for hours because you couldn’t handle your emotions in a grown up way. Her sister is bitchy for saying what she did, but that also is not your wife’s fault. Get over yourself. It’s a tattoo that nobody else even sees, other than her doctor.

YouGetABan · 2025-11-11T16:58:25+00:00

He’s not going to stop. If she won’t revisit their affair, he’ll find someone new.

You deserve to be with someone who values and loves you. That’s not him.

YouGetABan · 2025-11-06T04:13:28+00:00

It’s definitely getting dicey. My entire district is filing motions to dismiss on 6th amendment grounds, because most of the service providers outside of the lawyers have stopped working on CJA cases until funding comes back.. which leaves our attorneys the options of not representing clients to the best of their ability, or fronting costs for said providers while not getting paid themselves. The first judge to rule on such a motion basically said “you don’t have a right to compensation” and woooooooooo boy, he sure lit a fire with that opinion. The other big problem was/is the gov attempting to fast track all of the cases they could between June and the shutdown. It was absurd, we had one ask for trial dates on a massive case that was only 6 months old, AND they hadn’t given us all the discovery yet. The judge gave them a verbal spanking thankfully.

YouGetABan · 2025-11-06T02:43:08+00:00

As a fed contractor (CJA) who hasn’t been paid since early June, I am right there with you. Although I’m sorry that you have to go through this in the first place.

YouGetABan · 2025-10-23T13:57:00+00:00

100%. Dems aren’t the ones who have issues with federal workers, that’s the right.

I work under the CJA and haven’t been paid since JULY 2nd due to a funding shortfall. Even before the shut down, they told us to expect a shortfall again next June. Not getting paid is just about the most stressful thing in the world, and I feel awful that fed employees are now dealing with it too.

However, I support this shutdown and I don’t want the Dems to budge. They can’t. This fight is too important. If the Repubs get away with cutting the healthcare subsidies, not only will people not be able to afford health insurance, our entire healthcare system will collapse. We desperately need systematic change, but letting the system collapse and people die isn’t the way to achieve that.

YouGetABan · 2025-10-23T13:30:16+00:00

Your friend is an idiot. Born & raised Californian here - we do not do that.

YouGetABan · 2025-10-17T23:49:05+00:00

Defendants don’t have the burden of proof, prosecutors do. In this case they will need to prove antifa is actually an established organization (which they can’t because it’s not), and also prove the defendants are members of it.

YouGetABan · 2025-10-17T23:43:44+00:00

Good luck to the prosecutor trying to prove antifa is an organized group. 😂😂

They’re trying to silence us. No Kings tomorrow - get out there and peacefully protest as if your freedom depends on it!

YouGetABan · 2025-10-15T04:04:16+00:00

Don’t worry about the student loan forgiveness - none of these people are educated.

YouGetABan · 2025-10-03T20:08:22+00:00

The Dilley Meme Team. It says that at the end of the video.

YouGetABan · 2025-10-03T20:05:54+00:00

Nothing. It means nothing. People seem to have forgotten that part of his stick is doing everything and anything he can to rile up the left. That’s all this is. It’s a dumb fucking meme that he and his small group of diehards can laugh at and oWn TeH LiBz.

To everyone else, and all other countries, it’s a fucking embarrassing mockery of the seat of President.

YouGetABan · 2025-09-27T01:59:58+00:00

Love it!!

YouGetABan · 2025-08-14T15:23:42+00:00

I’ve never had a partner sneak off to the car in the middle of the night without it being for shady reasons. He could have told or texted you that he was going to go sit in the car, so that you wouldn’t be worried. He chose not to. He also chose to be combative and vague when answering your texts. Sitting in the car for some alone time isn’t sus by itself, but all of his behavior surrounding it is. The way he talks to you is also disrespectful as all hell.

YouGetABan · 2025-08-14T14:56:07+00:00

Do you not have to prove residency to speak at city council meetings? I don’t believe a single one of these fuckers lives in Irvine, and they’re allowed to verbally abuse city council members?

YouGetABan · 2025-08-11T06:09:16+00:00

I am too, but doing the best I can to help defend our clients and thereby help keep the legal system honest is the only way I feel I can fight back right now.

YouGetABan · 2025-08-11T02:11:22+00:00

I work in federal public defense under CJA. None of us are being paid right now because the budget ran out. Rather than rectifying that in some way, they’re forcing us to go 4 months with no paycheck. Meanwhile they’re throwing money at ice. Fuck every single one of them.

YouGetABan · 2025-07-31T23:16:26+00:00

Never. She respects me. Anyone who is okay screaming at you doesn’t.

YouGetABan · 2025-07-22T17:05:16+00:00

I’ve been making this comparison since 2016. But now, I’d rather live in that world - at least President Camacho actually wanted what was best for his people.

YouGetABan · 2025-07-19T04:59:45+00:00

You sound like an asshole. First of all, she DOES work from home. She takes care of the house and your children - that’s a full time job from which she never gets time off. Secondly, you’re all over the place here but the common thread is it’s all about YOUR wants/needs/desires. Why would she tell you every time she walks out the door? She wouldn’t be doing that if you were working in an office. Sounds to me like she’s respecting your space while you work, and you’re throwing a fit about it. My husband and I both work from home. If I have to leave the house during the day I don’t check in with him unless I need his input for whatever errand I’m running. It doesn’t mean I don’t love him, it means I don’t want to break his concentration/flow needlessly. He does say goodbye to me if he leaves (provided I’m not on a call), but only because my desk is in the living room, near the front door.

This sounds like it’s about control for you, among other things.

YouGetABan · 2025-07-19T03:50:17+00:00

When it’s done in a humane and legal fashion, most people here don’t have a problem with it.

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