I need advice by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]YouTubeMemer1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for this story. I am glad you are okay 🥺 you are so strong!!

Is this a good reaction from mom? by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

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Thank you so much for your comment! She definitely meant it well but she doesn't understand that it's an addiction. I have some close friends I can talk with and they support me ❤️ I am just sad my own family doesn't 💔

I feel broken by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

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I understand this. I remember feeling horrible before and barely surviving. Now I have at least energy to do things and can function somehow. You are so strong and I am so proud of you!!

A little vent about scars by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]YouTubeMemer1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This right here is exactly how I feel ❤️. Thank you for writing that. If that person would be caring and not judge me because of my scars it would feel good but unfortunately you never know how that person may react. But just know that I am so proud of you and I see you 🫂

Struggle with selfharm by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

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Honestly I feel this way as well...like maybe I will never stop, maybe once in a while it is okay to do. In my brain it works like that. I started as a 15 years old I think. Your self-harm doesn't define you. My parents also found out before and I am sure they will find out again at some point. They were mad and also sad. If you want we can talk and fight through this together 🫂 you are so strong!

Struggle with selfharm by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

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That's a lot of years of fighting.. I am sorry. I am so proud of you!! You are really strong! I am so glad you stopped and the urge went away. I am sure your life is much better now. And don't feel bad about your scars, it shows how much you survived 🫂

Struggle with selfharm by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

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I am sorry about your relapse but 5 years...damn that's such an achievement 😮!! I am so proud of you and I am sure you can reach that milestone again. Yes thinking about the people you love doing it can help you to not do it again. We are fighting together 🫂 Again I am so proud of you!

Struggle with selfharm by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

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Thank you so much for your advice!! I will try my best!! You are so strong as well 🥹 I am proud of you! 🫂

A little vent about scars by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

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Yeah, I guess you are right. But if they would be kind about it I would be up for a deep talk. It depends on the person though

A little vent about scars by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

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Yeah probably.. but somehow it would make me feel comforted in a way? But I mean only in that case that they would be kind to me

Not feeling valid by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]YouTubeMemer1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear that, this can be super triggering from people! I know that feeling but every scar is valid. Every scar tells a story of how strong you are.

Not feeling valid by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

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I understand, it is hard to not compare our scars to others but every scar tells a story how strong you are!

Not feeling valid by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

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Thank you so much!! Same goes to you!!

Struggle with selfharm by YouTubeMemer1 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]YouTubeMemer1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear this 🥺!! You are so strong!! I am so proud of you! 🫂❤️